Which one would you prefer in a partner? which one doesn't matter if they have it or not? which one wouldn't you want or don't like in a partner?

I'm thinking that your partner isn't gonna have all the ones you would like and there's gonna be some you won't like that much whatever side of the spectrum you are on for that
so how would you or how do you navigate around that, work with it? are any of these a deal breaker?
which ones do you have or would like to have or are in the process of having?
Which ones do you show the most of and the least of? which ones do you not have at all?
Which one would you prefer in a partner? which one doesnt matter if they have it or not? which one wouldnt you want or dont like in a partner?
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can you answer some of my other questions and ask others to
Which one would you prefer in a partner? which one doesn't matter if they have it or not? which one wouldn't you want or don't like in a partner?
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