32 male-21 female , am I too old to marry 21 year old girl?

[Anonymous]

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'd question what you connect with a 21 year old about unless she's super mature for her age and already done with her part phase, but otherwise, sure, have at it

[Asker]

Sir i thought like u and i got angry with my mom..
I said 10 11 years of difference is a lot
But my moms friend told her about the girl
And said they hsve no problem with age
Even though i said no to my mom
They are like not giving fuck to what i say, especially my father
He just says girl accepted to meet, what do u say,
Anyway
They just want me to meet

[Anonymous]

Legally no, but I’d be questioning why women that are at the same age as you (and with the same amount of life experiences) are straying away from you, such that you had to seek out someone with less life experience and more naïvity.

[Asker]

I got angry with my mom.. There is a woman who is friend of my mom. She told my mom that this girl's family has no problem with age if he is goof person
Even thpugh i said no to my mom, she makes me meet that girl...
We will just meet nd ill tell her my age , assuming she doesn't know it

[CalmUntilAbused]

@asker

Is it a kind of omiai?

Back to being serious, it's perfectly fine legislation-wise, so no problem there. It won't hurt to get to know Her, at the very least. It's not like You're going to marry Her right away, and She will have a say in that matter. If She feels uncomfortable, She will probably reject the idea.

[crystalline0909]

Yes. If you were married at 21 you wouldn't have had a child half her age.

[Asker]

But i think its not right thinking
For example , to mr 7 8 years of age gap is normal
Bu if i think like u said, when i was 21 8 years younger person would be 13..

[crystalline0909]

The 21 yr old is too young to experience the marriage part of life. And eventually she'll leave after 10-15 years cuz she'll remain young when you are old. A 21 yr old doesn't even understand herself yet. Adulthood is a new world to them.

And her parents will kill you

[bededazzle]

nope. some people might judge you though. but two adults can make their own choices

[Asker]

Thank u for your reply

[bededazzle]

yeah man. if two people like each other that’s so that matters

[Asker]

Actually we haven't even talked.
My mom's friend told her there is a girl they know so they want me to meet her
I told my mom 20 21 is too young but her friend said their family has no problem with age , the care for personality..
I got angry with my mom cause she said ok witut telling me anyway
I will just meet her and tell her my age..
Lets see what happens
This is something like arranged meeting
If we see any positive thing we will continue or else stop

[bededazzle]

well yeah man just see how it goes. good luck

[Asker]

Thank you sir

[boggboss]

On paper no

[Asker]

Do you think its weird or not

[boggboss]

I dont

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[HappyWoman34]

I think you’re too old. Since you asked.

[Asker]

If i dont ask, its ok then

[HappyWoman34]

Well, you did ask. This girl is fresh out of high school. Or uni.