Can you get attracted to someone just because of their mentality or thoughts?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

yes And 100 other emotions it means you see more than just with your eyes. There are many question that are on here asking about size what color boobs. Dick hair color well you name it or judgement of some kind and I've always have said how would some answer that same question if they were blind.

So I thank you for this question because for the people who have said yes.
In around about way they they to can see or feel things deeper than most.

And when you can see with your heart when you have eyes it tells me that people are growing because when you can see beauty it every thing our world has hope

[Asker]

🙃😁yeah... the real beauty is in soul..

[Kaneki05]

Of course, anyone who say's no is an idiot who's never bothered to read a book.
When reading a book you can fall in love with that character without even knowing truly what they would look like.
Sure some words may describe their looks but it's still not an actual representation, therefore you liking them based on their character not appearance.

[Asker]

Yup for right.. such people need to think about it... but still everyone has their own preferences...

[AmandaYVR]

Yes. But the attraction is usually stronger when you don't know the appearance and can fill in the blanks with your imagination. The reality is that most people are average in appearance, some are lower, and only a very few are appealing to everyone.

But a person's mentality is definitely part of attraction to them. Big time.

You hear stories quite often of two people, let's say friends, colleagues, etc., who knew each other for quite some time, and then one day they both felt more for each other. I just saw an interview with two people on TV, I forget who, who said this. It took a year of being friends first.

[Asker]

Yup sooo Correct 💯

[exitseven]

@AmandaYVR. Yes, I often try to picture what some folks on GaG look like.

[Asker]

@exitseven lol to be honest I can never do that...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I can see that happening to me, because I always found male mind sexy, so can I get attracted? I definitely can get VERY attracted. I like rebellious smart, the ones who come up with crazy ideas and don’t shy away sharing their not so conventional thoughts.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

* I mean, I always found smart men sexy

[Asker]

Yup same 😁

[asphaltrhymes]

I think there's been times initial physical appeal then increased when similarities appeared. But similarities can also be wrong or incorrect on my part so I've been fooled before and I've also just been unlucky lol 😆

[Asker]

Similarities means... like similarities in hobbies, interests?

[asphaltrhymes]

Or mannerisms, personality, vibe 😄

[Asker]

Ohh ok ok...

[asphaltrhymes]

Interests matter too and hobbies 😀

[PizzaDaddyo]

Fuck yes! I have once loved this girl but because she was hot but her personality was hit or miss. She actually showed signs she liked me or subtly flirts. She also has a history of being quite a hoe and she’s definitely a bitch, but not really to me. Her personality definitely ruined it.

[FreyaRed]

No. This gives a lot of plus points and some level of intelligence is my main criteria. Nevertheless this can't compensate some dysgenic face traits or a neglected body.

[Asker]

Ahh ok ok so you'll add this as a plus point but the main thing for you is someone's face?

[KingslayerC]

No one can be attracted "just because" of that. Everyone has some level of physical attraction standards. Personality can add or subtract from the attraction though.

[inhua]

physical attractive is still required first for everyone. you can't know someone's thoughts in just a few seconds but you can know someone's looks in a few seconds

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can be mentally attracted from personality, thoughts, hobbies, interests, etc.

Physical attraction requires looks.

Wanting to actually do anything physical with her requires both.

[TheorionMage]

Certainly, but if there's no physical attraction, its a pairing doomed to be 'friend zoned' or mutual use!

[RyanK9b]

Yes but that is without the visual part. If she's still ugly nothing will change.

[Asker]

Nothing will change means?

[RyanK9b]

If the visual part not satisfied him he will not get attracted. Friends only

[Asker]

Ahh ok ok

[exitseven]

Yes, I have met girls that were just average looking but after I got to know them they became more attractive

[asphaltrhymes]

Mmm I think we've all been there or thought we've been there 👍👍👀

[abc3643]

Yes. That's one way in which I was significantly attract to some women including my wife.

[AaronKrieger]

A chunk of having chemistry with someone is exactly that

[justsomeaverageguy]

Yeah me 🤚, happens to me all the time. That's how I admire people for their thoughts and energy they create by their opinions around them ✨️.

[justsomeaverageguy]

And also once you mature and realize the personality and mentality will be the only thing you will be looking for.

[Asker]

Yup for right... cause if a person is super handsome or super gorgeous with garbage personality you'll never like them... not at all!

[AustinMan]

Absolutely x. You needs some sexual chemistry as wellwell.

[Adam1978]

I can't. Can't speak for others. But I can like a person platonically by how they are as a person.

[magiusX26]

yes. that is the key to real and long lasting attraction as well as what loving so. eone for their personality means.

[Raaj4you]

Yes, attraction between two people depends on lot of factors. Looks, height, education, health, body language, behavior, maturity level, intelligence, characters, communication skills, etc.

[Hithere4567]

For sure, one of the biggest attractions for me. I did confidence, a little wild.

[DrKrieger]

Yes, I've been attracted to conventionally unattractive girls in the past who had killer personalities

[Charliefretz329]

Attraction can happen for soooooo many various reasons so yes.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yes, but physical attributes are still involved.