It' s been 2 months since we are together , we were in talking stage for months, went on a trip but his family does not know me. Why?

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[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's kinda weird that after 2 months his family still doesn't know about you. I mean, usually if you're spending that much time together and went on a trip, that's like boyfriend/girlfriend status right? So I'd be wondering too why he hasn't introduced you or told his family. A few possibilities I can think of:

-He's not that serious about the relationship and doesn't want to commit by involving his family yet. Kindastringing you along without the title.

- Embarrassed or ashamed about you/the relationship for some reason and doesn't want them to know. That'd be messed up though.

-Family is super conservative or strict and he's afraid how they'll react. But still, after 2 months seems like he'd wanna be honest.

-He's hiding you cause he's got some other stuff going on, like maybe another girl on the side.

I'd be kinda hurt and wondering what's up with that if I was you. You deserve to know where you stand after spending so much time together. Might be time for an honest talk with him about becoming official and telling his peeps, or it's not really fair to you if he won't commit at this point. You gotta decide if this is a red flag or if he gives you a good reason. Trust your gut on this one.

[Baublebar234]

Everyone moves at different paces. Has he met your family yet? I know some people who doesn’t meet their s/o’s family until 6 months to a year — depending on their family upbringing. Meeting family is also a very big step and he could think 2 months is simply too soon… but it could also really mean a number of things.

[ThrillSeeker01]

People move at different paces. It's true that he might not be ready for a commitment just yet. Meeting the family is like a milestone