Is my boyfriend being unfaithful?

[Anonymous]

He has known this girl from work for around a month and has been acting strangely. So first of all I don’t mind him having girls as friends as a matter of fact he went to the gym with her and I had no concerns. However recently I had a bad day at work and he casually said how he was on the phone to her for 2 hours and I snapped and said it was weird. He made me seem like I was weird for saying that it was and that she is just a friends I said sorry and that was that. But now I’ve noticed other things, he takes his phone everywhere with him now, he’s constantly messaging her on his phone and when I’m close he gets off it. I confronted him about this and how I’m really sad that he’s lying and keeping things from me and he said he’s only doing it because he doesn’t want me to be angry that he’s speaking to her? All the time he puts the blame onto me when I know that he would be sad if I was doing this to him. He’s making me out to be a psycho when I can’t help it if he’s doing this to me. Sorry for the long rant I literally have no one to talk to about this. Have I got a right to be concerned about this?

[Guy13]

It is NEVER good to accept a girl/man relationship when a girl/boyfriend relationship exists, PERIOD…this is why I declared such a thing:

[Guy13]

Firstly, a man/woman relationship comes to be through Attraction. There was something physical that drew the two together. This core never changes and overtime strengthens through emotional sharing. Love is often established and it usually is Phia (brotherly love). It also, sometimes, contains Eros (sexual love). You never know the truth as there could have been friends with benefits. Odds are there is a sexual tension and a reason for concern. If a man values you….

[Guy13]

Our discussion should be broached in the dating process. Certainly in the first 4 months and months and months before sexually intimate. In your case, the window of opportunity probably has passed. IF any man/woman loves deeply another, they will recognize the insecurity that a man/female relationship causes AND back off it a little bit…LOTS ‼️ It is about making you priority and any good friend knows and expects this. I just hang out in background awaiting the “bottom fell out” calls. I dare not act as if “I’m just as close to her, as you are Boyfriend.”

If there is smoke 💨 💨💨💨 then there is usually 🔥. Sorry 😞.

[Danny_dan92]

He’s cheating. Leave the relationship