How can a person rebuild trust in their relationship?

[piano]

We've been dating for a couple of weeks but I realized that she had been talking with another two guys when we started dating. She is not talking to them anymore, I checked it. But how can I rebuild trust in her?

[bongo]

in my opinion;

Owning Up: First off, if you messed up, you've gotta own it. No dancing around the issue. It's like saying, “Yeahhh, I did that and I'm really sorry.” It’s about being real and not making excuses.

Let's Talk – For Real: Both of you need to sit down and hash it out. The hurt partner deserves to spill their feelings, and the other needs to listen – really listen. It's tough but super necessary maybe I don't know

Getting in Their Shoes: The one who broke the trust? They need to get how much they hurt their partner. And the other person? It might help to try to see why it happened.

New Rules, New Game: You guys need to set some new ground rules. What's okay now? What's not? It might feel a bit formal, but it's about redefining what's cool and what's not in your relationship.

Actions Matter: If you're the one who goofed up, you’ve got to walk the walk. Be open and be honest, stick to what you've agreed everythings okeyy

Sometimes, Bring in the Pros: If things are super tangled, maybeee chat with a therapist or counselor. They're like referees who can help you sort through the mess.

Patience, Patience, Patience: Rebuilding trust doesn't happen overnight. It’s more like a marathon, not a sprint.

Take Care of You: Both of you should take some time for yourselves, too. The hurt partner needs to heal, and the one who broke the trust needs to do some soul-searching.

Forgiving but Not Forgetting: Eventually, there’s gotta be some forgiveness to move forward. This doesn’t mean you pretend it never happened, but you don't let it be the boss of your relationship's future.

Keep Saying “I’m In”: Keep reminding each other that you're committed. It could be saying it out loud, planning date nights, or like else whatever?

Each couple's different, so there's no one-size-fits-all here. The main thing is to keep talking, stay open to working through the tough stuff together, and remember why you’re in this together in the first place lol you should tryyyy :)

[RavVid]

You are judge and jury on this. A lot of people do think it is more efficient to multi-task in dating. A lot of people don't like being one of many.

For myself I prefer to start unencumbered and I'd expect the same in reverse. I wouldn't attempt to rebuild trust because in this circumstance I am rebuilding a false expectation I had.

[OlderAndWiser]

Two weeks is not very long. Did you have any discussion with her about dating exclusively? If not, why did you expect her to not be talking to other guys?

[HaleyCatgirl]

Personally I don't know for me if someone breaks Trust the trust they have left is all they got

[Married_mature]

Unless you mean she was indulging with them in sexting or romantic texts, I don't think she broke the trust. You had started dating, but she had a past. She's not talking to them anymore and that's important.

[m1tch3ll]

bro dump her if she ain't choose you before the relationship how tf she gonna say she choose you now, you now is no different to you a couple weeks ago

[Pudsmucker]

Time

[jimmy2]

That's, hard to do