So, my boyfriend is skinny skinny and I’m chubby and bigger and he is always talking about he wants to work out that he wants abs that he hates his skinny legs, and I always try to tell him he looks great the way he does because well I do truly believe so but i also tell him but if you want to then go ahead im proud if u do or don’t, anyways he lately brings up his legs more than usual and then out of nowhere he tells me “maybe we should both start doing squats” and I was like why? And he was like “so we can BOTH have better legs” anyways I kinda ignored cuz it was a quick conversation and I bring it up later I ask him “Did you just keep bringing up “doing squats” so u can get me to start doing them?” And he said “I knew exactly that u wore gonna ask that , and yes that’s why I said that idc if u do them or not like I already knew that u wore gonna say sum about it but ima be doing them and working out” and then I said cuz u basically told me to start doing them so “we can get better legs” like if u were trynna tell me something Are you trying to get me to do that so I can look better? and the he responded “is that bad”
How do you not take your partner suggesting that you both work out, personally?
