What do I do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me over a snarky comment I made during an argument and I don't know how to deal. I really love him and don't want our relationship to end over my smart mouth.

This isn't the first time and I think he's tired of me and it.

How do I deal? He's not responding to my text. I already called him and that didn't go well. He hung up on me. What do I do?

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Update: So we talked and he apologized. Thanks guys for the pep talk and for being right!

[Anonymous]

It can be difficult to navigate a situation where you feel like your relationship is in jeopardy, especially when communication is breaking down. Here are some steps you can take:

1. Take some time to reflect on your behavior and try to understand how your snarky comment might have hurt your boyfriend. It's important to take responsibility for your actions and apologize sincerely for any hurt you may have caused.

2. Reach out to your boyfriend and apologize for your comment. Be genuine and specific in your apology, and let him know that you understand how your words may have been hurtful. Avoid making excuses or placing blame, and focus on expressing remorse and a desire to make things right.

3. Give him some space and time to process his feelings. It's possible that he needs some time to cool off and think things through. Respect his need for space and avoid bombarding him with messages or calls, as this may only make things worse.

4. Be open to having a conversation when he is ready. If your boyfriend is willing to talk things out, approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to listen. Try to understand his perspective and be empathetic to his feelings.

5. Be prepared for the possibility that your relationship may not work out. It's important to be realistic about the situation and accept that some relationships are not meant to be. If your boyfriend does decide to end things, try to learn from the experience and use it as an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection.

Remember that communication, honesty, and empathy are key to any healthy relationship. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your wise advice and insight. I will do just that!

[Opinion Owner]

You’re very welcome

[lorenzomichael]

If he likes you then he likes you. You girls can say all kinds of shit to us, we're still going to be with you. I never hear any guy breaking up with his girlfriend over something she said. But listen if you know you should apologize then apologize, but dont kiss his ass. And lie tell him he said something to you. He'll deny it because he didn't say anything. Be persistent say "yeah you did you just forgot". He'll say sorry then you say " me too" then it's back to normal. Love is a crazy thing. That's why they say " crazy little thing called love"...

[Asker]

I sure hope you're right.

[lorenzomichael]

I believe I am. you'll be ok you'll see.😁

[Asker]

Haha you were right. He apologized to me. And I did the same.

[Twalli]

It depends on what you told him. If you haven't yet, tell him that when you're arguing you say things designed to get a reaction, you don't actually mean them though.

[Asker]

Ok I will.

[Asker]

Thanks

[MementoMori777]

What you say tho? You left that out 😂

[Asker]

Well he was saying you know how this conversation is going to go. Why have it? And I said right. You checking out like you always do.

[MementoMori777]

That's it? Seems somewhat sensitive of his part

[MementoMori777]

You can always apologize to make him feel better

[Asker]

I did apologize during our phone call. I texted him an apology too and he hasn't text me back.

[MementoMori777]

Well he's acting like a whole bitch not gonna lie, no offense... well best of luck with that I guess, I hope he responds soon

[Asker]

Thanks. I hope so too.

[Jamie05rhs]

What did you say?

[Jamie05rhs]

Nvm. I saw your answer to @MementoMori777.