Are we growing apart?

[Anonymous]

Be and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 7 months now but after the one year mark things have taken a drastic turn on our relationship. He moved away 4 hrs from me 5 months into our relationship but we have still maintained it long distance. Currently.. we have gotten to a point we barely talk anymore.. there’s no romantic stuff we do together. We don’t call as often call because we’re busy. When i’m awake during midnight he sleeps but when i’m sleeping he stays up with his friends. Whenever i feel like i want to talk too him more there’s not enough topics. Are we growing apart and are doomed to fail? If so how can we save this relationship?

[dynamicyandere]

It sounds like it.


It would be good to have a serious talk about your concerns to get things resolved.


If you BOTH want things to work out, it’s not hopeless as long as you BOTH are willing to do the work.


Flames can be rekindled, and it often takes remembering what drew you to each other in the first place.


It’ll be good to figure out that that is and never forget that.


As for quality time, that’s really important.


I understand that he wants to spend time with his friends and that’s fine — but if he wants to juggle a relationship successfully, he needs to make time for you too.


A relationship without time and attention is like a plant without sunlight and water — it will wilt and die if you go for too long.


Are you familiar with each other’s love languages?

[In_Trance]

seems like it