Me and my ex we broke off amicable a few months ago but we kept contact and met up a few times and I felt that we were close to getting back together.
Ever since we broke off she has always asked me to get mental help for my mental health issues but I've always refused but just 2 days ago she got angry and told me to F off and she blocked me on most socials but not a few.
But I am starting to get mental help and I want to start over with her again, I'm planning to reach out to her via mutual friends and those aforementioned socials after a month or two to talk things out, should I do it?
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So you should reach out when you actually have received enough help that you have seen an improvement. Something tangible. You want her to see that you are serious about getting the help and that you are changing for the better. It does no good to do it too soon where you haven't put in the time and effort yet. I say wait until in your mind you are seeing personal improvements that others are going to notice. Then I would reach out.
Yup that's my plan actually, to just get some help to get better, I should see some changes within a month or 2
That is a good plan then.
Depends on what the argument was about. Depends on what you want to achieve by contacting your ex.
It’s your ex - why are you planning to contact him/her again?
I want to apologise and hopefully start over but to be honest my hopes are low, she got angry at me because I refuse mental help. I've been getting mental help recently and after a month I should see some changes and I'll contact her afterwards