Is this a good sign that I’m finally over this man?

[Anonymous]

I loved a guy to bits for ages, who feared intimacy and refused to have it. He sends me pictures of himself looking hot. I admire them like the way someone admires artwork, because he’s hot and would look good in a painting. Meanwhile, I’ve been interested in 3 other guys since we fell out and would’ve dated any or all of them had they not turned out to be arseholes. Meanwhile, when my bestie implied that the guy has dated someone we all know, I wasn’t remotely jealous, just surprised and only because he wasn’t very nice to her when I saw them together in a group activity last year. But no jealousy. Just the same feeling of love that I feel for everyone, with some physical attraction. Wishing him well. Does that mean I’ve finally let go of him emotionally?

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but the fact that you're posting this and asking for outside validation of what only YOU yourself can know is a hiccup. If you're over him, it wouldn't be necessary to ask strangers to confirm your lack of reaction.

[Asker]

I’m asking because I’m autistic and I don’t understand my feelings.

[Asker]

Some of my reactions and feelings are new to me when I’m in a new situation, so I don’t know.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. That's only the most crucial piece of information that was unavailable, so now it makes sense.

[Fireguy17]

Sounds like it.
It takes time.
You will never forget him, but you are moving on.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Based on the title alone. Yes!