I am in love with a married russian man what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I am Turkish. I didn't know he was married when we first met, but later found out. I have no relationship with him. but i love him so much. I know this is bad but my heart is breaking.

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Guys, I haven't texted for a whole day. but he came back and sent a message actually i'm a little scared

[GallopAcrossEurope]

As another Russian man, let me tell you this - tempting a married Russian guy either ends up with him thoroughly standing up for his wife and likely cutting off all contact, or him thoroughly depressed because he cheated on her. If you love him, please respect his commitment and just remain friends.

Also, you don't want to get on the bad side of his wife. Judging how my mother reacted to my dad even having another unknown woman near him, she's likely to make your life a living hell for trying to steal him, and that kind of overprotective behavior is encouraged in Russia. Sorry to tell you this, but it might be better off in the long term to just remain friends.

[DermalPunch]

This isn't exclusive to Russians. This is a cheating married man thing. When he squeezes on the juice out of this situation he will go find new lemons.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

@DermalPunch It's particularly toxic in Russia. Trust me, the scandal and social isolation that follows after that in Russia can be massive.

[DermalPunch]

Well, good.

[In_Trance]

Find someone else

[Asker]

No, I can't. he is a man like my dream i love him so much

[In_Trance]

A married man is not a dream; it's a nightmare

[Asker]

My heart hurts

[In_Trance]

Your mind knows better

[Spongebobssocks]

You have to look away and start dating someone else. No matter how you feel

[Asker]

It doesn't come out of my head. he is a man like my dream

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah but still keep your morals higher than your needs. Otherwise you choose chaos. Maybe talk to a therapist

[Spongebobssocks]

Thankyou for MHO

[DermalPunch]

You know what to do. You for whatever reason don't want to...

[strateguy632]

my opinion is respect his commitment to marriage. distract yourself by finding other people. same as you dont want your husband cheating with other ladies. about hope for divorce? see video "look who's talking 1989" forget it forget him and stay away.

[Asker]

I love him so much

[RasmusAiken]

If you truly love him you will want the very best for him and that is for him to stay in the relationship he is now committed to. Don't be tempted to take what is not yours.

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[Steelcore5280]

Leave him alone and don't be a homewrecker. Especially if he has kids and a family going on.

[Asker]

they have no children. but i loved him so much

[Ben487]

Well he's taken so there is nothing you can do.

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺🥺😑😑 nooo i want

[MementoMori777]

Move on, there's nothing to do

[Gent207-2]

One word: RUN

[Asker]

Whyyyy

[Gent207-2]

He's married
What's time sauce he won't do likewise

[Anonymous]

They're a psychopath society, stay away.

[Asker]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

We are talking about a society that enjoys the game of Russian roulette.

[Asker]

can you write me on instgram

[Opinion Owner]

Lol no

[Asker]

ok it's your choice. I just wanted to share my problem and get some information.