Is it true that when a woman is single she has to become more masculine to survive?

[KrakenAttackin]

But a single man doesn't have to become more feminine to survive. So which traits are more important to survival?

[meetkitty123]

More Masculine? Hell no.

I'm sorry but picking up a hammer and an electric drill isn't a masculine task nor is pushing a lawnmower.

In fact when I tend to my house or car I GUARANTEE YOU I'm wearing lacy silky matching underwear underneath my T and short shorts and yes if I feel like it I'll do these things with my mascara and lipstick on!

If I break one of my well manicured nails I'll be marching down to the salon afterwards and having it tended to.

Just because we ladies are single doesn't mean we are gonna go transgender on you guys.

I'll pick up an ax if I have to and I'll look fierce and sexy while swinging it too! I'll look hot even with grease smeared across my cheek after replacing my child bike chain.

Nothing about being single is going to make me less feminine. It's called being an adult.

Its no different if a single dad changes a diaper, rocks a baby to sleep, stitches closed a rip on a teddy bear, washes a sink full of sippy cups or pushes a Radio flyer stroll n trike down to the playground. None of these actions make him any less masculine.

[Lliam]

🎯🎯🎯

[meetkitty123]

@Lliam Gracias ❣️

[Lliam]

De nada, querida. :-)

[ManOnFire]

@meetkitty123 I would definitely agree with you. If anything I would say single women become more feminine or they at least work harder at it, in the hopes that it will attract a man.

[happyfoetus]

I would say, traits that you mostly associate with males, are quintessential to survive.

The issue is, traits you often associate with women like gentle, humble, kind and so on are easily taken for granted.

The thing with women is, people never really respect your boundaries or take you seriously. The worst part is, this disrespect comes from our own gender as well. Thus one has to resort to being stiff, brutal honest, blunt and sometimes aggressive and rude to protect themselves.

I have always resorted to violence and aggression to protect myself and my dear ones.

[KrakenAttackin]

@happyfoetus. I hardly associate women with "gentle, humble, and kind"; but your larger point is well taken.

[Peter_Penetrator]

If she chooses to be a single mother because she decided to eliminate her PMS (Putting up with Mens Shit) then she must be both mom and dad.
She has to raise her daughter to be feminine, tough, knowing how to deal with disrespectful boys/men, to be independent of men and what red flags to look for when choosing a boyfriend/husband. Then she has to be shotgun daddy when the hormone drenched werewolves come sniffing around.
She also needs to be a father figure to her son, teach him how to respect women, to be a responsible family man and a respectful member of society.



All that while a weak ass ex boyfriend/husband is off galavanting, or behind bars.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Peter_Penetrator. You just wrote the prologue to the book, "I am a Simp".

[Peter_Penetrator]

You talking to me? I ain’t no Simp.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yeah, yeah you are.

[Peter_Penetrator]

How is that. I am only describing what some single mothers must face.

How has that got anything to do with me?

[KrakenAttackin]

Single mothers are a cancer. Single mothers create their own problems, problems for their kids, and problems for society as a whole. Single mothers are killing the West.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Explain how that makes me a Simp?

[KrakenAttackin]

You are sticking up for single mothers and ridiculing the father's.

[KrakenAttackin]

Single mothers are not fucking heroes.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Neither. How can I, a father myself be ridiculing fathers. There are a lot of good fathers out there. You also have a lot of shitty fathers out there a shitty mothers that smoke, crack, hooked on oxy, and fathers that sue for and win full custody of our children. Being a parent ain’t easy. Male or female.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Oh. Now you got nothing to say. Menstrual Clot.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Peter_Penetrator. So the "hooked on oxy" guys, why would a woman allow these men to fill them with their seed? It all comes back to the choices women make.

[MrOracle]

It's less about being single and more about having a corporate job, which not all women will have even if they have a job. But, as a rule, if you have a high-earning job, it almost always is a high-stress job with plenty of internal politics, and those jobs require masculine traits and attitudes in order to survive, much less succeed.

There are lots of lower stress jobs and lots of women have those jobs, but the earnings potential tends to be a lot lower, so it can be a struggle if you are on a single income and living alone.

[Apple1996]

Well yeah its a man's world out there so to be single for either gender they'd have to be more masculine.

And not sure about the survival part tho like in a nature sense we all only survived because a woman (probably one with a lot of feminine energy) took care of us

[coachTanthony]

masculine traits in the workplace is necessary so they can move up in the company and compete with their male counterparts. This doesn't mean women have to lose their femininity.

[Lliam]

No. What a joke. It cracks me up that some men are threatened by women who don't have to depend on them to survive.

My wife and every girlfriend I was ever with had good jobs, rented their own places, and did well for themselves, but were as feminine as feminine can be.

I'm sicked by the notion that a woman isn't feminine unless she is meek and helpless.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Lliam. I think you are exaggerating the depth of the question.

[whirled_up_girl]

I guess I question your definition of more masculine. I mean if it’s solely having a job to survive well I work as a nurse. Many people still think of it as a feminine job though I don’t think of it as either since there are plenty of masculine men in the field.

[Luopio27]

Depends on who's expectations and hopes you are trying to live up to. There are countless men and women atracted to femine men and women, just as there are countless people atracted to masculine men and women.


Before making changes, recognise what you want. Standards go both ways so what are your standards?

[nastyb]

there are more female homeowners than male homeowners as of 2023. there are more females in college than men. i don't know where you got the idea that single females can't survive on her own so they need to act like men.

[KrakenAttackin]

They don't "act like men" but they do become more masculine.

[nastyb]

@KrakenAttackin

so what? men nowadays are becoming more feminine.

[KrakenAttackin]

In many ways,. yes.

[Anonymous]

In the current society I live in, it's heavily dominated by masculinity. In order for a woman to maintain a certain level of comfort and success, she has to match the standards and expectations. Since those are mainly masculine, women have to develop a more masculine approach.

[itsalyssaagain]

Yeah. You have to “take care” of yourself if that makes sense. It’s contextual but it can vary from financial to emotional.

[Adam1978]

Only in a harsh societies, Not in most western countries.

[Exterminatore]

Only because they managed to influence enough laws and policies so as to give themselves an unfair disadvantage.

Women are strong and independent. So strong and independent when they get knocked up they get child support. So strong and independent they get divorced, then use alimony to supplement their income, as if it’s 2023 and they can’t get a job and earn their own money. They must leach off their ex husband.

Then it’s off to work where they get equal pay to a man, but often are not capable of doing the same work as a man. Ever seen a woman firefighter carry a person down a latter that’s resting against a burning building? Me neither. The ones I work with get a man to do routine parts of their job that they had to take a physical to get because they think it’s a man’s job to do parts of the job requiring physical strength and stamina. So equal pay for equal work…until the work is hard, then it’s equal pay and a man doing the hard parts.

So to an extent you’re right. They have influenced enough legislation and society where they get free passes on things so they can give themselves a handicap in the game of life, then talk about how strong and independent they are and how they don’t need men, all while leaching off men.

[Exterminatore]

Oh and don’t let me forget to mention how women are victims. All of them, yes, all of them get preferential job placement. Every single woman gets affirmative action regardless of race….. because they have been and are now so oppressed. My dying balls.

If the playing field was level as it ought to be many of these modern women couldn’t tie their shoes without a man’s help.

[Exterminatore]

So, yes, this is why only in harsh societies. Because they have rigged the game and cheated the system to get advantages they would not get otherwise.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Exterminatore Spot on correct!

[Exterminatore]

@Kraken

Thank you sir!

[Anonymous]

I dont think so. Its 2023, she just has to become more of an adult.

[Anonymous]

Unless you’re very attractive woman that wants everything handed to her or just traditional then no but there can also be a situation where her life depended on it as if someone was attacking her a man would be better chance of surviving. Men are just naturally stronger. There are more assaults on women than there are men, more murders.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Pure ish. She's an adult and if she can't survive alone especially in the modern-day era then she's just mentally handicap or a total idiot.

[SolitarySolace]

Neither? If you’re biologically female be feminine and if you’re biologically male be masculine. Has nothing to do with survival in everyday life unless you make it that way.

[Likes2drive]

Maybe if she’s in her own house otherwise I don’t think she would have to do anything different , I usually did most of everything, even when I was married except make dinners or the laundry

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol this is hilariously true.

Pretty much throughout human history women have always relied on men for protection and survival

[msc545]

I think that is true - many survival skills are masculine skils.

[tiajoka]

True… but men without wives are less successful in their careers and live shorter lives. Do with that as you will 😂

[Kingofkings1992]

No. How did you speculate that? A woman can take care of herself just fine without having to be masculine.

[Fuentes]

If she has nobody

[Pohjolan]

Not in a first world country.