My boyfriend is 36, we are dating about 1 and half year and we both foreigners here. he is nice person. He is caring, loving, listening, romantic and I got all love in never had from my ex. And the most important he has good heart like always help poor and give servant and waiters big tip.
But the problem is he can’t stop drive even when he just drank.
A month ago he said,
“I think this country is not suitable with me anymore. A shit happens this year. I lost too much money this year ($1,5 millions). What if I move to Europe? Will you go with me? Not now, but maybe next year. I’ll prepare everything, i’ll buy a new house or rent. And get you a new car. And if everything is ready, u go there or i’ll come here to take u”.
And i said maybe yeah, depends on the situation.
But today, he just told me that he might be deported. Coz he had accident while driving last October and was drinking alcohol. And he also told me that he sentenced to prison for 2 years 5, 5 years ago with the same case. But they released him only in a year. That’s why he might get deported. But if I move there in his country, I don’t have job and it means I will depend everything to him.
My question is, if u were in my position, will you move with him?
But the problem is he can’t stop drive even when he just drank.
A month ago he said,
“I think this country is not suitable with me anymore. A shit happens this year. I lost too much money this year ($1,5 millions). What if I move to Europe? Will you go with me? Not now, but maybe next year. I’ll prepare everything, i’ll buy a new house or rent. And get you a new car. And if everything is ready, u go there or i’ll come here to take u”.
And i said maybe yeah, depends on the situation.
But today, he just told me that he might be deported. Coz he had accident while driving last October and was drinking alcohol. And he also told me that he sentenced to prison for 2 years 5, 5 years ago with the same case. But they released him only in a year. That’s why he might get deported. But if I move there in his country, I don’t have job and it means I will depend everything to him.
My question is, if u were in my position, will you move with him?
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The guy sounds like an idiot who needs to quit drinking before he kills somebody or himself while driving. What are you going to do when he's in jail for drinking and driving in the next country?
In the worst scenario, maybe i’ll just go back to my country. I have my own house there, it’s pretty big. If something happens in my life and i have no job, or money. I always thinking to sell the house or rent it and get smaller house for myself and run my family business.
What country are you in now and what country do you have the house in?
I live in China, and i’m Indonesia. My house worth about $450k 5 years ago.
I mean 15 years a go, the house was new when i got it. And no one lives in that house since i got it until now. Only my parents sometimes clean it like 1 a month.
I have a few friends who quit drinking and it was the best thing they ever did for themselves because they always did stupid shit when they were drunk. He should quit drinking. What's so hard about calling a taxi when you're drunk instead of driving?
We live far from the place we hangout often. But if i with him, he always keep sober, but still we stay in the nearby motel coz I always fell asleep after drink. But when he is alone, he always go home after drink. I told him to just stay in the hotel when he drunk, but he didn’t listen. Coz he doesn’t want makes me wait for him alone. But I can’t always accompany him, coz i have to work here. I don’t want to leave him, coz tbh he is the best person I ever had (love me). But i also have to be worry about myself if I move to his country.