If your partner is the kindest to you when they're happy but has the coldest heart to you when they're upset, do they really care?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain whether or not someone cares based on their behavior in certain situations. However, it's important to consider whether their behavior is reflective of a larger pattern of behavior or a one-time occurrence.

If your partner consistently treats you poorly or has a pattern of being cold and distant when they're upset, it may be a red flag that they do not value or respect your feelings. However, if their behavior is a one-time occurrence or is due to a specific stressor or issue, it's possible that they still care for you but are struggling to express themselves in a healthy way.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns, and to work together to find a solution that works for both of you. If your partner is unwilling or unable to work on improving the relationship, it may be necessary to reevaluate whether the relationship is healthy and fulfilling for you.

[Valkyria]

Upset people usually take it out on the ones they love the most. It isn't healthy, but that's just how it is, they can trust that you won't harm them because of it. When it's over, they'll be fine again. Either that, or they're really depressed and are testing you to see if you actually like them: they say they hate you or etc. (which is actually them saying they hate themselves), what they really want is for you to show that you don't hate them.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

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