As a man if you truly knew your worth would you be abusive toward women either physically or emotionally?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

I would only be emotionally abusive to a girl that doesn’t stand by my side like she expects me to stand by hers. If she is a selfish person that only thinks about herself and only thinks about what is best for her and she stops wearing my shoes like she use to but expects me To still wear hers , I will make it clear to her , that I no longer will tolerate a relationship like this , and make it clear to her that I already have one foot out the door. My status has nothing to do with my feelings toward her , if she is loyal and faithful and loving and caring to me and treats me like her top priority , she will be my top priority as well And I will do my best to keep her by my side and continue loving just her , but if she starts treating me like a convenience and stops prioritizing me and shows all signs of her selfishness , she is best to keep moving on because i am moving on as well. I would rather be single then to stay with a girl that brings misery
Into my life , I only go for girls that want to bring happiness , a girl that wants to be by my side no matter what obstacles we face together , as long as it isn’t cheating , if she cheats it’s over

[MrOracle]

It has nothing to do with "knowing your worth" and everything to do with the morals and values you were raised with - and this means observed actions, not just words spoken - men who didn't have a father who treated their mother right in front of them aren't going to learn the lesson. This is one of many, many problems of children being raised without fathers. Children NEED both parents.

Kids who grow up without a dad in the home are at EVERY statistical disadvantage - they're FAR more likely to be criminals, to be homeless, to be addicts, to be violent, to be destitute, etc.

[Vampire_Killing_Time]

If somebody is abusive, they'll do it regardless of your "worth" because they just think of themselves. This isn't just a man thing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

There is usually no need to be abusive unless you're basically getting abused or put in a situation where you have to abuse your way out of there or else the consequences are going to be great if not doing so.

I know what I just said probably makes no sense to most women... so I'm going to ask you, ladies, to use your imagination. All it takes is that situation where she's setting you up... maybe getting you to hit her is part of her plan. Your survival will depend on getting out of her damn trap. Remember, you're a dude and all she has to do is claim you did something and you're fucked. Look up "mattress girl" if you have no fucking idea what I could be talking about.

[boggboss]

I dont think it has anything to do with how men view their own worth maybe apart from themself believing they are superior or above said women they are abusing

[Asker]

You’ll be surprised how many men have done something like that to women and have said things like “I’m not a bad guy. I know my worth even though I have punched and strangled a woman or two.” Like it’s sick lol

[Asker]

Though knowing your worth is not directly related to a man or woman being abusive, if you truly knew your worth, your value and ultimately the great things about you, you wouldn’t abuse anyone because once word gets out, that worth goes down, rightfully so. People who know their worth value it, not destroy it. Unless, as I said, they truly don’t know their worth.

[boggboss]

I'm not suprised by it I understand many men and women somehow have no issue beating their partner or just people in general then finding fucked up and twisted ways to justify it

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure that knowing your worth has anything to do with it. I think you're trying make an excuse for why someone does that. Maybe that person was raised in a toxic environment so it's learned behaviour. But it does not excuse it. Physical is one thing. That's not debatable. Emotionally abusive that's another matter.

[inhua]

what would entail as "abusive"? walking away from disrespect?

[Asker]

Just hitting your woman for no good reason at all. Allowing the minuscule things to tick you off and it leads to her meeting your fist.

[Asker]

Calling her out of her name, embarrassing her in public that kind of abuse. Walking away from disrespect is just being the better and bigger person, not abusive.

[inhua]

that's not describing a man who knows his worth. when a man has options, he doesn't need to settle for disrespect. he can simply move on without needing to put his reputation on the line

[Asker]

I know, it’s describing an abusive man but I was questioning if a man who truly knew his worth would even be that abusive.

[RavVid]

Is it abusive to tell her where she gets off and walk away? I'm not going to put up with shit but you might think chastisement is emotional abuse.

[genericname85]

i treat people according to how they treat me.

[KrakenAttackin]

Telling a woman "no" is considered "abusive" these days.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what knowing my worth has to do with anything, but I don't abuse people.

[Anonymous]

Well those the men you choose to date. Pick better...

[AmeerX]

Am I a man or an animal? Of course not.

[LiamJHayden]

I'm not abusive now.

[exitseven]

Of course not.

[dudeinohio]

Never