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Tell you it this way, I have always said I never had sex ever in my life, YES, IN THE WORLD OF SEX I'D BE A VIRGIN, MY SIGN IS ALSO VIRGO THE VIRGIN. However, in the world of love, I'd be guilty as charged. Simply, I always made love, never sex. I come from the tribe where Adam and Eve never bit the apple, they just chewed on it and sucked all of it's juice and then spat it out in the face of the Devil. Therefore they got the knowledge but not the sin. In fact they are still running around in Eden butt-fuck naked and fucking away their time, and I came from that Adam and that Eve, not yours.
So obviously, my language is the song of the soul, of passion, obsession, romance, ambiance and radioactive lust. A language where honesty is absolute and selfless giving is a word on every line of that fuck song. A language where coitus means a connection to oneness. Man, I have been there, only not often enough. I have been to a place where I thought I no longer existed as myself. The Goddess just took me in her and absorbed me. I existed only as an organ of her , like I was inside a cabbage of layers. Her legs wrapped around me , one layer. Her pussy wrapping around me another. Her arms hugging me, yet another layer. Her lips and tongue wrapping me in another two layers, and the fucking strong shudder in both her legs while she was sitting on my crossed legged thighs made my whole body tremble with her and I could not make out which layer was which. I felt the only thrusting was caused by the shivers, since she was sitting on me so I was immobile anyway. But I just felt like, I was just her kidney or liver or something. I am just gone dude, fucking gone, the bitch absorbed me. That's my kind of lingo, ( wouldn't call it a language) of love.
So what when I can't get my language? Well I try and gently try coaxing her, but you can't take a person where they don't want to or don't have the ability at that time or through you to go there. I believe, and Tantra says so, that every woman and every man, have their special ultimate lover that can unlock their sensual energies to the max. Their sort of Fuck-mate as apposed to soul-mate. It also says that your soul-mate could also be ur fuck-mate or as they say cosmic mate, but it does not have to be, often they could be different. ( I guess ur mistress or male-mistress , if there was such a word). Well as long as the girl is an honest and genuine lover it's beautiful to the max for me. I'll always try coaxing her though, and dream that one day I'll light the bitch on fire. However, I cannot ask for more. But if the bitch is a false put on , I'll still try my best to get something going , I would still be most giving with her till the end, that's what I am. But I'll never give her a clue, that I think she is a false bitch, I am too polite, but any next times will be a strain for me.
Physical touch is my preferred way. Why? No small talk is needed as I am a man with a few words. Talking make me nervous so I appreciate with mutual physical bonding. Physical touch is also free, no money required. Doing little touch is like spending quality time together.
My top 3 are:
- Words of Affirmation
- Quality Time
- Physical Touch
Words of Affirmation - This one is important to me because it's always nice to hear that the guy you're with really appreciates what you do for him or tells you that you're beautiful and actually means it, or compliments what you're wearing or tells you something you can do to add a little glam to your look (not in an asshole way ofc). Or basically what was on the post picture, really lmao.
Quality Time - Spending time with the person you're with is important because it really helps you connect to them as a person and see many different sides to them. It also makes you feel special and them feel special. Someone actually being happy about spending time with you feels great... lmao 🥹
Physical Touch - What can I say? I just love hugs. I mean I'm not saying intimacy wouldn't be bad either, but I would be fine with just hugs, kisses and snuggles more than that.
If I had to choose just one, though, it would be quality time
Three of them, lol. Quality time is a must followed by physical touch and words of affirmation so I'd know he hasn't taken me for granted and how much I mean to him until we reach to a point where I'm confident he really loves me and won't ever take me for granted... In that case, I'd want Quality time and Physical touch often... And words of affirmation is something I'd appreciate once in months or a year, lol.
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Im such a mix it’s not even funny
English, because I can understand it.
My love languages are Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, and then Physical Touch.
Quality Time is the most important to me because it means I get to spend time with the other person, have a good time, and get to know them!
Words of Affirmation come RIGHT after Quality Time for me, it's a huge secondary for sure. Mainly because I need to know that I am valuable/valuable to that person, and that they aren't around me or doing things for me just because of routine, etc. If you give me a good compliment, you'll forever have a certain place in my heart and I'll be able to remember that you thought that of me. However, I do need them more often because I want to know that you still feel the same way, and that it's not an outdated compliment and that you don't feel that way anymore.
Physical Touch is there... I do really appreciate Physical Touch because of the comfort and warmth of just being touched by someone. Sometimes it's difficult to do this because I don't want others to feel uncomfortable by touch (because some people do), but when others feel comfortable enough to touch it means a lot and I feel a lot happier and cozy with them.
Um I kinda do all of them
Words are hard for me because I was taught to keep my mouth shut and my feelings don't matter so I'm better at writing them down so I write my husband letters and notes with the reasons I love him.
I make different food depending on his mood like if I know he's been having a shitty day
I'll make his favorite food or I'll leave snacks in his bookbag or something to make his day better
I'll pick up some of his chores so he has less to do and can relax.
My preferred is Words of affirmation but not exactly the compliments regarding physical appearance. More so I need them to be a great talker and listener... someone who can verbally express their love for me, how I inspire them, if they’re proud of me, etc. Poetry is also very big to me. Sending me songs with meaningful lyrics is very important to me. Communication in general is everything to me. My second love language would be quality time.
My top two
-Physical Touch
-Quality Time
These make it real hard for me when I have to go away from my friends. When they don't text me for long periods of time I feel unloved and insecure. I really have to spend time with that person.
Quality Time and Physical Touch.
I do communicate to my boyfriend about needing them and honestly he never tries to do them.
I feel bad giving up because I do love him and it’s been 4 years, but at the same time I think I’m at the point where I may have to leave if he doesn’t start trying.
Acts of services. It shows she is making effort, investing time and energy for your happiness. It is a great sacrifice and a real proof of love. Same with quality time.
I don't value words, as they demand no effort and can easily be lies.
I don't value gifts since I don't value money.
Physical touch also demands no effort. It can also easily be used to lie.
I don't have one, none of those fit me especially physical touch, there are only 3 types of people I allow to touch me, doctors, nurses and my massage therapist. Hugs actually hurt me and I don't know why, I don't even know why being touched bothers me so much, when I was a kid and thought I had friends I was fine with physical touch but as an adult, it's just pain.
I often find myself doing all of these when in a relationship and liking it, but I would say either words of affirmation or physical touch. Physical touch though is a complicated one, since I do like it quite a lot, but I also do not
Mine is physical. I believe once you are connected on the physical level and reach a place where you are experimenting openly without the fear of judgement and you both do it for enjoyment not duty. Then you would reach the ultimate level of connecting
Quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch
I loved getting Acts of Service, I just took a test and that’s my result.
Quality time and if my partner wasn't willing to put in that effort after speaking to them I'd walk.
I'm AOS and PT. My wife is WAF, GG and QT. Go figure.
I'm probably AOS because I really am good at so many things I have learned. And I can't imagine anyone not really liking PT- really!
I generally cooked for them , take care of them but now realising I was so stupid. Most women don't care for guys cooking for them , they want to be taken out to expensive places or want smooth talking men. Words, promises , money spending works on women more for women. That's why bad boys are so successful with women.
Women see nurturing men as girly or weak. At least that's what they have even told me.
Physical touch, words of affirmation and quality time.
Non of this is move language.
You need to talk you idiot!
Body language isn't there. You must be fucking retarded!
My preferred love languages are Acts of Service and Quality Time.
I also use Words of Affirmation, but less compared to the first two.
Words of affirmation the n physical touch and then time follows closely at 3rd
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