Would you say something if you saw a couple at a restaurant arguing and yelling at each other?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. Because in the U. S., I've both personally had the experience, and witnessed toward others, FAR MORE TIMES THAN I CAN COUNT... the female being the pero, antagonizing him, then being smug about it. This is a story about an incident I had in San Francisco, with a female who was from Texas. She'd owed me money (triple figures). I went to her place. She not only refused to give it back, but these were her EXACT words..."I'll just call the cops and tell them you attacked me. Who do you think they'll believe?" AND SHE SMILED SMUGLY IN MY FACE. THAT... LOOK... Sighs... Coach, that was a transformative moment in my life. I realized IN THAT MOMENT... where my place in this country was. She'd made 1 mistake though. I WAS THE ONE from San Francisco, not her. I WAS RAISED around immigrants, not her. This is MY AREA, MY RULES. My entire life view changed in that exact moment... it was like I was in a different body. Without a word my left hand shot out and snatched her fat ass up by her voice box and squirting, marched her over to the window (we were on the 5th floor), hung her fat ass out of the window and calmly pointed downward so she could see... the dirty alley below. The pavement. I told her the next time she walked through that door, the ONLY thing I want to see... is money in her hand, or look down... THATS WHERE SHE'LL BE. So the answer to your question is no. Not just because so many now antagonize the guy, BUT BECAUSE THEYRE AWARE OF WHAT THEY'RE DOING... and WILL use it against him. That only works... so long as the guy still cares. They never stop their little split pea brains to think about what'll happen... WHEN HE DOESN'T ANYMORE? No, I haven't, and never will.

AnusNdaPainus · Accepted Answer

What will me getting involved help?

ShesRad80 · Accepted Answer

nope, you know how that ends? you say something then they both jump on you and i really dont wanna have to throw hot soup on anyone...

Would you say something if you saw a couple at a restaurant arguing and yelling at each other?

though if i find a crab in the kitchen, im naming him stabby and sending him to their table with a knife in hand, he will take care of it

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Nah but ima surely be nosey

AviatorTom · Answer

No, it's their business and I'm in no position to interfere with it. If it got extremely loud and upset others in the restaurant, I might say something like "Can you keep it down please!"

Paris13 · Answer

I'd Rather See That Than Parents Allowing Their Kids to Throw Food Around All Over. NP. xxoo

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Only if they were interrupting my date or right next to me as I am trying to eat in peace. This actually happened back on Saturday.

Drunk couple getting obnoxious and wouldn't shut up. Straight up looked at them and said "Hey, do you guys mind? You aren't the only ones here. I just want to be able to enjoy my meal and drink while I watch the game please."

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I have never seen that, but something similar. I was in a small restaurant, and a lady with TOO LOUD of a voice, started telling her date why she "really didn't want to be a couple"... It is like, come on, the entire restaurant is hearing this! Anyway, before she started that talk, she said that she went to an outdoor concert the evening before with her friend "Nina" from "a certain part of town", which just happened to be the part of town that I lived in and I knew "Nina". I called "Nina" and told her about this and she laughed and said that yes, she had just been to a concert with her friend "Donna" and that was the lady. Anyway, right or wrong, I told her the story of "Donna" being too loud with her date in the restaurant... LOL

DannyUk2017 · Answer

They are not my "dirty laundry" so i won't interfere, but if ONE of them jumps at Other's throat then situation changes, doesn't matter if its him/her, as funny as might sound today's poll show that Men are becoming more and more Harrased/Terrorised/Blamed/Hated by women, so yeah... If is just drama then NO, if it gets Physical Ofcourse Yeah!

katiesmuff · Answer

As an individual I would mind my own business and say nothing, however as the manager of a restaurant/bar and that situation happens I have to step in and either quiet it down or eject the couple. It's happened and sometimes the two arguing will turn on me.

Adaeva · Answer

Absolutely not. If someone is being injured I may call 911 but I know that is worthless because it will take an hour for the police to arrive and by then they are gone and whatever was happening has already happened.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Depends on what they are saying. If they are cussing each other out, and there is children around I may say something.

SaoirseS · Answer

Yes, I would, and I have.  Take it outside.

YesterdaysChild · Answer

People, take it outside. You are giving me indigestion!

Sour-rose · Answer

Naaah, i got a show to record silently and secretly now.

Billlewis · Answer

Probably not, unless I felt that the guy was being abusive to her.

CaliAttorneyGuy · Answer

Nah. I’d call the cops if it got physical, but too many crazy people out there to get involved.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

If they're actually yelling, as in, disturbing my meal, then yes I'll ask them to respect the other people and keep it down or exit the premises. If they're not yelling in the literal sense of high volume then I don't care, not my problem.

exitseven · Answer

I would tell them to take it outside, I am trying to enjoy my meal.

msc545 · Answer

No - I would say nothing at all. Not my circus, not my monkeys.

LazerBean · Answer

Nope, just sit and watch.

eastcoastgirlie · Answer

I have seen it and was in total shock watching them. I didn't say a thing.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

I'd say shut the f up in trying to eat my food in peace and if your not gonna eat yours piss off and ill have it

thegreenyogi · Answer

Honestly no I would not. But I would listen in to hear what the argument is about and have a good laugh to myself about it when and once out of the restaurant!

mobiusforniner · Answer

My dad used to beat me and my brothers in a public restaurant. Nobody said anything. Was probably considered good parenting back then.

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably give them a look unless it gets physical then a lot of us will probably join in

dolemite58 · Answer

nope id just laugh and thank the universe that i’m not married 😂

sheikalana · Answer

I don't think is my place to interfere, there will certainly be stares but I would expect the restaurant staff to take action instead.

electromagnetic · Answer

Only if it got physical otherwise it’s not my business.

HippoDino · Answer

No point injecting myself into an argument i know nothing about.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Only if it got violent. Otherwise, if the management did nothing about it I'd cancel my order, if placed, and leave.

Texaskid1 · Answer

I would tell that woman that she needs to listen to her man.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I would definitely tell them to keep their voices down or go outside

jahaims · Answer

Probably would ask the establishment to remove them and throw them a big tip.

Staximus · Answer

I would tell them to shut the fuck up and take that bullshit outside

shades777 · Answer

you shouldn't have to, the resturant staff should be doing it

Still-alive · Answer

Yeah im not getting involved in that lol.

JackCarter · Answer

That's free entertainment LoL

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Nah, I’d just watch like the nosey ass I am lol

Anemone978 · Answer

No but I would be listening LOL

RingOfFire · Answer

I'd probably tell them to take it outside.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Hell no. The staff can have them removed

Unit1 · Answer

Their shit is not mine.

chico800 · Answer

I woud say SHUT. THE FUCK. UP!!!

Slim57 · Answer

Nah.

Anonymous · Answer

"STFU"

Kristierose · Answer

Yes I would

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