Do you feel scared of losing your girlfriend or boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

my relationship has crossed 8 months and I love her so much but the fear of losing her makes me so scared. Any tips or suggestions to overcome this thoughts?

[_Maya_]

What makes you feel like you are going to lose her? Especially after 8 months? That is a decent amount of time. Are there troubles in the relationship or something? People typically don't just break up for no reason. If there are no reasons or problems then I don't know why you would think that she is going to leave you. That is the wrong attitude to have. She has been with you this long so if there are no issues then I would not even be worried about it.

[Asker]

Age difference - I lover her and will never leave her no matter what, thats 100%
I am scared she might get bored or something - I am an introvert and most of the time she is the one who talks a lot and I listen to her a lot. So I feel scared she might lost interest.

One question if she was bored she would have left me long back you are saying?

[_Maya_]

Yeah that is what I am saying. She wouldn't stick with it for almost a year if she was bored. As for different personalities that often times attracts two people and makes things work. Unless you have some concrete signs she is bored then I think you are over worried about something that is not a problem.

[Asker]

Ok thanks Maya - I have one bad habit I am an over thinker :(

[_Maya_]

You're welcome and don't invent problems. That will just make you worry. Always ask yourself before if there are any actual signs. Like be real honest with yourself. If you can't point to anything then not worth worrying about because there would be some very obvious things.

[Asker]

cool, thanks once again

[chevy1]

I did years ago but then i decided not to give a shit cause he was a evil basterd

[jahaims]

Nope