Why do many people find it so hard to accept others boundaries or accept others for who they are?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I think some people have biases they chose and others have biases that were programmed into them through years of training by their family or their romantic partners or their peers and undoing something so slowly ingrained takes around the same time that it took to build the bias to begin with.

[Finchie40]

Because most people in general are selfish people that only see things their way , if something doesn’t get their way , they get defensive and jealous and think they are right and everyone else is wrong , People that have that type of
Mindset do not know how to accept others , it’s their way or no way. They think their shit doesn’t stink like they were put on this planet to be everyone’s prize possession when really they are a nobody

[Hulk_kitty]

I have a few friends they were not respecting my boundaries, and kept pushing and pushing in to stuff i didn't want to do, So ended the friendship, can't be dealing with that shit.

Not my problem if people don't understand or like the word NO.

[Asker]

Good job

[Spongebobssocks]

Usually the opposite. Many people think they are above science..

[blueonblack22]

I am really trying to understand what context you are asking this question in regards to. I got a feeling I know but before I assume provide more details please.

[AaronKrieger]

It depends on what it is specifically, since that's so broad. Also it depends how the boundary is communicated and to who.

[lightbulb27]

I accept them maybe too well. it's personality thing. some people will push past boundaries... personality.

[Brady]

To accept others boundaries because they r stubborn. Also if they aren't adults they are being stubborn kids.

[aquamarine321]

Because that’s how we are naturally, we are social creatures that most of what we do involves touching and all essentially if you like that person

[Chthou95]

Bullshit. I don't have to tolerate certain things because of your feelings. If its objectively dumb or messed up, i won't be more tolerable

[Anonymous]

Because they can’t accept themselves.

[Anonymous]

Narcissistic I guess 💀

[Anonymous]

How do you mean?