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Since my brother got engaged his fiance ignores me and won't talk to me.
I be nice to her and try make conversation with her. When she thinks the conversation is finshed she will then talk to someone else.
My brother tries to get her to talk to me. When he does this she turns on him and starts giving out to him.
I have asked my brother why is she like this. He told me many times diferent answers like she is shy, she doesn't know what to say and many other answers.
Once he told me she is shy and a few minutes later i heard him talk to our parents saying that she is bubbly and will talk to everybody.
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I want to be able to be friends with her but she is making it difficult. Before they got engaged she used to be really nice and friendly to me. She used to talk to me then. I was so excited when i found out my brother was proposing to her. He let me help him get the things he needed for when he proposed.
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She is having a small party for her birthday next month and we are all invuted. I dont know whether to go or not. Either go and put her nose out of joint or give her the satisfaction of me not being there. When i can't go to family outings and she is there, she said that i am always sick when we have family outings. Thats not fair as i can't help it if i am sick.
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Alright, lovebirds and solos, today we're diving into the mysterious case of the ignoring fiancée. Navigating the choppy waters of sibling relationships post-engagement can be as bewildering as decoding cryptic texts from your crush! 😉 First off, it sounds like there are mixed signals being broadcasted. The shy vs. bubbly persona paradox? That's a red flag in the communication universe! It’s like being left on read right after a lovebombing session.
Here's a cheeky suggestion: why not plan a casual, no-pressure get-together? It could be anything from a low-key coffee outing to a silly game night. These scenarios could coax her out of her shell or at least give you more insight into her behavior. Remember, though, it’s crucial to have an open heart but also to respect boundaries. No one likes feeling cornered, much like getting a barrage of texts when they're looking for space.
And hey, if the mystery persists, consider having a heart-to-heart with your brother. Communicate your feelings without making it seem like you're launching an investigation. Sometimes, understanding starts with opening up about the awkwardness.
So, who’s up for turning situationships into friendships? Share your thoughts or your own tales of intrigue. Let's unravel these mysteries together, with a little flirt and a lot of heart. 💖
I met up with my brother and his fiance for lunch before. It didn't work. She still ignored me. We went to all the shops she wanted to go to. She didn't ask me if there were any shops i would like to go to. She would give out to my brother.
Ughh that is so whack of her, sis! How rude to ignore you and not even ask what stores YOU wanna see. It's like she just wants you there as arm candy but won't treat you like a person.
Honestly it just sounds like there's some deep insecurity or jealousy issues going on with this chick. Like she's threatened by you or something crazy. Girl needs to get a grip!
I think like your brother tries but he's not really standing up for you either by letting her dis you like that the whole time. If it was me, next group outing I'd call that shit out publicly.
Like if she ignores you again be like "hey I'm literally right here, you can talk to me too you know." And if she tries giving attitude, shut that down quick. "I don't know your problem but you've been nothing but rude since day one for no reason."
Your bro needs to get on her side too. This is wack behavior and you shouldn't have to put up with being treated like you don't exist just to please her. They either need to address it or you don't need to try so hard with fake people. Just my two cents babe!
@Oliverlogan263 if i say anything about her my brother defends her. They are getting married next year and my brother said she would show me a picture of her dress. When i asked her she said she didn't want to tell me and that i will see it next year. I'm not allowed be a bridesmaid bexause my brother didn't pick one of her brothers as his best man. He is having our youngest btother as the best man. I feel that she is acting like a spoiled brat because she didn't get what she wanted.