Have you ever been in a relationship to make your financial situation better?

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Like I was in a. 2 year relationship with a girl, she never respected me she dismissed my struggles with mental health issues and the fact I’m on the autism spectrum as excuses. Her mom even said she treated me like shit her sister lived with us for 6 months and said the same. How she talks to her friend is completely different than how she would talk to me. When her friend is present she would be present in the moment and actually talk to her. When I would try to have a conversation with her the same way I’m being annoying. It led me to think that she didn’t enter the relationship because she was actually interested but to advance her situation. She also has hit me twice because she has some form of undiagnosed mental illness, she also throws temper tantrums when she doesn’t get her way

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No , when I meet a beautiful girl that I have amazing chemistry and connection with , money has nothing to do with it period , Now if she is only coming on to me because she thinks I am going to be her walking ATM machine , she is in for a rude awakening when I kick her to the curb where she belongs. The only way I will even consider committing to a girl, is if she Wants to be my team partner , and works with me , not against me. , I have dated girl’s that eventually put their hands out expecting me to give them money, expecting me to pay for everything , thinking it was my job to take care of her financially , that had no ambition what so ever, thinking all she had to do was keep me satisfied in the bedroom. Those kind of girls I say thank you for a good time , but not a long time. Sadly most girls’ seek men that are financially stable , that think it’s his job to support her and take care of her , she doesn’t love him she only loves what she can get from him. Sadly when a guy makes more money then his girl does, she will love him and treat him like Gold , but if a girl makes more money then her man does, a majority of those girls’ will treat him like a pile of shit , Most girls’ in general are selfish people , that only really care about themselves , I will not settle down with a girl that is only after my wallet period. Sadly I have witnessed so many girls cheat on their husbands and boyfriends because he lost his job or he wasn’t making the money he use to make , So when you find a girl that stands by your side no matter what obstacles you face in life that works with you , is a girl you should try to keep by your side at all costs , because finding that kind of girl is very hard to come by especially these days Most girls’ do not want to work period , so they look for men that she feels will financially support her and take care of her , if he fails to do that for her she will jump on another cock thinking this new guy will save her

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

So your woman is mental. She's not developed in the mind. And yeah, probably using you for money.
(You're all over the place with your thoughts)

You see it... So fix it. I've been in these types of relationships and it ended because... I had to fix it. If the problem isn't you, and the actual problem has no concern to fix it, you can fix it by getting rid of the problem. Simple enough right?

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

Why were you even in a relationship with someone that awful? Makes no sense why you would be with someone like that.

To answer your question. No. I have never been with someone because of financials. I've dated while I've been a student and so have the guys, so we both didn't have much money.
Then I've also been in a relationship with a guy who had an average / slightly low paying job while I myself was unemploeyed looking for my first job.

Never been with someone where there was a big difference in our financials.
And I don't see why I would be with someone I did not like or want to spend time with.

I hope you find something better in the future.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Yeah I pretty much got with my husband to run away from my shitty life and family.. it has turned out fairly shit as well but at least I don't have all the drama of my mother and having to work and it ALL going on bills. Now I just get to chill at home and deal with barely getting laid and pretty much being a single parent with a live in roommate..

Anonymous · Answer

No. Because although I know many women in the past few years-and guys-who've been in a far better situation financially at the time, they did it by engaging in things that I KNEW were gonna come back on them shortly. They were smirking then... a few of them have profiles on sites like Caged Ladies and Jailbabes now, asking for guys who are "financially stable" to write them. The rest are bitching about their deadbeat baby daddies... several of whom ended up in the male version of that very fine institution.😏Now I'm rising up... poetic justice.🤗

Kaamraj · Answer

Read out what you wrote, it is full of red flags. The physical violence part is just crossing all lines, and remember you are not responsible for her mental illness. If it were me then I'd kick her out, and if you are keeping her around and she is dependent on you financially then she needs to provide some type of value. No one eats for free.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like you triggered her.
So presuming money being manipulated in this all is going to have two different opinions.
Besides, you’re talking about everyone and her close family and u insist she has undiagnosed mental health matters, you’re all over the place. I don’t buy your blurb for a moment.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i would rather crawl in poverty and in suffering than be witj people who are piece of shit

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nah I don’t believe in using someone for a comeup

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I have my own money. I don't need any help with that.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I keep hitting up the nursing home for rich widows. Bingo night is fire.

Anonymous · Answer

I kissed a guy and let him feel my boobs hoping to get a job I was too young for and I got it.

exitseven · Answer

No, it was never even on my radar when I was dating. It never happened by accident either.

Reem12345reem · Answer

she sounds narcissistic and abusive break up it's better for u

sheikalana · Answer

Never but I had a guy doing this to me once.

shades777 · Answer

that's hilarious, usually im spending more than saving, women cost money, definitely dont help you save

Anonymous · Answer

No, and no offense sounds like that girl may have some bi-polar issues.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

That’s not good.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

No never have I ever.

Christoff92 · Answer

No. And don't want to 🤨

In_Trance · Answer

that never happens

Anonymous · Answer

Why did u stay with her that long?

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