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I slapped my boyfriend and felt horrible, what can I do moving forward (he wants to stay together)? (Page 2)
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i wouldn't worry too much about it. say sorry and move on with your relationship.
I still feel like crap tho even tho I've apologized multiple times, I can't undo what I did still...
yes and you realize that and you can't change that. the only thing you can do is not repeat it and move on. it will take a bit, but you ultimately have to forgive yourself for acting like that.
Yep, I'm working on it and I have taken steps in order to better myself (going to therapy, etc)
proud of you
Thank you! Hope you have a wonderful day/nigh, stay awesome!
you too! hang in there!
I don't know. I would have dumped you. It doesn't matter how mad I am, I would never hit my girlfriend. It's never even been a thought that crossed my mind. I expect the same from her.
Yep, I expected him to dump me over this and I won't be surprised if he does end up dumping me later down the line because of this but for no he has decided to stay together as long as I do the work to fix my issues (which I am - going to therapy soon)
Tell him you just got caught up in the moment and are sorry.
I did, still doesn't excuse my behavior tho...
Which couple does not fight or get hitted... the key is that it is not abusive and etc...
You know the difference..
If you two slap each other in the bedroom then you're both stupid, because that says you both accept violence and I'm surprised he didn't hit you back.
Yeah but in the bedroom it was with consent and not out of anger so it's different, he even asked me to slap him hard in the bedroom (I never did it hard enough bcs I didn't have the heart to do it). He's never laid his hands on me, only a couple of name calling here and there but that's it. I honestly thought he would've slapped me back tho, and honestly that would've make me feel better somehow...
Can you see a counselor together?
I asked him if he wanted to go to couple's therapy together but he rejected and said that he doesn't need therapy, only I do haha I've been to therapy though (even before this, to try to find a way to get him to listen to me instead of getting angry at me every time I try to confront him), but I'm desperate, nothing's working... I really wanted him to go with me so that we can both discuss our issues and toxic behaviors.
Maybe you need to end this insanity.
But I love him and still want to make this work :( Couple's therapy is my last resort, I've tried countless of times to sit down and have a chat with him about our issues but he always gets mad at me. I will try to go to therapy alone for now, to see if I really am a shitty annoying girlfriend or if I am being gaslighted
You are just drifting apart hence not finding much in common.
anger management classes
I have started going to therapy so hopefully it'll help
He should dump u
Yeah I gave him the option, he wants to stay together but I wouldn't be surprised if he dumps me later down the line after he's done processing this whole thing
Sound sexy. Suggest to not worry.
Only sexy when done in the bedroom tho
Let him spank you and then do you from behind.
Forgive yourself.
I will try...
If you need help, just ask.
I don't know who to ask help from. I asked my boyfriend's friend for advice on how to communicate with him better but after I told my boyfriend he got mad at me... I don't really talk to my friends about relationship issues bcs I respect my boyfriend and don't want my friends to get the wrong idea of him so I will just go to a therapist I guess
God/Jesus, they are way better than any person or therapist and can easily answer any question one has. You do know prayer is just talking to them right?
Yikes