Boyfriend brings home a plate from his kids mom house?

[Anonymous]

Should I be mad at my boyfriend for bringing home a plate from his kids mother house? He went there to put up blinds in his daughters room & also pick up the kids. She’d already left for work by the time she got there & he decided to make him a plate of leftovers. Am I wrong for being irritated.

I would be mad

It’s not a big deal

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel irritated or uncomfortable if your boyfriend brought home a plate from his kids' mother's house, especially if you have concerns about their relationship or history. However, it's important to approach the situation with an open mind and to communicate openly with your boyfriend about your feelings.

Before jumping to conclusions or getting upset, try to have a calm and non-judgmental conversation with your boyfriend about why he brought home the plate and how it makes you feel. It's possible that he didn't think it would be a big deal or didn't realize it would make you uncomfortable.

It's also important to consider the context of their relationship and whether there are any underlying issues or concerns that need to be addressed. If you feel like their relationship or communication is a source of tension or insecurity for you, it may be worth discussing this with your boyfriend and finding ways to address any underlying issues.

It's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with in your relationship and to communicate your needs and boundaries clearly with your partner. It's important to prioritize open and honest communication and to work together to find solutions that work for both of you.

[Asker]

Great points! Thanks.

[mb120101]

Not at all and i think it would be worse if he wasn't involved with his kids mom it makes him a good father. My parents divorced when i was 14 and they still help each other out, and it makes me glad because some other divorcees aren't able to put their differences aside

[mb120101]

They both moved on with different partners and focus on their family (my disabled brother)

[Anemone978]

It isn't a big deal if they wanted to be together they would.. she probably just left it for him because he put up the blinds for her..

[In_Trance]

Incredible

[Iron_Man]

What’s the big deal about getting some food?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A plate is a plate & as long as he brings you a plate life is good.

[Anonymous]

you're both wrong and petty for being upset.

[Sasha0426]

Yes! Good God, it’s just food 🤦‍♀️