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I don’t see an age limit but would say adjusting expectations makes sense. You can find someone who will love you fully and be committed to you. Maybe they will not have kids with you. Maybe you will not get married. But you can find companionship and as you say you are very picky so that could be a challenge.
You had two relationships. What are some lessons they taught you?
To leave the first time a person is abusive or says, hurtful things.
Right. I’m sorry that victims feel trapped and take repeated abuse. Would you want to see a pattern of abusive language or would you ghost at the first insult? Just asking because people can be blunt with how they feel and share their sometimes negative thoughts in a healthy way; how do you tell the difference?
I can tell the difference by someone cussing you out and calling you names and degrading you and bring up things you went through as a child that wasn’t your fault and they tell you it was your fault.
There it is. Certainly those are examples of abuse and you clearly learned that lesson the hard way.
I dont believe u will 100percent find what u want if u have pickup standards even with god in the picture u might be holding yourself back from finding the guy he has for u
If you're a good lady who can assure to make your future husband very happy, loved forever and taken care of... etc than you're worth a 100 young girls...
In the end, a man who wants a real marriage will search for a real woman who have faith in god, also devoted and do know what a real marriage is, that's what matters!
If it's about love, I know for a fact you can't put an age limit on it. And I can love a single mom, divorced or widowed. It really doesn't matter. My only concern is if she can have children with me. Otherwise I am not that picky as long as the minds match
If you are single at that age and you don't want to be then their is something wrong with you. It could be that you are just bad at reading people and picking a partner or undealt with trauma aka not giving people a chance because of trust issues. Try to go to therapy. It can help with being self reflective.
At that age I wouldn't be picky you're nearing 50 I don't know if you have kids but most men want a young fertile woman with minimal emotional and mental baggage. I suggest getting on your hands and knees and pray to Jesus for his Father to place a man into your life.
Happiness can't be a long term goal because it's a temporary state of mind. I would choose something as a goal for relationship (s) that has more real substance.
On the plus side, maybe you're becoming gradually richer though? With no hubby to support and no offspring, sounds like a dream. And that's why I am single, merrily, sort of 😏😅
You are not alone in that, believe me. Seems to be more common now with more divorce, and those never married.
One of the reasons why I never married everybody I know is divorced that has been. I don’t see the point of wasting time and resource and money to get divorced.
@hunnie-bunches I went through it and it was terrible... I was in tears in court and will never forget the trauma.
See, I feel like I’ve had enough of that, without being married, I feel like being married, would scar me even more.
I used to work with a lady who was in her 70’s who found the right guy in her 60’s. They have no intention of getting married (they're both divorced), but to my knowledge they’re both very happy.
Yes I'd you haven't found it by 35 it's far to late. By them women's looks fade to much to attract the man she wants, and men's hormones balance out to much for him to put up with women's insanity.
My looks are fine. I don’t even look my age.
Everyone deserves happiness unless you're a murd3rer, p3d0 or any other along these nasty lines.
No, I don't. People where happy long-term relationships at every age.
a lot of old people find happy situations late in life
It all depends. If you got some single and decent men, about your age, living around you, then maybe you will find someone.
Nah, no age limit.. It just becomes harder as you age.. My mother is still having some hope even if she is 60..
I mean I kinda think older women are better since they are more mature than girls my age or younger than me. If ya need friends or guys to chat with lmk haha
A woman's odds decrease every year beyond a certain point. She can mitigate the reduced chances but not reverse the downward trend to zero.
Nah I dated a woman your age before so it's definitely possible unless you only want your age or older, but even then a lot date all ages, but I don't think there's an age limit no, as long as you're willing to still keep looking for it
i think it’s ok to just be dating and not married at any age. It may get harder for women to date as they get older but if you’re more realistic about your standards it shouldn’t be impossible.