So confused on this relationship?

[Anonymous]

My partner and I have been together 6 years we’re not really ones to argue but ever since we got back from holiday in July things started to change roughly around August. We haven’t seen eachother in 2 months almost he told me why he couldn’t see me etc etc however things have changed a lot. Everything was going perfect till August and om Saturday night I called him because I found some stuff out and we argued well it was mostly me I was so hurt, on Sunday morning I sent him this long text that kind of gave the feeling that i ended things but I was so hurt I still am. I’ve been begging for us to talk in person and nothings happened like over a week ago he said we would. However since this argument and the message I sent he saw it and never replied back , it’s been 5 days since we’ve spoken and he hasn’t bothered to message me. We still have eachother on social media (Instagram) he still has my initial on his bio and he views my story’s. I want to know why he’s gone silent why won’t he try fight for us after so long? He views my stuff but won’t speak? It hurts so bad. I’m 29 and he’s 26.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I'm so sorry you're going through this confusing mess right now. Nothing sucks more than being left hanging with so many unanswered questions after investing so long in a relationship.

From the outside looking in though, his actions (or lack thereof) are speaking volumes here. Silence is a form of communication too, and his says he's checked out unfortunately.

As hurtful as it is, you gotta accept the harsh truth - if he really cared to fight for you guys, he would. He'd be pleading for that in-person talk, not avoiding it for weeks on end while lingering online. That's straight up disrespect.

I know it's hard, but at this point you gotta pull away fully too before he drags this out even longer just to spare your own emotions. You deserve so much better than games and breadcrumbs.

Hold your head up high - there's a real man out there who will cherish you inside and out, communicate through any issues, and not take you for granted. You taught yourself your worth all these years - now it's time to believe it!

Lean on your girlfriends for support, the ones who love you unconditionally. In time the pain will fade, I promise. You got this - the best is yet to come once you let this weight go. Stay strong 💪

[BoopBoopBeep]

"I sent him this long text that kind of gave the feeling that i ended things"

Of course he hasn't reached out. It's over. There's no reason for me to contact you any more.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Sometimes we don't get the answers we're seeking in life.

[Anonymous]

Hang on, you have been together 6 years and you still message each other.

No wonder the relationship is doomed.

[Asker]

What’s this supposed to mean?

[ShadowYamihiro]

From the sound of it he most likely cheated on you and found someone else. Can't say 100% that he did just that it sounds like usual after-cheating process of slowly drifting away and breaking up.