That's a great way to make yourself undateable to decent and successful guys for the rest of your life. I make money and I'd never date a girl who ever engaged in this kind of behavior even once. I will not be used and abused for my money.
On the other hand I do believe a man should provide for a woman in a serious relationship. So I don't know why you want to be in a sugar lifestyle when you could just have a real relationship with a successful man.
I dont mind at all in supporting my partner financially 100% , i just want her to be happy
If the love is mutually shared I see no issue with it. It can be EXTREMELY difficult to discern if the love is mutual after the financial support begins though. Even in terms of sugaring someone as long as the two know whats up I don't care what someone else chose to do with their own money.
My partner supports me. But we have 2 kids the youngest being only 4 months. Once both my kids are in school I'll get a job around there school hours. Until then I look after our kids and do the house work.
I've been on both the giving and receiving end of financial support before, and I think it's fine. As long as it's not a habit.
I'm nobody's sugar momma. Unless we're talking temporary supporting during a period of unexpected unemployment, no.
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No problem with me.
Sometimes I take care of my girlfriend's stuff, sometimes she takes care of mine.
My view is: a healthy relationship is always balanced. So no, the only support we should always give to our partner is moral.
I think it depends on my gf's attitude towards it.
If I have a really well paying job and capable of comfortably supporting us both I might because I want to do it for her, should it present opportunity for her to do something she otherwise could not do.
Otherwise, I don't tolerate freeriders. If she's just a lazy layabout which *forces* me to support her, no way.
Im old fashioned I dont mind providing. If im the one working I dont mind supporting others if I can..
I've heard way too many horror stories from guys who put their wives/girlfriends through college only to have them cheat on them later, or guys who agree to become househusbands and then the wives are screwing around behind their back.
Fuck that. If you help a woman out, she just thinks that you're a weak beta cuck. I guess they only want to be bent over and rutted and then tossed aside like the trash they are. That's what gets them off.
It's nothing for me. I'm earning good money and saving a lot. I will always be able to support myself. And financial independence is very important to me and I expect that from my partner as well.
I would do it only when our relationship is so close that we are going to marry sooner or later. Otherwise I would be willing to help her financially only if she needs it for her education, healthcare or her parents are in need of it.
Its fine temporarily, but I refuse to permanently support someone, my partner is supposed to be my partner, my equal, not my responsibility.
You can always help someone if you have the money to do it but you shouldn't let anyone stretch your grace beyond your will.
always willing to help but im no push over... is that you in your profile picture? you dont look 'typically' bulgarian
I think it's dumb. If someone wants to, then I guess, but there's a good chance that person is being used. If you want free stuff that bad then just spam instagram and get a sponsor
In some cultures, it's still common to buy a wife from her parents. So if you own her, then yes, you should support her financially. Otherwise.. get a job bi!!!
There is a big difference between helping out and supporting someone financially. Helping out is normal whereas funding someone else's lifestyle is not.
I'd be on my knees, thanking and crying because I'm poor right now.
I would not be as other people though, to waste money on worthless things.
I'd still try to repay them as good as I can.
Never. If I want to be in a relationship with someone she needs to love me for who I am, not what my wallet can buy her
It's ok if, for an example, you marry a traditional woman and she does the house work while you are out there earning money, then it is your responsibility as a man to provide her with the money she needs. However if you are talking about gold diggers then it literally IS a form of prostitution.
Too messy I am out of that sort of thing. Give that headace to somoebody else.
It's sad some people don't know how to be independent.
I don't mind helping out
Sakummu based off your comments it sounds like you believe just men should support their partners financially and that men should have a morale obligation to do so, am I right?
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