So I’ve been going into this store every Sunday for over a year now and talking to this girl for about an hour every week we get along great and I?

[Anonymous]

Think we could make a good go of a relationship but right now she’s in a relationship with a real loser. Should I tell her how I feel?

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh, I dunno man. That kinda sounds like a tricky situation. On one hand, if you really like her then telling her how you feel could be honest and put it all out there. But it's also risky since she's still with that other dude.

A few things to think about:

- Is she seeming unhappy in her current relationship? Or does she seem into her boyfriend still when you talk?

- How do you think she'd react to you confessing your feelings right now? Might make things awkward or put her on the spot if she's not ready to leave her boyfriend.

- Her guy might be a loser but she did choose to be with him, so there's gotta be something there still even if you think he sucks.

My advice would be to maybe feel things out a bit more casually first before a big confession. Flirt a little, see if she's flirting back or seems open to moving on. Compliment her now and then.

If over time she seems more into you than him, then tell her how you feel. But rushing it now might backfire. Play the long game, my dude! No sense rushing things if she's not in the right place yet.

Stay cool for now. But good luck man, hope it works out! Keep me posted on what you decide.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice

[Oliverlogan263]

You're welcome man