Have you ever been in a relationship where the other person didn't have a steady job/income, paid off debt/bills, good credit score, etc?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yes, but it was for a very short time

Yes, and I was patient, and eventually he/she got it together

No, and I would never would have gotten into a relationship with someone who wasn't financially secure

No

It was the other way around

[DeeDeeDeVour]

One of my exes resigned from his job and goofed around for months before I kicked him out.

I was doing very well, myself, in the meantime.

He had hoped I'd be his sugar mommy.

Adios muchacho.

[Nikki1989]

Both myself and my husband had very little money when we met. He didn't even have an income at the time, but we both worked at it and 11 years later, we now live very comfortably indeed.

[exitseven]

Yes, she worked as a bartender and spent most of her money on booze. She lived with a friend and her boyfriend. She was sort of a mess.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[BetaBucks]

Eh, more like situationships. A few of them right before I met my wife. Trainwrecks.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the thrill of love without financial security—you wild romantic thing, you! 😉 Money can be a real red flag or a growth opportunity, depending on the couple. I've seen relationships where love flourished despite an empty wallet. Communication's key, but don't confuse lovebombing for long-term support. If the spark's strong and both partners are willing to work and grow together, it can truly work out! Mind those love goggles, though! 🎯 Keep falling in love, but be careful with those debts! 💸

[PeachyPie93]

My ex.. he was living with his parents (they had money) he was 10 years younger so I didn't really mind but we only dated for a year. He had no potential he was just cute lol.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Why didn't he have potential? Was it his work ethic

[PeachyPie93]

He expected things to come easy for him and he had no real work ethic. He also got into meth a month or 2 before I dumped him. He was a lost cause but he had a nice body and I didn't mind taking his virginity lol.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Yes, I lived, but I don't want to live again and be in love with a man who doesn't know responsibility.

[LiamJHayden]

I've dated a few like that. Doesn't matter too much since I won't allow her to move in or have access to any of my accounts.

[NathanDavis]

nope

[SmileyLady]

Yes 😊