My brothers fiance makes me feel isolated and lonely. What can I do about this?

[Balletlover98]

My brothers fiance will talk to anyone else and ignore me. I try to make conversation and she won't talk.

My family say she is just shy but when we went out for my younger brothers 21st she would talk to my brothers and ignored me. Thus was when the 5 of us arrived at the venue.

When she arrived at the house my brother she is engaged to said hi to me and she just continued looking at her phone. My brother made conversation with my while she stayed silent.

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My mam wasn't happy with me when i stuck up for my brother when his fiance would put him down, saying he didn't know how to do certain things, that he takes his time and other stuff

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Someone in the family brought up about my eldest broghers wedding and all i said was i can't wait to see what the bridesmaid dresses would be like. I was given out to by my mam for saying that

[ZackBan]

Easy.

You invite her out just the two of you.

You take her to a boxing gym.

You give her some gloves and you say "if you think you're gonna marry into my family you gotta lay me out first"

The boxing match would be a bonding experience and right after you can go for some drinks and trust me she'll talk

[MementoMori777]

Ask your brother what's up with her

[Balletlover98]

I've done that before and he just says she is shy. I see her chat away to everybody

[MementoMori777]

Then I don't know what to tell you

[saint_reezy]

Complain to your brother.

[Balletlover98]

He won't listen
He just says i don't say much to her

[saint_reezy]

Try not talking to him anymore haha

[saint_reezy]

It’s a problem, you guys are almost family. When she does start talking to you, its probably going to be mean. Tell your brother to fix this before you guys become family. You dont want to be pushed out of your own family right? If thats how she going to make you feel, you’re going to have to take action now

[saint_reezy]

Tell him how you feel.

[saint_reezy]

Just ignore her from now on. Pretend she doesn't even exist. If she ever tries to talk to you look at your phone etc. or be as rude as possible. If she's going to act like she has a problem with you you can act like you have a problem with her.

[saint_reezy]

If she tries to be mean just roll eyes like did anybody hear anything.

[saint_reezy]

Lol or just straight up tell everybody that she's annoying

[Balletlover98]

I've done that and i'm being given out to for that. He's with her almost 24/7. I didn't see him on my birthday as he was with her.