Is working out with your partner/husband/wife a good idea?

[sheikalana]

I wonder if it's going to be annoying to my husband. I'm not as active as him but I really want to start working out and I feel it could be fun for us to do it together. What do you think?

[DaveJord]

I think it is very important that you invest time and energy into yourself and then bring that investment back to your SO and contribute that energy back into your relationship. For me physical exercise is an individual investment I was making into myself, and the time I spent doing it was my chance to step away from the relationship and create my own personal time and space to do it in.

It gave me time to spend with just myself and to build and improve myself not just physically but also to clear my mind and elevate stress. I could then step back into my relationship and work on building a better relationship with my spouse.

So, for me, I liked to keep my gym time as my own personal space. Where I could just invest that time into myself... and sure maybe I was protective and selfish about that... but none the less that was time I needed just for me. She respected that, and she as well was able to make her own space in different ways, just for her. I encouraged her to do that, and I respected her space and freedom to do that for herself.

[sheikalana]

I actually think you're right. Maybe I should just takes some classes and let him enjoying working out by themselves. We know how important it is to have moments for ourselves and I want to respect that.

[DaveJord]

I wish you the best, good luck! 😊

[Oliverlogan263]

Working out together can be a great way for couples to bond, but it also requires some thoughtfulness and compromise to avoid annoyance. Here are some things to consider:

• Pace - Make sure you start at a pace that works for both of you. One person shouldn't feel rushed or held back. Over time, you can both progress at your own rate.

• Patience - Be patient with each other as you're learning new exercises or building endurance. Mistakes and setbacks are natural, so avoid judgment and offer encouragement instead.

• Flexibility - Be flexible with the types of workouts you do together. Alternate between things you both enjoy andactivities that cater more to one person's interests.

• Communication - Talk openly about what is and isn't working for each of you. Compromise where you can to find a rhythm that works.

• Support - Cheer each other on during workouts. A partner's support can be very motivating.

• Accountability - Having a workout partner can help keep you both accountable. You may find yourself exercising more regularly together than apart.

• Together time - Working out provides an opportunity for quality time together, away from distractions. You can talk and laugh while exercising.

• Scheduling - Set certain days/times for your joint workouts, so your husband knows when to expect and plan for them.

• Alone time - Make sure you each still have a chance to workout alone occasionally to pursue individual fitness goals.

In summary, communicating thoughtfully, compromising where needed, and offering support and patience are keys to making a joint workout routine a positive experience for both of you. If implemented well, it could become a fun habit that deepens your connection - just be sure your husband is truly on board before diving in!

[provokeesmokee]

Talk to him about it. Don't ask us.

Personally I tried working out with two of my exes. It never worked.

I'm very structured, deliberate, and intense when I do my workouts (now I do more non-gym activity as my workouts, but back then I was into power/olympic lifting).

I get a lot done in a short time.

My exbfs often tried, but either couldn't keep up, required me to be their coach instead of workout partner, or got lost easily and gave up. One refused to lift and only did cardio because he could look at women (he and I were exclusive but oogling allowed if respectful. He was not respectful).

Same one also thought lying about being afraid of heights until AFTER he'd climbed up 30ft on an autobelay was smart. I had to climb up next to him and coach him down. 🤦🏽

My last ex, my first girlfriend, did better because we both enjoyed climbing and she had some experience. However, still unable to keep up.

Now, I'm debating not using any dating apps EXCEPT the one meant for climbers so I know I won't get people who can't be active.

[Cynicaldreamer]

It's a great idea! But only do it if YOU want to, not because you feel pressured or obligated to; otherwise you won't enjoy it.

As a gymrat myself, I'd love a partner to workout with me, even if we don't do the same exercises; just having someone to go to the gym with, discuss workouts with, and share a healthy lifestyle with is the dream! I'm sure your husband feels the same :) Just ease into it, or ask him for advice on what you think you should do to start off.

I'd recommend starting off by doing walking or light cardio, and light weights just to get your body acclimated to working out, then progress over time so you don't shock your body, or injure yourself.

[DopeTurtle]

If there’s genuine desire to train, any person who cares about their partner is willing to help them.


I’m into mma and weightlifting but if my partner was interested, I’m hundred percent excited for it

[sheikalana]

My husband goes to the gym. I don't go because I have no idea what to do at the gym but I feel that he would like to help me. We swim together often and it's always fun.

[DopeTurtle]

Exactly! He’s going to help you throughout the experience

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'd love it, provided I don't have to lighten my load for you. We don't have to do the same thing. If you can't keep up that's cool, I don't expect you to, but I don't have time to work out twice as much (once for you, once for me), so I still need to be able to do my full thing too.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex was my workout instructor as he was very fit and great at working out. He loved us to work out together.

[Anonymous]

I did this with my ex and he just teased me all the time for not lifting as heavy as him..

But if your husband is normal than go for it!:) it can be very healthy

[madhatters4]

i mean it is fine so long as you can focus on the workout and not make it purely about competition or comparing yourselves to each other.

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

It might be a relief to him.

At the gym where I go, attractive girls/women are being targeted all the time by guys who want to flirt with them or whatever.

Guys probably wouldn't do that if you were with your husband.

[Anonymous]

Yes it's cool to have company
But he already has a one or more training partners, things would be different

[ProbablyClueless]

If you guys took a class together, that could be a fun date idea. Even if it's just twice a week, or whatever.

[sheikalana]

We have a gym where we live.

[SplatoonFan2]

is not a good ideal if they has rules for dating coworkers and i didn't want to date anyone who i was working with. might make some drama and i don't really want deal with that , i did dating when i was college but didn't like at all.

[sheikalana]

What? He's my husband.

[sheenagwapa]

yeah why not... doinh the same activity is a good bonding time

[more_than_a_guy]

It's possible, done that with women that are in less shape than mine. It's bonding, and you can find exercises for both, for example him lifting you and squating you, and you do it with just dumbbells. Be creative and you'll figure it out.

[Andres77]

Only if the less knowledgeable heeds the advice of the more knowledgeable. If they will not do that, then they should work out separately.

[TacosRAwesome]

It depends on the people involved. Personally, I would prefer working out separately but at the same time and place if possible.

[dreamstar72]

For me bad idea to many thoughts enter in your brain making workout stressful, since it is my wife I’m working? out with.

[MissBoogus]

Sounds good. Go the gym together otherwise you’ll be bombarded with creeps. At least from my experience.

[clampfan101]

I’d enjoy doing it, and I don’t even work out. Us helping each other stay in shape sounds great.

[Anonymous]

For me, it's an opportunity to savor her hot and sweaty feminine essence. It is truly a blessing!

[Wonderingguyy]

Yeah it makes it more enjoyable

[Luopio27]

It is a wonderful idea.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think that would be awesome!

[BigDog1989]

if they can spot you, sure

[Anonymous]

Nah bad idea ma'am...

[OddBeMe]

It actually has been found to be good motivators.

[Kingofkings1992]

I don’t see why not

[slatyb]

Yes, it is.

[Christoff92]

Sure