Should I be concerned if my boyfriend wants to go out all the time and not stay in and save money?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and every time we see each other we always go out and have fun, which is great and all but I have always expressed my concern with us spending a lot (mostly me) and for us not to go out all the time and to save money. His reason is that we can still go out and have a good time and go the less expensive route. For me I think we should go out once or twice a month to save money. My boyfriend is worried and doesn't want us to be the boring couple and still wants to go out.

Yes you should

No you shouldn't

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you have 800/month in bills and he makes 10k/month have at it, if you're both on food stamps and ramen, not so much. You aren't giving enough details as to your overall financial situation.

[Asker]

Lets just say were living with our families, he has a job and making more money than me as I am still searching for a job and having help with family in the money department

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you're so broke you're living with family then you ought not be going out at all.

[Avicenna]

Yes, you should be very concerned. These sorts of expenses can add up very quickly.

[madhatters4]

yes it should be a concern. he should be better with understanding how to save money. he should be more considerate of your desires to save money, particularly since you are the one having to spend the money

[richardcory]

What is your overall money situation? Can you afford housing and other necessities?

[Asker]

Lets just say we both live with our families, he is the one working currently and making more money than me as I am still searching for a job and having help with family in the money department.

[Billlewis]

Have you considered getting yourselves a non sexual sugar daddy or male pay pig to serve you?

[jahaims]

Earn more money if you want to be able to party and save

[Anonymous]

Yes, especially if he can't manage his money correctly.

[Jmmmfi4]

I'd be saving money to