What should I say to this guy if he comes around?

[Anonymous]

He told me he doesn't do long-distance relationships but constantly reaches out to me. I backed off from him, and friend zoned him due to my feelings that were involved. Now, I don't really have feelings for him and have lost interest in him. He seemed kinda sad that I friend zoned him and backed off.. he will be back because now I don't have closure.

[kylee2437]

If your main goal was a possible relationship and you didn’t get that, move on. You are setting yourself up for endless harassment by letting him be in the friendzone

[Asker]

I know slowly moving on now.. that wasn't my main goal - just thought we were friends , but feelings happened. If anything, it's setting me up to get hurt with false hope.

[Asker]

I did right by backing off between his hot / cold behavior.. I immediately pulled back

[kylee2437]

And you already know he plays games so that tells you something. Don’t waste time with people that play games. He told you he doesn’t go for long distance but still contacted you in the first place most likely already knowing you live far away

[Asker]

Not wasting my time.. I had no expectations. I wish him well , but to protect myself pulling back was best and now moving on.

[Anonymous]

Just be brutally honest.