Let him enlist because he’s on the quick road to nowhere and maybe it’ll give him some structure. Honestly he probably won’t, because he seems to be the type that just doesn’t want to work, period, and makes excuses for it. It’s like a friend of mine who’s in 30s but lives off his girlfriend bc he was once a highly requested model and feels like he looks too good to work a regular job. He thinks the big break is still gonna come. But once you get to a certain age, you don’t have to give up on the dream but in the mean time you’ve gotta work like the rest of us, hopefully doing something he enjoys. That’s where your boyfriend is, thinking his brain is too big and he wants a certain sort of job or to get his big lotto break, and until then, everyone else can pay his way through life. That is an unacceptable way of living. He needs a reality check and some structure, so if he actually does go through with enlisting, let him. Maybe you need some time away from him too, to see what life is like apart and maybe you’ll find someone so childish and irresponsible doesn’t align with you.
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