My boyfriend threatened me if I have this baby, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I’m 22 he's 26 and I’m 4 months pregnant. I find out the gender next week. He was so happy at the start and wanted me to have it so apart of me thought you know what maybe this will all work out for me. It didn’t. He’s now screaming on the phone to me crying saying abort it or I’ll do this to myself outside your house and blame you. He turned up to my house the other day and said he had a knife to his kneck and if I don’t do this he’ll do this and blame it all on me since it’s outside my house. He called me 10 times saying I’m ruining his life and that he will harm himself and is texting his mom saying it’s all my fault that he is dead. Please help me what do I do? What if I’m responsible for this I don’t want to get rid of my baby? I keep lying saying oh I’ll get rid of it then and then he calms down and just acts normal and is happy but I don’t want to get rid of it. I’ve seen the scan and hesrtbeat and I’ve even bought a flat for all of us when he wanted the baby and I’ve bought everything I don’t want to get rid of it. I sent him are text saying I am keeping it but im so scared, am I responsible for his life? I said if he keeps showing to my house I’ll have no choice but to call the police because he’s outside my house in his car waiting for me to open the gate and go out to him. He always carries knives to I don’t know what he’s capable off. I’m so worried he will harm himself and it will be all my fault

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult and stressful situation. It's important to prioritize your own safety and the safety of your baby.

First and foremost, you are not responsible for your boyfriend's actions. His threats and behavior are not acceptable, and you should not feel pressured to make any decisions based on his threats.

You may want to consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support, or seeking professional help such as a therapist or counselor. It's important to have a support system in place during this difficult time.

You may also want to consider getting a restraining order against your boyfriend to protect yourself and your baby. If he continues to threaten or harm himself, it's important to contact emergency services immediately.

Ultimately, the decision to keep or terminate the pregnancy is yours and yours alone. It's important to make the decision that is best for you and your well-being, without feeling pressured by your boyfriend's threats.

Please remember that you are not alone, and there are resources and people available to help you through this difficult time.

[Adaeva]

Dump him and move. I really don't have much patience for fools.

[riverrat3]

Get rid of boyfriend