Do you love yourself as you are? Why/why not?

[Pinay_ako]

Yes, or else who will?

[exitseven]

This is a good question. I have done a few things that I am proud of. I have done things that people might say were heroic. Not the stuff you see on TV but stuff that involves real commitment and sacrifice. Thats the good news, The bad news is I read some stuff I wrote when I was in high school and I really compromised the values I had as a kid. I see pictures of myself back then and wish I had taken better care of him.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[MattStoney]

Yes I'm amazing

[exitseven]

and modest too.

[MattStoney]

@exitseven haha thank u

[Taya9]

I love myself, coz notloving is quite illogical. There's nobody in this world like you, and in this life you can't take another body. No choice

[midnightmoon05]

Yes… very much so. I love myself so much! 👍😊

[Sonorous]

Yes, but I do not have a choice. Either I love myself & keep living or don't and probably die from the misery & downfall.

[GreatBigCircles]

No. I honestly deal with a lot of resentful thoughts, especially ever since I lost my job. I want to feel good about myself, but even when I do good things I always find myself drawn to thinking 'I only did it to appear good, I'm still a bad person. I'm just using people'.

Doesn't matter how much I think one thing, my feelings are happy to tear me down every time.

[exitseven]

Look, everyone has ups and downs in their career. Covid really messed up a lot of stuff. You just have to get back up and try again. Recently I had a major setback in my career. I was unemployed for almost 2 years. After looking for a long time, going to dozens of interviews all of a sudden I got two job offers within 2 weeks.

[Anemone978]

I didn't for a long time, I have almost despised myself.. but after taking some time for myself I am finally learning to love myself..

[Pinay_ako]

That’s good to hear…

[Zatsuma]

I got issues, who doesn't? ... But yeah, no matter what I still love who I am.

[Pinay_ako]

Yass true

[Andres77]

I do. Not that I’m above further improvement but I’m doing okay.

very thankful for everything in my life.

[Sparkie460]

Yes I do love myself. I'm a good person. I respect everyone

[Dina_Melissa19]

Is it possible for you not to love who you are

[Ms_Facesitter]

For the most part I do. A bit more introvert than I would like to be, but that can be worked on.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

No because being autistic is different and I get mistreated because of it.

[john6678]

Just saw your comment about autism and want to shed a little light.
I was diagnosed with autism at 10 and have been masking my whole life and now I work in a field with many autistic people that have told me themselves that they have autism, but seriously I would have never have known and they are very successful. I knew a young woman when I was 18 that was being bullied every day for being autistic and she confided in me that she had autism. This young woman didn't even attended her leavers dinner, because she was bullied everyday by a particular group of girls. Now going back I knew she had a crush on me, but I didn't feel the same way and I wasn't a very good friend, as I should have told her that I have autism too and been apart of her support network. You are not alone and there is nothing wrong with you, your wired differently and it's hard to navigate a world that was made for neurotypicals. Please don't be hard on yourself and take the time you need to prevent overloading. Some people are just horrible and get off on pointing out anyone that is different. Don't let anyone mistreat you, it's seriously ok to be autistic. Just a little friendly advice from a stranger on the internet who has been through the same feeling going through my early twenties.

[Unit1]

No point in hating myself, so I might as well go with it.

Although sometimes I do feel like I wish I was born as a girl but that's kind of besides the point.

[Provingdatruth]

No, because I had to grow up with the following struggles:
•Being on the spectrum
•My father was abusive to my mother and became a deadbeat when I was eight years old.
•I’m both black AND white
• Never grew into my age

[WhiteBoyChill]

I accept myself as I am, so I guess that’s similar enough.

There are certain things I wish could be different, like my height or bodytype especially, but what can I really do?

[RavVid]

I respect myself is more my emotion towards myself.

[elizamichale1]

Yup absolutely... i love myself as n who i am

[MikeTheBartender]

No. Too much of my happiness revolves around my penis

[JesseP1nk]

I love my looks and lot of time i been complimented and wanted me as model. But my communication need work :)

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. I strive to improve myself. I care for myself and make sure I am okay.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yes. I'm not perfect. I make mistakes and repent. But my value comes from God. ♥️

[monghjay2]

no because society treats you based off how you look

and even though im not some ugly guy

if you are not a super attractive guy

they will look at you as less

and that is a fact

[Pinay_ako]

So you base your worth on what others think?

[monghjay2]

no my worth is based off Christ

but if society see's you as less
they will treat you as less

which makes life harder
its no society not me

[Luopio27]

I dont think like that. My mind was focusing on what I desire to have. And that is a cute white girlfriend that I never had.

[piblo99]

yes I think i'm pretty nifty !

[Andres77]

Thank you for your using the word “nifty”.

[gothbxtch]

working on it!!

[Guanfei]

No. What's there to love? I'm the peak of a loser. Ugly, boring, stupid, uninteresting, shy, poor, without any future.

[Jazzy54]

Yes. I love myself. 😊

[Walt832]

Omg yesssss I love my self. I thank every day 😊.

[Fireguy17]

Yes, I am happy with who I am.

[Anonymous]

Nah I hate myself and act out self destructively as a form of self punishment.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes I do and everything about me

[SunnyLight]

Yes I do. 🫶🏻

[eagle1951]

i have to. no one else will lol

[Fiona77]

Yes, no one loves us better than ourselves!

[jimmy2]

Yes I do because God loves us

[MOULOUD]

Yes, i was an innocent kid

[MementoMori777]

fosho

[Fuentes]

I love money

[exitseven]

hahahaha

[LavLavLuv]

Yesyesss

[Tomisworthless]

Lol no I’d be foolish to love myself

[BLP11520]

Yes and no.

[whistlingwh0res]

yeah mostly

[Actor3]

No but many women do