Can you get attracted to someone just because of their mentality or thoughts?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

yes And 100 other emotions it means you see more than just with your eyes. There are many question that are on here asking about size what color boobs. Dick hair color well you name it or judgement of some kind and I've always have said how would some answer that same question if they were blind.

So I thank you for this question because for the people who have said yes.
In around about way they they to can see or feel things deeper than most.

And when you can see with your heart when you have eyes it tells me that people are growing because when you can see beauty it every thing our world has hope

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

Of course, anyone who say's no is an idiot who's never bothered to read a book.
When reading a book you can fall in love with that character without even knowing truly what they would look like.
Sure some words may describe their looks but it's still not an actual representation, therefore you liking them based on their character not appearance.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Yes. But the attraction is usually stronger when you don't know the appearance and can fill in the blanks with your imagination. The reality is that most people are average in appearance, some are lower, and only a very few are appealing to everyone.

But a person's mentality is definitely part of attraction to them. Big time.

You hear stories quite often of two people, let's say friends, colleagues, etc., who knew each other for quite some time, and then one day they both felt more for each other. I just saw an interview with two people on TV, I forget who, who said this. It took a year of being friends first.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I can see that happening to me, because I always found male mind sexy, so can I get attracted? I definitely can get VERY attracted. I like rebellious smart, the ones who come up with crazy ideas and don’t shy away sharing their not so conventional thoughts.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

I think there's been times initial physical appeal then increased when similarities appeared. But similarities can also be wrong or incorrect on my part so I've been fooled before and I've also just been unlucky lol 😆

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

Fuck yes! I have once loved this girl but because she was hot but her personality was hit or miss. She actually showed signs she liked me or subtly flirts. She also has a history of being quite a hoe and she’s definitely a bitch, but not really to me. Her personality definitely ruined it.

FreyaRed · Answer

No. This gives a lot of plus points and some level of intelligence is my main criteria. Nevertheless this can't compensate some dysgenic face traits or a neglected body.

KingslayerC · Answer

No one can be attracted "just because" of that. Everyone has some level of physical attraction standards. Personality can add or subtract from the attraction though.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I can be mentally attracted from personality, thoughts, hobbies, interests, etc. Physical attraction requires looks. Wanting to actually do anything physical with her requires both.

inhua · Answer

physical attractive is still required first for everyone. you can't know someone's thoughts in just a few seconds but you can know someone's looks in a few seconds

TheorionMage · Answer

Certainly, but if there's no physical attraction, its a pairing doomed to be 'friend zoned' or mutual use!

RyanK9b · Answer

Yes but that is without the visual part. If she's still ugly nothing will change.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I have met girls that were just average looking but after I got to know them they became more attractive

abc3643 · Answer

Yes. That's one way in which I was significantly attract to some women including my wife.

AaronKrieger · Answer

A chunk of having chemistry with someone is exactly that

justsomeaverageguy · Answer

Yeah me 🤚, happens to me all the time. That's how I admire people for their thoughts and energy they create by their opinions around them ✨️.

AustinMan · Answer

Absolutely x. You needs some sexual chemistry as wellwell.

Adam1978 · Answer

I can't. Can't speak for others. But I can like a person platonically by how they are as a person.

magiusX26 · Answer

yes. that is the key to real and long lasting attraction as well as what loving so. eone for their personality means.

Raaj4you · Answer

Yes, attraction between two people depends on lot of factors. Looks, height, education, health, body language, behavior, maturity level, intelligence, characters, communication skills, etc.

Hithere4567 · Answer

For sure, one of the biggest attractions for me. I did confidence, a little wild.

DrKrieger · Answer

Yes, I've been attracted to conventionally unattractive girls in the past who had killer personalities

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Attraction can happen for soooooo many various reasons so yes.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yes, but physical attributes are still involved.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I don’t think you can be attracted solely to that. Attraction usually involves some physical admiration.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I have, yes. I believe sapiosexuals do

Billlewis · Answer

I certainly can.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I can’t, others might.

boggboss · Answer

Yes u can be attracted to someone's personality

slatyb · Answer

That can be very attractive to me.

Luopio27 · Answer

Not me, bit there are many who do.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I can temporarily

BLP11520 · Answer

Maybe that’s possible

SadisticSlxt · Answer

Yes. I'm not sexually aroused at all by looks

Simslover92 · Answer

Yes I can

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely.. why not?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, of course.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I can't. They become just friends.

annabananna · Answer

Absolutely

dudeinohio · Answer

I believe so.

smashleyy · Answer

Definitely

EaterPeter · Answer

Oh yeah

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Of course

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