Your partner doesn't let you see their phone, what's your next move?

[Anonymous]

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[starfoxxy64]

Actually I would already know he has been cheating since I would be very respectfully towards his own family while they and been lost his own father who I was actually planned with him to meet his family the same day that he found his father had suddenly passed away from a heart attack. which he told me that I was always caring yet sicken he would actually talk behind my own back and he would take his iPhone always with while he come over to my condo which he would be talking to the Gold digger female 🐑 lol who then got him arrested after she claims he was abusive which he actually went to cheat on me with 2nd Butch (41 years old ) and the 3rd (51 years old) female who actually said that (38 years old ) he was always talking about the 2nd female and not much about me which I was laughing toward my now ex loser because both of them were way older never would be able to handle being able to be impregnate by him which he always would talk about me and him having children and how he talks about baby name's with me and he actually tells me I was his issues which why he went to cheat because he was bored 🥱 lol which I told him that he must of been that bored force his own so called friends to attacked & froce themselves on his own so called girlfriend aka me and have they all had knowledge that I had under the influence of alcohol. Which I had to use my teeth🦷to stop 🛑 his own bastard friends and bit down hard. And he actually told me afterwards that night it was my own fault for not being able to handle my alcohol because I had puked since they were forcing themselves on his own girlfriend yet he NEVER WANTED to stop them. Yet he told I was the cheater in our argumentivity relationship. Which he actually has a domestic violent charges for the ex gold digger & also I guess she is his ex fiance , which he claims forced him to buy her 4 different engagement rings ranging in valuable of $499.99 - $3,000 since she needed to prove her friends that he was real. which she still has the rings and in Illinois State laws says that he actually can get the rings back since she broke the engagement agreement with each other.

[7Phoenix7]

This actually happened before. We had no issues using each other's phone at any time. Until one day my phone died during a phone call with my mom. He was playing his video game so I went and grabbed his phone to call my mom back, and was met with an Enter Passcode message lol

Long story short... it's usually a bad sign, a waving red flag when they are afraid of letting you use their phone. I believe in privacy but I also believe in red flags

[Asker]

So was I suppose to just fly over the fact that you snatch shit? Snatchy snatcher 😂

But if he never had a past code before and he has one randomly it's definitely something he's hiding behind thaf past code

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao no he was playing video games on his laptop. His phone was on the bed. And yes he was hiding something. Of course I found out what it was eventually..

[Asker]

Yep passcode was a dead giveaway lol

[7Phoenix7]

It's not bad either if they both agree to stay out of each other's phones. That's cool too

[Asker]

Fuck that tho 😂

[7Phoenix7]

😅 What's gonna be your move, if she doesn't let you see

[Asker]

Ask her what she's hiding lol

[7Phoenix7]

"Nothing babe, I just don't want you going in my phone. " now what? Lol

[Asker]

I'm snatching it then giving her mine, it's a finesse cause it's not rude if I exchange it 😌☝🏼

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao

[thomasmore]

i have a password in my phone too. it's stupid to not have one because if you loose your phone or it gets stolen, the person would be able to mess with my accounts and data.
My partner can always get the password from me, and i don't change it.
So the phone is open for her.

[7Phoenix7]

@thomasmore yea exactly, you gave her the password...

[smne35]

That's how my ex was she was real protective of her phone shit everything, I suspected I knew she was cheating but I had my kids to raise, so out didn't bother me because I knew it was leaving soon as my kids started college, and I'm not one go snooping around, í know people who go as far as putting spyware on their partners phones, when you reach that point you might as well end it, I wouldn't waste my time to stoop that low as to put spy software on someone's phones, I wouldn't want that done to me I have had that happen but it's invading someone's privacy and not worth it, it's over at that point,

[OlderAndWiser]

1. If I don't have any reason to distrust her, I don't care about seeing her phone.

2. If I do have a reason to distrust her, I talk to her about that reason and I listen to her explanation. If there is some lingering doubt and looking at her phone might resolve that for me, I explain that to her but I add that showing me her phone is her choice.

[Asker]

Yea and my question is if she refuses to let you lol

[OlderAndWiser]

Then I would tell her that I would be making a decision about our future on the basis of the information that I already had and if she thought that me seeing her phone might resolve my doubt, then she should reconsider her decision to not show me. And I would probably break up with her, but this assumes that there is already a reason to not trust her aside from her hiding the phone from me.

[Asker]

Very respectable response bro

[YesterdaysChild]

@ChicoFromThe305 Maybe there is a reason, like she is planning a surprise birthday get together with friends or family and doesn't want you to know about it. People should be able to hide things that are none of your business. As long as there no other indication of not being faithful, let it slide.

[Asker]

I guess it depends but in this generation trust is earned unfortunately

[OlderAndWiser]

For me, trust is given and kept until she gives me a reason to no longer trust her.

[Apple1996]

Walk away and wait till night time then go through his phone

[Asker]

A smart apple 😂

[Apple1996]

Sneaky apple 🥷

[Asker]

Smart sneaky apple lol

[Finchie40]

I wouldn’t trust them and think they were up to no good , so I will keep my phone blocked from them as well

[Asker]

Homie chose war 😂

[Finchie40]

I think cell phones and social media played a big part on damaging the foundations of a relationship, I was a teen in the 90’s when technology wasn’t as advanced as it is today , people weren’t really glued to their phones and social media apps like it is today , we had internet but it was slow as shit and most homes only had 1 or 2 landline phones that a whole family would share , so nobody really had easy access into each others lives , to contact someone , you needed to get their phone number or their screen name first , before you could really get in touch with someone , Today you can just type in someone’s name and you can secretly message them without anyone else really knowing. The second I joined Facebook , people I thought i would never see or hear from again were popping up back into my life like it was nothing , old girlfriends that I thought I would never see or hear from again were inboxing me and pretty much flirting with me , not caring about whether I was in a relationship or not. So it just goes to show how much has changed since the past , When I ask married
Couples how they stayed married for so long , they all say because we didn't focus on cell phones and social media

[Sonorous]

I'd mirror the behavior.

[sage2021]

My then boyfriend's phone 📱 was guarded by him at all times. He put a secret passcode on it so I could never see what was on it. He even took it in the shower and slept with it.
I was upset because I knew he was hiding something. He could use my phone without any problems. I didn't have anything to hide.

In the 7 years I knew him when e would call his number he never answered it and let it go to voicemail. A friend of his told me he never listens to voicemail, he just deleted them.

Ohhh, but if I didn't answer my phone he didn't like that one bit. He's like "Why didn't you answer your phone"?
So I replied "Because you never answer yours. I just wanted you to see how it feels".

[sage2021]

What if he did give you his secret passcode digits and you looked through his phone and looked in "Photos" and there were pictures of him having intercourse with much much older women. You saw all of his parts and what he was doing?
It was full of porn and dating sites. Then what would you do?
Anyone?

[Asker]

I would've been gone when knowing she takes the phone in the shower lol

[sage2021]

Chico
Pay attention man. He was in the shower 🚿 with his phone - not her.

[Asker]

I know, you pay attention, I'm putting myself in the shoes of the situation, I'm a straight man so changed it to a woman. Lol

[IslaTheWitch]

I wouldn't even ask to see his phone... If I had to use it because my was dead, I would only use the functionality I needed without spying around.

a relationship requires trust and respect

[Asker]

That's my point what if he doesn't want to give it to you when you are asking to use it for whatever functionality tho

[IslaTheWitch]

It's his phone. I would ask if he can do this for me if he doesn't want me to touch his phone.

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[IslaTheWitch]

like, @chicofromthe305if I'm with someone in a relationship, why should I, as a first reaction, show distrust? Why? Because of my own insecurities? Is it fair?

if we decided to be together it means we already earned each other trust. Why should I throw it away without hard evidence? We can talk about it later when we both cool down.

I also would like my partner to ask me first and draw conclusions after...

[Asker]

Well if someone is preventing you specifically from seeing it, seems like enough evidence to me to start concotioning assumptions lol

I don't believe it's wrong as someone in the relationship to want to assure they are with a person worth trusting, you are an older women, I expect suck loyal behavior from you and you grew up in the moments where people should be trusted until it's broken but as time went by, it's devolved to the point where trust is now earned and if you haven't noticed dating isn't how it used to be and the youth has grown into seeing such behavior and they have evolved to survive in it by not trusting until it's earned, it's sad but true unfortunately.

[Asker]

Such* not suck

[IslaTheWitch]

so would you start the relationship with someone you don't trust @ChicoFromThe305 ?

[Asker]

I guess it depends how well I know the person.

[emeraldsaphire]

I mean, It's not really my business what they do on there phone, but... If it's cheating doing something despicable then it is my business. So my mind is gonna go to worst case scenario, and I've seen a lot of true crime, so that's dark.

I'd probably ask first, but if they refuse too I'll swipe it when they are showering or sleeping.

[Asker]

This seems like a realistic reaction from a territorial woman, nothing better than a territorial woman 😂

[Lliam]

I would ask why they want to see it. If it was innocent, I would unlock it and give it to them. But I would watch them to make sure they were just using it for their stated purpose.
I don't have anything to hide, but I won't put up with a sneaky, dishonest, suspicious snooper.

Fortunately, neither my wife nor I are suspicious of each other.

[Asker]

That's Good, sounds like you married the right woman

[WhiteSteve]

I would probably just ask what’s up with that. I’m not a “go through each other’s phones” guy, far from it, but that would be undoubtedly suspect behavior that I’d either speak up about or keep my eye on.

[Asker]

Well for sure, actually I've never met a go through phones type of guy, it's usually women but I'm not totally against it tho, maybe that's cause I'm loyal tho.

[WhiteSteve]

Women don’t need to worry about me, I’m a TERRIBLE liar, it wouldn’t even get to the phone before I gave myself up somehow, lmfao

[WhiteSteve]

I don’t live like that, just saying if I did…. I’d be unsuccessful😂

[Asker]

Well remind me to never take you anywhere where you gotta lie to the cops

[WhiteSteve]

Lmao, that’s a whole other game for me, I’m smooth with that. Lying to people I care about is what I can’t pull off. I can’t hide the internal guilt, haha

[Asker]

I don't know about that 😂

[WhiteSteve]

Lmfao, fair enough, but I’m just saying I’m a Drug War veteran, maybe eight tours of duty, I’ve got some stripes🫡

[Asker]

Way to blow your cover 😂

[WhiteSteve]

Statute of limitations are all up, that was the 00s, I’m cool now. Joey B pardoned all kinds of weed offenders the other day too. I think America has evolved past that. Makes me feel like I was like a bootlegger from the alcohol Prohibition days, lmfao

[Asker]

Lol.

[Jessup2day]

I'm tickling them and giving them purple nurples until they give it up.

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But on an actual serious note I would be suspicious just because I'm naturally like that I tend to jump to bad conclusions so I would probably just ask them outright why they won't let me see their phone or just leave them.

I value my peace overall.

[Asker]

Lmao I read that first part and I questioned myself like "what tf did I ask?" 😂

But yea that's understandable for sure lol

[NathanDavis]

I have not been in this situation before...

but also... why would I want to "see" their phone?

[Asker]

Can be for whatever reason, even just to call someone cause yours ran out of battery and then they refuse lol

[NathanDavis]

I've never ran out of battery... lol

[Asker]

There's a first time for everything, mostly unfortunate situations lol

[NathanDavis]

yeah... I really hope my phone never runs out of battery, lol

[Asker]

Shit happens 😂

[NathanDavis]

I actually have two phones...

[Asker]

Well of course, one is for the illegal contacts

[NathanDavis]

nope... that's a radio

frequencies, chico... frequencies

[Asker]

No you need a flip phone lol

[NathanDavis]

when you want to send a, message... you make sure all sides hear it

that's how they know you're not messing around

[Asker]

Bruh you don't send messages when it's illegal shit, that's already an error 😂

[NathanDavis]

Chico... the truly illegal shit, is beyond the judicial system... lol

[NathanDavis]

besides, I'm only smuggling Cheetos... feds don't really care about those

[Asker]

All illegal shit is beyond the judicial system, it has to be or they would get locked up 😂

[NathanDavis]

not when the judges are bought...

[Asker]

Good luck with that 😂

[NathanDavis]

luck has a price, as well...

[Asker]

Everything does, nothing is free lol

[bobalife]

From exp, it’s a red flag. Typically me and my old partners are opened about both our phones. But once it happens…. It’s sus. I would just confront them and their reaction is already the give away.

[Asker]

Yep sounds like a logical opinion indeed ha

[bobalife]

Why thank you 🙆🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️

[Asker]

Np 😆🙏🏽

[admles]

Move on with my life.

I never go through my partner's phone, ever, and expect the same in return.

If I thought something was suspicious, I would ask them to show me relevant conversations, but I never go through it.

[Asker]

And if they don't want to talk about it?

[admles]

Then we would be seriously talking about breaking up.

I have no tolerance for the whole "I don't want to talk about it" when there's a serious issue.

[Asker]

Very mature bro, you try talking it out but if they lack the ability to communicate, there's really no point in dating cause communication is a big part of relationships, nice

[admles]

Yeah I got fed up with women who don't communicate, they stonewall, silent treatment - zero tolerance for that.

I told my now-wife that very early on in dating, and she respected it.

[Asker]

Yep I like speaking my boundaries early as well so there's no misunderstandings when I act a certain way lol

[MemeSupreme]

if i was already sus i gotta take his kneecaps but like if i wasn't then idc. bro probably got porn on his phone he embarrassed about lmfao

[Asker]

Yea I guess that's a good point lol

[ohmyguy]

Id play it cool knowing it's likely over between us n try n salvage what is mine n avoid further loss by not allowing my self to fall prey to my partners alterior motives.. by being the nice guy.. or stronger one or any laime title one adoren me with so I keep complacent.. n ignorant to being taken advantage of.. I'd ever so gently back off.. back out.. withdrawal refrain.. my contribution to the perpetuation of the relationship moving further

[Joshydavid25]

Welp..

[Asker]

No cap lol

[Joshydavid25]

No questions needed after that.. Although, if I'm being honest my sappy ass would just have a talk about with her. 😂..

[Asker]

I'd just snatch the shit and throw her my phone, an exchange isn't rude lol

[Joshydavid25]

[Asker]

We getting somewhere wit that one 😂

[Joshydavid25]

That's metal my guy.. 😂😂.. But it would probably be a tiny but justified in the situation..

[Asker]

It's mental until you get manipulated to believe some other bullshit and then turns out your assumption was right but you find out some other way 😂

[Joshydavid25]

Oh no not mental, "metal".. 😂.. But you're absolutely right..

[Asker]

Lol.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@Joshydavid25 You'll get your little purse and walk away? 🤣

[Joshydavid25]

@PrettyCrumblBb

[7Phoenix7]

@Joshydavid25 we outta there, see ya

[Joshydavid25]

@7Phoenix7 The best solution 😂

[7Phoenix7]

@Joshydavid25 lmao

[EmpressAJ]

I don’t want any man that feels the need to hide shii so I’m going break up with his sneaky ass

[Asker]

Completely understandable, I don't get how so many people just ignore sneaky shit, I guess this is why peopledont notice for a while when getting cheated on 😂

[EmpressAJ]

What’s get me is when they are upset when they finally find out 😂 like did u not see how they refused to let u open their phone

[Asker]

Yea they act like it's such a surprise, like it's not easy to tell from a mile away when they act different lol

[EmpressAJ]

That’s why I just silently walk out the relationship, find somebody else to play with

[Asker]

You mean cheat? Well that took a shameful turn real quick ☻

[EmpressAJ]

I said walk out the relationship meaning “END” as in he is officially an “EX” boyfriend afterwards. Where did u read me say anything about cheating?😂

[Asker]

You said silently walk out the relationship which sounded like not telling him you are breaking up and just moving on without breaking off the commitment, which is still cheating 😂

[EmpressAJ]

It’s not cheating tho, It’s ghosting. Just cuz I didn’t tell him we broke up doesn’t mean I’m still in a relationship. He know he was already cheating on me and being sneaky. I’m choosing not to argue and confront him cuz all he will do is lie. So I pack all my shii and leave permanently.

[EmpressAJ]

It isn’t required to verbally inform someone that is cheating on u that y’all are breaking up. They’ll get the hint when they realize they haven’t heard from u after a long while

[EmpressAJ]

On top of that , cheaters don’t particularly take getting broken up with very well and anything could happen. U wouldn’t understand anything like that cuz ur a guy urself

[Asker]

It's cheating Bro, if you didn't tell him that the relationship is off, you cheated when you chose to be with someone else while still keeping the other guy in the belief that you are still holding commitment to him, I'm not saying he isn't a cheater cause you said he was but that doesn't change the fact you are one as well now, it was as simple as even just leaving him a text that it's over and you are breaking up with him.

[EmpressAJ]

We can agree to disagree

[Asker]

I guess.

[Redstang88]

Fine, I don’t want to see it and she doesn’t need to see mine

[Asker]

Alright.

[bolverk]

IF I happened to be in a relationship ATM, and IF I had any thing of consequence on my phone I'd return the favour, but seeing as I do not I'd leave it unlocked, as all I have on my phone are family/business contacts, some Ebooks, and off line maps, nothing that I would consider sensitive.

[Andy1970guy]

Do you trust them? If you don't trust your partner then leave... If you do, they could be secretly ordering a present for you, or watching some weird porn that they don't want you to worry about. They could be chatting with a relative or close friend about you and don't want you to see. Everyone has some secrets from their partner... of you think that they are playing up with someone else, they probably are, you don't need to see their phone for that.

[KrakenAttackin]

Assume she is cheating or planning to cheat.

[Asker]

Sounds like a logical assumption tho cause there's no reason why they should be hiding their phone from you right

[Likes2drive]

My ex wife wouldn’t let me see it so that was a red flag right there, she was obviously cheating back then I relized. I left my phone at home by accident and no passcode and she actually went through it and deleted peoples numbers and called some people

[LiamJHayden]

I have no desire to see her phone. If she gives me any reason to distrust her I dump her.

[Asker]

Without evidence? Fair enough lol

[LiamJHayden]

I don't need evidence. Once distrust creeps in there is no point in continuing.

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[HawkPerception]

First communicate the importance of honesty and transparency in a relationship. If they still refuse and continue to hide their phone, I would break up.

To be fair, I wouldn't even be with a girl like that in the first place

[Anonymous]

Going through it. I did this for years on and off. It's called pain shopping and hurts your self esteem

[Asker]

Fair point

[Opinion Owner]

Highly not recommended!

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Leave, I wouldn't care to see her phone, but if she was that dead set against me seeing it, that would just prove she is involved in something I wouldn't agree with.

That's enough for me to decide the relationship is a waste of time.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I would be suspicious. I've never had this happen, but the time of year and situation would play a part. What if they had a gift or a surprise on the main screen of their phone. I really don't have trust issues that much anymore.

[Nemesis2k7]

People have a right to privacy. Why would you snoop into someones phone?

[Asker]

Cause why wouldn't they let me snoop if I let them snoop lol

[Kabluie]

It's actually the correct move, respect for privacy is a building boulder to a long lasting relationship.

[Anonymous]

I don't ask to go through her phone so for whatever reason I needed to use and she refused to give it me, I would be suspicious for sure.

[Asker]

Who wouldn't lol

[Miristheiss]

That is suspicious, cheater behavior. I would investigate.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've never asked nor cared to see a phone other than look something up when mine is dead. Everyone I've dated knows that, and nobody has ever had issues about giving me their phone.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm not the type to be using other people's phones as I have my own but if she acts too suspicious then I'm going to ask her why and depend on her answer I would see what to do.

[Anonymous]

I'll ask him why? and if his answer isn't "because I don't want you to see what I bought you on Amazon" then we through 😤

[Asker]

I know you were gonna say the sassiest most Latina shit possible 😂

[Opinion Owner]

A gift is the only thing he can hide from me 💁🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Well okay i see you Crumble 💅😂

[aceleon]

dump them

i can't be bothered with suspicions and anxiety or her pseudo sense of privacy.

[AmeerX]

If it comes to that it's likely things are going in a bad direction.

[exitseven]

Respect their privacy.

[Asker]

Nah.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Why would I need to see their phone though?

[Asker]

It can be as simple as checking the damn time, the topic of the question tho is that he doesn't let you, so what's your next move? 😂

[Little_Bumblebee]

If it's just the time I would use my phone, a computer, or a watch.

I just don't snoop in other people's phones, it's private.

[Asker]

That's kinda sus, maybe he should be going through your phone 😂

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah, that's just not going to happen. If he cannot be civil and trust me, then we shouldn't be in a relationship.

[Asker]

Are you hiding anything?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Not really, but that doesn't mean I would enjoy someone looking through my private stuff. And it's a sign of them not trusting you.
It's a violation of privacy.

[Asker]

I just don't understand what can be so private that your partner isn't allowed to see, sounds more like it's something you know he wouldn't like but alright lol

[Little_Bumblebee]

Have you ever had someone looking through your room or apartment? Like every shelf, cabinet, drawer? You might not be hiding something. But it's incredibly uncomfortable and feels like a huge violation of you and your home.

I would feel just like that if someone was going through my phone.

And again, it seems more like they just don't trust me. And they would be looking for something.

[Asker]

I'm not a good example, I'd be hiding my guns and ammo around my house 😂

But I don't understand what can be so private that you can't show your lifelong partner, I can't think of anything unless it's something someone would want to hide from their partner for whatever reason, your partner knows everything about you

[Little_Bumblebee]

Listen, it's super uncomfortable to have people go through all your stuff.
And if they need to go through your phone, they don't trust you.

It's that simple.

Having someone not trusting you, searching through your stuff, wanting to judge everything they can find?

No thanks. I wouldn't want that kind of person in my life.

If my partner needed to borrow my phone, sure. They can.

Of they want to use that trust to look through it, that's just a huge violation of that trust.

[Asker]

Yea but my point is that there's nothing private that normally has to be hidden from a partner, most of the time it's something deceitful, or if it's like a gift they ordered or something for their partner as a surprise but normally it just raises suspicions if you refuse to be secretive with your cellular device, if someone is being sneaky with their phone, it's hard to be trustful, I can trust but if the person is being weird it's only normal to suspect something is up, considering I'd be the type to be very close to my partner, secrets would catch me by surprise, now if y'all both hold secrets from each other then that's different I guess.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah, I'm not secretive about my stuff. It's not like I would always close it down when they are in the room and such.

Privacy is just important to me.

I share a lot with those I care about and I'm mostly open like a book. If they ask I answer.

All I need from them is to respect my privacy and property, to not look through my stuff without consent.

I don't know how else to get this across.
(I'm single right now so this is hypothetical.. but damn this is a fear of mine to find someone who won't understand my thought process)

[Asker]

Well being secretive and wanting privacy are two different things, one is deceitful and the other isn't, even then normally both people know each other's privacy too, so what's so private that you gotta hide from your partner? Cause depending on what it Is, it can be deceitful, the point of my question is that they refuse to give you their phone, when it's that extreme, something is usually up.

[Little_Bumblebee]

It's not like I would be hiding something.
But I need to have a reason for them to look at my phone. Anything is weird, right?
Why the need to look through your partners phone other than you not trusting them?

Also, I can easily have very personal and private conversations with my friends where they might not want to share the conversation with my partner. (We often talk about mental health issues and stuff)

[Asker]

That's... a good point bumble bee, but I meant normally or in a natural situation where you wanna see their phone for whatever reason, not paranoia, although if it does happen from lack of trust I would assume it's cause they have their suspicions from other things, but you make a fair argument, that's where I believe communication should happen but would you prevent them from using your phone for these reasons because normally a partner shouldn't start going through their partners conversations and to be fair a partner wouldn't if they know they are just your friends right?

[Little_Bumblebee]

They can use my phone if they have something specific to use it for.
But it's like if I'm showing some pictures to people. I would hate it if they just used the time to continue swiping.
It's not because I have pictures that are NSFW or anything. But it makes me uncomfortable anyway.

It's that "going through your stuff" feeling, and I really hate that.

Just that communication, respect, and being open about it is important to me.
And I'm huge on letting people have their privacy and private space.

[Asker]

Fair enough that's understandable, so would this be enough to have you not want to lend your phone to your partner?

[Little_Bumblebee]

If they need to use it, they can lend it. Just don't go through my phone.

[Asker]

Okay so you would give it to them, my point is about people that wouldn't lol

[Little_Bumblebee]

I think my point basically just is, what is their purpose of using my phone?
And whether or not they will just borrow it for that specific reason, or because they'll snoop.

[Asker]

So that isn't a lack of trust? 😂😂

I'm sure they will use it for whatever purpose they tell you they need it for, unless you don't trust em lol

[Kelly6]

We don’t spy on each others phone,

we respect each others privacy

[Anonymous]

Nothing... thats an invasion of privacy to see someone eles phone.. I would hate someone snooping on mine

[andreasderjuengere]

I will then assume that she has no phone?

[Asker]

Don't act surprised if she does lol

[andreasderjuengere]

Hah hah :) ... Arguing with my partner only spoils the next few hours.

[Asker]

I guess... whatever the heck that means 😂

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I couldn't care less about what's going on in her phone because I have my own privacy too so I respect it

[cryanBWC_10collins]

SEE HER FOR THE BEST OF THE BEST OF MY LIFE WITH MY HEART AND SOUL FOR TARGET PRACTICE 💋💕

[spartan55]

I don't want to see my partners phone.

[Selliebeanz]

Get on them leaving shoes ✌️

[azgınteke]

I have no moves, it's her personal belongings, I don't want to see it.

[Anonymous]

Drug them and hack it.

[Asker]

If you can hack it why would you drug them 😂

[Opinion Owner]

I didn’t mean remote hacking

[dudeinohio]

I. just go on with my day.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I wouldn't think much about it honestly.

[YourSong]

Fight

[Asker]

You are going to win, the chick always wins 😂

[YourSong]

True

[CarolineW]

Why should they?

[sentinustm]

He can't see me either

[dragoblack]

Respect their privacy.

[askthis56]

ı dont show my phone either

[jimster2929]

bye bye unless they can explain

[Anonymous]

Break up.

[perpetualsadness]

Investigate...