Ex girlfriend told me she needs to find herself and decide what she wants?

[Anonymous]

Ex girlfriend told me she needs to find herself and decide what she wants? However she want me to stay in her life. Not sure what to do at this point.

[midnightmoon05]

She wants to make sure she has a backup while she “finds” herself with others.
when I found my man, he and I work together to grow together.

what do you want?

[DermalPunch]

She can go find herself by herself. Old trick for fickle people who are to scared to make decisions and deal with consequences. Don't let anyone put you on ice. No contact.

[Screenwriter]

Friendzoned. Do nothing. If she wants to contact you, she will. But don't put any eggs in her basket. Find someone else.

[strateguy632]

you dump her and look for someone else.

[In_Trance]

She wants to bang other guys