Why do I feel like I'm being unfaithful even though we're not in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Met guy A and we've been talking for six months now, started talking to guy B a month before our (my date with guy A) first date (took us months before our 1st date). I felt like I was being a bore to guy A and thought 'what if he doesn't like me after seeing me in real life' and THANKFULLY ✨ he did. Guy B feels like the kind of guy who'll just leave you stranded in the middle of nowhere, and I don't wanna be put in the same light he sees all women. Me and guy A aren't in a relationship yet, we just going out on dates and getting through all the four seasons first, we've been through three already and I feel like I'm getting to know him more as we go through these seasons. How do I tell guy B I'm not interested without hurting his feelings? Thank you.

[Iron_Man]

Never get two guys involved and talking together separately and dating this is very bad flirting or making plans for the future even if you’re not committed you were still dating both of them you must think that this is the bachelor. Or Something and who knows if you’re even kissing them both or whatever else you’re doing it makes bad business for all of you. And you might just lose both of them, serves you right if I ever found a girl like that I wouldn’t give her a second opportunity

[Asker]

We're not involved in sexual relations. And a girl like what 👀?

[EricSummer]

This will not really need any specific explanation. The next time B asks you for a date you just decline. You can say that it was nice talking to him or meeting him, but that you best leave it at that now.

I mean few guys would insist until you tell him that it's not going to work out between you and that you are now with A. He will get it already.

[boggboss]

If thats the type of guy u see from him telling him u don't wanna get with him won't hurt him lol

[boggboss]

And as for why u might feel that way maybe because thats what u want from relationship a already so u are treating it like u are together even when u are not or maybe not treating it but preparing for that shift

[Asker]

Makes sense though I don't see us that way cause there's still a lingering doubt of what if's.

[Asker]

He doesn't know and he doesn't have to know, hehe

[boggboss]

No thats true

[talka20]

Be as honest as u can... and better if u tell him over a meet up

[Asker]

Me going out with guy B would give him the wrong impression I feel.

[Anonymous]

Don't feel like that. Go with your gut feeling.