Was she actually serious about her "boyfriend"?

scooogy

I'm sometimes confused by such behavior myself, since I left behind a woman who "tried" to make me as her out (weirds me out by the way) for like 3 years and ended up trying to make me jealous by telling me she had a boyfriend. That ended up with making me ask her if she regardlessly wanted to meet up eventually.

One thing is that I avoided her for about 2 months, which randomly ended with her having quit with that guy actually. She either just did that for jealousy or didn't get to tell me of him the first 6 months she claimed having been with him when she did. Another thing though was that despite what she did there to me, about half a year later she did so again about another guy. I told myself "let things cool down eventually and maybe have her quit with that guy as well.

Turned out that despite I didn't see her with him anymore after a while (sometimes crossed paths here and there downtown) she still talked of him like she was still with him. That was my final decision to avoid her until today, which is about 17 months by now. She seriously told me I was just someone to her (despite almost 4 years of knowing me already and having told me pretty much personal stuff here and there). And guess what, after meeting up randomly somewhere totally else, she was the one greeting me, while I just thought "Gosh no, why must I see her again?"

Was she actually serious about her "boyfriend"?
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