Does falling in love too easy or fast show insecurity?

[whistlingwh0res]

[Finchie40]

Not necessarily, it just shows what you are looking for , sometimes we meet someone new that just rocks our world , when you both have amazing chemistry’ and connection together , you both feel butterflies for each other , but the truth is you are both just infatuated with each other , You don’t really fall in love with someone until you both choose each other and both stay committed to each other for the long haul , Love comes when you both make each other Your top priority over everyone else , when you stand by each other’s side through all the ups and downs life throws at us , When you both choose each other no matter what , when you both remove selfishness for each other when you both resist temptations for
Each other , that’s when you both will experience true love , When you wear your partner’s shoes before making decisions , shows you love your partner, and when your partner does the same
For you shows they love you as well, When you both feel safe and secure with each other is where love comes into play. We can’t force someone to love us , we can only treat someone the same way we want to be treated in return , if they choose to walk away from you , let them go because they never truly loved you in the first place , they just loved the convenience of you because they only love themselves. Sadly a lot of us come across bad seeds before finding a good seed , when you find that good seed , you are best to keep that seed by your side as much as possible by choosing them the same way you want them choosing you. When you learn to prioritize your partner it makes it easier for your partner to prioritize you , it needs to go both ways or the relationship will not last. Understand you can only give what you want to receive in return. Choosing each other over everyone else shows you both love and value each other. Learn to remove selfishness from within yourself if you want to experience true love , if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner do not expect them to remove selfishness for you. Most people in general have selfishness in them , basically only doing what is best for them and not considering their partner’s feelings , when a partner doesn’t consider your feelings over their own , then you are probably best to kick them to the curb where they belong , they are just a waste of time. But understand you can’t always be right and your partner is wrong , Why you should always wear your partner’s shoes before making decisions , when you learn to do that you will more than likely experience true love

[Nifrayu]

No. I fell in love very fast twice and the woman who I fell for fell for me just as fast. I don't think insecurity had anything to do with it, but we made bad decisions because of our strong feelings that formed very quickly. Based on my experience I think it might be a sign of a problem but I don't think the problem is related to an insecurity. To this day I don't really understand what the problem actually is, but I do believe it's a sign of a problem.

[sheikalana]

Kind of. It takes time to fall in love with someone. People often confuse being in love with being attracted to or lusting over someone.

[Anemone978]

Probably.. I fell in "love" lots of times but only once was it real LOL

[Quigly]

There's no such thing as "Love at first sight" That would be infatuation.

Infatuation can turn into a dangerous obsession (Crush) when things don't turn out right. That's what the movie "Fatal attraction" is all about.

Usually, it doesn't turn out right since you don't really know the other person very well.

[Der_Ritter]

If it's serial and one sided then yes, if it's a matter of just instant attraction in a couple cases and is mutual I'd say it was just chemistry.

[HippoDino]

I don't know about insecurity, I think it might show inexperience or loneliness though.

[Nik1hil]

No, it's shows..

Lack of logic.

Vulnerability to addiction.

Weak morality.

[Sunssong]

logic and love don't go together unless you define love as an action. Vulnerability to addiction might be a stretch. Weak morality eh maybe more so just ignorance. At the end of the day love is a feeling, in my opinion, which means you can fall in love quick with anyone who is lovable. However you should control yourself based on logic. You don't have get in a bad situation because you love someone. You can control yourself and move on if that person is a red flag regardless of what you subconscious wants.

[Nik1hil]

@Sunssong you are a women, with a man's profile..

[AmeerX]

Falling in love is not a bad thing at all. Problem is if you you fell for love and not lust disguised ad love

[Mansearching]

Not if both feel the same. Its like love at first sight. It can happen.

[Raaj4you]

No, it depends on the person. Heartless girls or guys don't fall in love. Some fall in love with the person and some for the money.

[Anonymous]

Not really, but it could show some poor judgement.

[Sunssong]

or great judgement

[OddBeMe]

Perhaps. Lots of reasons.

None of it smart.

[Lovesoad1]

No it's nice but I try not to because you'll get hurt.

[Anonymous]

Not insecurity. It shows lack of intelligence.

[wolfcat87]

No, it shows personality type.

[boobliker]

no not at all but you don't have say or show it

[Simslover92]

No it doesn't

[eagle1951]

what's wrong with it

[PrinceWalnut]

No. Why would it?

[LostA__Aryen18]

Perhaps both?