Is one tiny slap really enough reason to break up? (Page 2)

[9in_Serpent]

Honestly be thankful and get away from him asap! If that's his attitude towards women calling them "sluts" and has zero empathy or compassion and not only that but says that about your sister to your face and thinks that a slap is not a proper response? And is willing to immediately break up and kick you out like that? Than you definitely don't want to be with that misogynistic narcissistic toxic asshole!

[9in_Serpent]

if you want to spite him date the guy that got your sister pregnant! lol 😂

[ItsMariusz]

Let me just join the chain of people here answering to your question... yes

[Yoursweetgirl]

I thought that he hit you and my answer was immediate yes but then I read it and my answer is still yes.
You should have used your words.

[LiamJHayden]

Sorry, but an intention blow, however light, out of anger is enough for me to dump a girl, too.

[DextroShade]

Imagine the roles were reversed: his sister got pregnant at 17, you called her a slut, and then he slapped you. What would you do?

[douride2]

Sorry about it girl but I would put you out the door to. He is right you way over reacted.

[DreamLife7]

He should've slapped your dumb ass back. Glad he kicked u out. Grow tf up

[Charliefretz329]

Hitting is abuse. How would you have felt if he slapped you? It sounds toxic AF. I should’ve left many relationships at the first sign of abuse because it’s a harbinger of things to come.


You should get some therapy and work on yourself

[Paul09]

Do you know how many people if love to slsp or punch? It's called self control. Once you go off it can end up bad, like it did. Like other people said, what if he slapped you, how would you have reacted?

[Cutegirl06]

He's right! It is abusive. If he slapped you I bet you wouldn't be saying he overreacted.

[Cutegirl06]

If he slapped you you would be running to all your friends telling them how awful he treats you! I say good for him!! Girls/women think they can treat a boy/man anyway they want and it doesn't matter. Well he just showed you it does matter!!

[Cutegirl06]

You tried pretending you cared? He deserves so much better!! Heat of the moment thing? So you'd do it again I'm sure SMH

[James_Likes_PPL]

U could be in jail right now. That’s illegal.

[James_Likes_PPL]

Also what’s his phone number. Can we be friends?

[zagor]

Maybe he pictured you behaving that way with potential future children rather than with an adult male and didn't want any part of it.

[sheikalana]

Violence is unacceptable. Imagine if it was the other way around, him spalling you? Best thing you can do for now is stay away from him.

[Anonymous]

So, I'm going to break from the others here and say he overreacted unless it's his red line. Overreacted only if it was the first time and he didn't explain that's not acceptable. Some guys like most women won't put up with any violence.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm in polite society I don't have to "explain that hitting me is unacceptable." I would suffer that with imbeciles and some hypothetical foreigner from some made up warrior culture where that may be appropriate, and that exists only as a mental exercise. In reality you know not to hit because you may be hit back. Seems she didn't pick up on that lesson in life, and as I doubt her from this made up warrior culture, I'm going to have to go with "she's an imbecile."

[msc545]

I wonder what your reaction would have been if he had hit you...

[Cutegirl06]

Me too ✋️

[Nerdvana]

If a guy slapped your sister, would you be ok with it?

[OddBeMe]

Your sister obvi missed her sex ed course along with her periods. But if you’re that sensitive to truth, maybe get a new boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

He’s fine, you’re an absolute red flag anyway

[Anonymous]

Flip the genders, you'd have called your male figure to put him out of commission permanently
So kicking you out was mild by comparison

[Twalli]

If that is really the only time you hit him, it's an overreaction. I have feeling it's not though.