They say living your best life is the ultimate revenge. Do you agree?

[coachTanthony]

Yes

No

see poll ( Revenge is a dish best served cold )

[Paradisepup36390]

Vengeance is egoic, and futile. When you let yourself go to such havoc and sadistic devising, you waste your time and your own power, which should be invested in working on yourself and living the best life possible, and for higher purposes such as oneness with God.

Your question incites a desire for retribution, and you must bury that egoic desire now, and move on.

It will serve no constructive purpose to "get back" at others. Anger, rage, madness, disappointment, frustrations, wrath, and other compulsive lower desires of this heated nature, can only be healed if you let it all go.

You must be patient, kind, and Considerate of others, even to those who wronged you. But most importantly, you must sit on your urges. Do not wish your ill will on others, for you only wish ill will on yourself by extension, for that mindset is what you're emulating by thinking of such poor, devilish, and depraved things.

Be pure in Heart, Leave Others Alone and Tend to your business. Vengeance doesn't solve anything, and you know that now if you didn't before.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I'm a little bit poetic and don't mind dying based on a dumb cause. So if someone pushes my buttons enough and crosses enough lines, I don't think it's bad to ruin my life to bring us both to hell, so to speak, that I bring them down with me. Most of the time, I think the saying is good for people, but most people are very boring with unexciting lives. I don't find a general wisdom in most people unless I want to live their same and boring lives. Plummeting together with my ultimate enemy seems way more fun than what they're doing.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

The one thing I do agree is that passionate and angry and malicious vengeful is self-destructive. But I don't think it's as much the case for curious and artistic vengeance.

[Sour-rose]

You know, I have to agree. Just knowing a girl who said she didn't like me but is probably still working at that same job where they make you sell and they don't give a shi about in general, yes. It is truly the greatest revenge to live the best life that will be much better than them... and they'll never expect you go so high in life.

[Genie23]

I feel bad for people who do things not for personal their growth and happiness but for revenge. Move on. Stop thinking about past and your ex. Live a good life for yourself not to prove to your ex that you're having a good time without him/her. That's just sad.

[RationalMale]

Agree so much, like guys and girls who workout for "revenge bodies." It's sad.

[Genie23]

@RationalMale Exactly. I know some people like that. But you know even after achieving that look, he was still not satisfied/content with himself. He added his ex and post pictures like that to see whether she saw his picture. I told him (bluntly as a friend) That's pathetic. he need to move on and understand that if he gives so much power to a person who's no longer in your life you're only making sure that you'll stay sad deep down but pretend to be happy. If only people could understand that.

[DizzyDesii]

Living is a blessing in itself. Best life or nof. ain't nobody worried about gettin revenge

[slatyb]

Here's one data point -- some years after my wife and I split, I happened to meet a casual acquaintance of my ex. She said "Oh, you're the ex? All she talks about is you." I very rarely thought of her.

[sheenagwapa]

I don't know my priority in life right now is Jesus and i don't even like the word revenge just that word alone yoy already lose because you care so for me technically the biggest revenge is not carinh at all and moving forward with your life

[electromagnetic]

If you werent living your best life while with them, you weren’t living at all. Life shouldn’t changed based on whom entered and exited. Prioritize yourself first always.

[Makeushiver]

It sounds like a way to seek a problem that doesn't exist. If one seeks revenge against life, it doesn't sound like a skillfully led life. I do get what you mean, esp. if you've worked hard. Maybe consider just living well no revenge

[LiamJHayden]

I don't bother wasting energy on revenge, but I do intend to live my best life.

[Dj_Rock]

U need a guy?

[bean2k21]

100%. In the words of Jefferson Davis 'All we ask is to be left alone.' Finally he got his wish and the South now has the best schools, best economy, and the cleanest air.

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm living the dream in my own dream, style 😋👀✌🏻☮️☮️

[AsaKyo]

I'm never gonna live my best life and I'm already 21, so I don't know how to really answer this lmao...

[genericname85]

i don't believe in revenge. every second even thinking about revenge is a second wasted on negativity. just move on.

[Keishio]

If your focus is revenge then you're not living your own life. You're living in the shadow of someone else's decisions which are influencing your actions

[exitseven]

Yes, but giving them a good beat down is good too.

[imawfulatusernames]

Of course. In the words of Taylor swift I forgot what you existed that is absolutely the best I won the break up

[shades777]

Revenge is an immature thought, maturity would say to let go and move on.


Better to use that energy improving your life

[Aairs]

That's entirely true. Plus legally watertight.

[Anonymous]

best revenge is seeing the other person who wronged you dead

[Ms_Facesitter]

As long as you do it for you.

[es20490446e]

I don't need revenge. Trolling yes.

[Britney04]

💯 plus it pissed them off more.

[LovrUFFAllls]

Do you mind discussing LGBTQ topics? :)

[Anonymous]

A revenge on who exactly?

[Yucy_Gluttony]

YEAH

[welcomemen]

Yes, I agree

[noohair]

Blissful solitude.