Can a romantic relationship work with your twin flame?

[gayesblog]

Do you know what ''Twin flame'' means? It is an intense soul connection with someone thought to be a person's other half, sometimes called a "mirror soul."

So, do you believe that a romantic relationship work with your twin flame? Or does having contrasts between partners make the relationship better?

[blunty]

If we're going by the popular belief, a twin flame is like your other half, spiritually speaking. It's more intense than a soulmate because it's like two halves of the same soul, and it's said to be about spiritual growth and deep personal development.

Now, can a romantic relationship work with your twin flame? Well, it's a bit of a rollercoaster, to be honest. On one hand, the connection is intense, and there's a deep understanding and bond that's hard to replicate with anyone else. You might find yourself connecting on levels you never knew were possible.

However, and it's a big however, twin flame relationships are often described as being quite challenging. It's not always comfortable to face these parts of ourselves, and it can lead to some intense, even turbulent interactions.

Communication, patience, and a whole lot of personal growth. It's not your typical walk-in-the-park relationship; it requires a lot of effort and understanding.

There's also the argument that not every twin flame relationship is meant to be a lifelong romantic one. Some believe that these relationships come into our lives to teach us something profound and then may move on.

So, in a nutshell, yes, a romantic relationship can work with your twin flame, but it's probably going to be one of the most challenging and rewarding relationships you'll ever experience. If you're someone who's up for intense personal growth and you have the resilience to face the tough parts, it could be an incredibly fulfilling relationship.

[sage2021]

I saw a post on here about a week ago - anonymous of course from some chick desperately wanting to know what it is called when you meet someone that is like that. I said I knew it's called Twin Flame but she never acknowledged me for helping her find the answer. It was probably you that asked. Too coincidinky that here we are talking about Twin Flame relationships again.
Mine died suddenly September 8 - a few months ago.
When we first met, I knew right away when I met him that he felt very familiar to be around.
One day one of our neighbors had a problem with their cable TV and asked if we knew how to fix them. He did and I went along to help. After my neighbor observed us working together, he said to his wife "It's like they are one person"! We thought so much alike.
We knew so many of the same things, and liked so many of the same foods and things. We used to say "It's like we grew up in the same house".

[sage2021]

P. S. from Sage2021
He also said we aren't like two peas in the pod. We are the same pea in the pod.
We were very very close at one time.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

After hearing about that matchmaking cult that goes by the same name of “twin flame” where they ruin your life if you don’t become queer or straight as they tell you to, I’d rather just call it a “soulmate” and I imagine a romantic relationship would work very well if such a person existed.

[DollLover]

You're damn right I know what a twin flame is, you nimrod. You see, I was once deeply in love with my own twin flame, but unfortunately for her, she chose the wrong goddamn Joseph to fall in love with. We had an intense one-sided connection, sure, but that didn't mean shit when I started breaking into her house while they're sleeping. Tying up the husband and making him watch as I brutally sodomize my soulmate. Then, I make her drink my piss from a bathtub, and force-feed her food while laughing hysterically. Afterward, I leave behind a note explaining that I was really her long-lost twin brother, separated at birth, and promising to preserve and love her corpse forever after she dies from the newly made injuries.

As for you, kid, I have some advice for you. Don't waste your time trying to romance your twin flame. Go ahead, bang him if you must, but don't expect any sort of lasting emotional connection. Why settle for one man when you can have them all simping for you like you're some @bigassb1tch? Find yourself a string of coom connoisseurs to abuse and toss aside when you're done with them. That's the kind of sick fuckery that really gets my blood pumping. Now go out there and show the world what a real predator looks like!

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. It is incredibly passionate and turbulent. According to the philosophy however, the purpose of the twin flame relationship isn’t romanticism. And twin flame lovers are destined to separate. The purpose is to teach the other an important life principle and evoke a change to help better themselves and those around them.

I am hardly a spiritual person but I met the woman who quite aptly fit the definition of a twin flame. She was a mirror manifestation of my deepest insecurities. I knew exactly how to communicate with her because it was like communicating with myself. Our separation resulted in major life changes for both of us. In effect it felt as if I said goodbye to my child self. It caused an eternal longing and pain I’ve never before experienced with any other relationship. I’m married but the pain of losing my “twin” haunts me every day

its a journey that helps one rise to their best. But one that will mar your heart forever.

[sage2021]

@mobiusfornier
Your opinion sounds very close to what a twin flame relationship feels like. And yes, that person does feel like part of you somehow. I remember I said several times "I can't believe I found you".
He didn't know what I meant, but the linger he was around me, he knew what I was saying had meaning to it.
About the teaching part of the relationship - that is very true. He had ADHD and said I was the only normal person he met. I used to teach him lots of things in a simple way that he could understand. A lot of lightbulb 💡 moments.
I have a son who is high functioning learning disabled, so I kinda have a special gift of teaching people with learning disabilities things in a way that is easy for them to understand. These were very proud moments for both of us when he'd finally got it!
He said I was his apex in his life. I think that was the word he used.
His passion in life was astrophysics and astronomy. And he could do math problems like Einstein. He was a genius on one hand, yet like a student who needed some teaching about simple things and how to do things the simple way, which helped him a great deal with his grammar, English, life, etc.
So for all of the years we spent, just when he finally "Got it" he died suddenly September 8 a few months ago.
That's what I am having a problem with. Just when we accomplished what twin flames do, he dies?

[mobiusforniner]

@sage2021 I'm sorry to hear that. I do believe separation is an important part of the twin flame experience. But separation via death is very hard and I'm sorry you are experiencing that. Again, I'm not a very spiritual person but I believe at some point we will reunite with our "twin". If not in this life, then quite necessarily the next, at which point we continue the journey being better versions of ourselves.

[ohsheeT]

I'm not for sure. But I can say I wish in so many ways.
Just because that feeling of being one is so hot so intense so beautiful
But I think it would be short lived. I think if we do ever come in to each other's lives. I think we teach or we guide there's a love there there's a bond but beautiful Bond but I think it's meant more to help each other succeed I'm not really for sure.

I believe that I meant mine a couple years back and it is the long distance and it was one of the best most beautiful times I've ever had it's funny because if I think about her I haven't heard from her for 6 months but if I think about her she will call me.

[Sonorous]

I prefer to conduct myself in a more mentally sane way.

[sage2021]

@Sonorous
Since I don't know you, claiming you are more mentally sane than we are doesn't tell me much. You could be the biggest pervert for all I know.
I can't say for the other's on here, but I am not mentally ill. No professional has ever said I am mentally ill or not sane.
Go conduct yourself somewhere else because all you came here to do is insult your fellow members and try real hard to make it sound like you are above all of us. Well, you're not.

[Sonorous]

@sage2021 I apologize

[siseñor]

@Sonorous u r the craziest person here

[Sonorous]

@siseñor 🦦 hehehehe shhhhhhh 🤫

[kitsachie]

I'm going through this right now lol. I met someone who absolutely is my soulmate and we burned hot and passionately but it was great until it wasn't. We were both so extremely similar I could predict what she would do and I could read her emotions extremely well. Issues came from her emotional maturity wasn't quite at my level yet, so whenever we had clashing, she couldn't handle conflict or valid criticism.

Reminded me so much of how I used to be so it hurts even more but I suppose right person, wrong time.

[mobiusforniner]

Twin flame and soul mate are not the same thing. I think a lot of people confuse tense relationships with the twin flame philosophy, but twin flames in theory are mirror representations of ourselves. On a scientific level, some believe twin flame relationships are an unhealthy match between an anxious attachment style (the chaser) and a dismissive avoidant attachment style (the runner)

[love_conquers_lust]

Like Yin and Yang? Sounds like they complement each other well.

Are the contrasts not part of the mirroring?

[NathanDavis]

I do prefer a bit of contrast as well...

not entirely alike... not entirely different... but a more balanced bond

[Anemone978]

Who knows.. I really liked a guy who I thought was so similar and was my soul mate but yeah.. he clearly didn't feel the same..

[WhitneySnow]

I think it could but only if you both liked each other that way. Otherwise you’re better off being friends.

[HaleyCatgirl]

It depends on how in the clouds we are shall we say. If we're tripping that much maybe

[Andres77]

That’s what we had for a while. We were vastly different but amazingly good for each other for a time.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

OHHH I saw this pyramid scam documentary on Netflix. Did you actually pay thousands of dollars for that bs?

[sage2021]

@deus_ex_sisyphus
Wrong! I didn't see any stupid thing on Netflix! I am not in a pyramid scheme. Ok? So just stop it!

[MzAsh]

Is it a good doc? I thought about watching it

[FenixG45]

I think what you mean is soulmates. Scientific research has demonstrated that people are attracted to and their relationships last longer, if they are similar rather than opposite!

[Yannae]

I thought that was just the definition of "soulmates".

[mobiusforniner]

@Butthurt_Troll a lot of people confuse the tense passion between lovers as a twin flame dynamic. A twin flame relationship does not have to be sexual. Since twin flame relationships are usually complex and amplify personal insecurities, people seem to throw the label around to justify their toxic relationships. For those of us who truly had the experience, it's a spiritual journey that rattles to the core.

[sage2021]

@Butthurt_Troll
You are way off base with your opinion! Way off base! You don't know what you are talking about and you are just spreading misinformation to people who may be inquisitive about the subject and stupid people like you that try to sound hip using the newest buzz words sex may be part of it, but that's not what it's about. I didn't hear about it from some media buzz that fried my brain cells.
You may read in my writings here on GaG different things about him. Some good, some not so good. On September 8, a few months ago he died suddenly. This is my first grieving for a loved one who died in my life. So, on different days, I have all kinds of different emotions. We weren't perfect. But like he used to say "We aren't two peas in a pod, we are the same pea in the same pod".

[Heolurt]

Never heard of it before, so I can't say I believe in it either. I'm sure others do and they must believe it could work.

[Lisia]

I think it could

[Altheavas]

My twin flame is now my husband, sooo!

[sage2021]

@Altheavas
How do you know you and he are actually twin flames and not just a good match?
Also, real twin flames don't stay together. They are with each other for a while, but then they separate. So, I am not sure you are married to a real twin flame until you explain your relationship in greater detail. You gave us such few words to go on. ?

[Altheavas]

I will not explain my life in great details to anyone, lol people on here are not my therapist. I here to share what makes sense to me.

The concept of a "twin flame" refers to a deep spiritual connection between two people. It's often seen as an intense and transformative relationship where both individuals complement each other on a soul level, bringing growth, understanding, and often a sense of completion. Some believe it's a rare and profound union, unlike any other.. It's often seen as an intense and transformative relationship where both individuals complement each other on a soul level, bringing growth, understanding, and often a sense of completion. Some believe it's a rare and profound union, unlike any other.

I have found my relationship to be ones of the rare profound Union. Does that make sense?

[Anonymous]

twin flames don't exist...

[jahaims]

It's just a generic romantic idolization.

[boobliker]

with the right person YES

[whistlingwh0res]

are you raised by single mother?