Is sex is the core of any romantic relationship?

Question

Many people says sex leads to love is it true?

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

The two can be quite mutually exclusive. Sex often just leads to more sex. No one is obligated to have emotional investment in another person simply because of having sex with them. Sex is a physical release. ANd it can be ONLY that.

And love doesn't necessarily lead to sex, either. Some people don't have very strong sex drives and sex isn't important to them. So they can take it or leave. Or just leave it.

But regular folk usually like the two paired: emotional investment and down the line a bit, sexual involvement.

But, don't be fooled. Sex doesn't lead to love any more than love leads to sex.

It can when both people are on the same page and want the same relationship outcome. Otherwise, one or the other person may be spinning their wheels, wasting time and being disappointed by love AND sex.

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

I don't think so. You can have a romantic relationship even without sex since love is what brings you together. Some people see sex as a way to express more love and affection towards their partner though.

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Here's an analogy... let's think about boats. Sex is like the fuel for the motor on a boat. But being with the right person... and having good shared goals, respect, loyalty, and so on make the boat more sea worthy... cause what's the point in having a boat if it's going to sink within a week or a month? Some of y'all have tiny boats full of holes that you are riding at high speed away from shore cause you get off on running that loud engine. Some of us have what amounts to a huge cruise ship that's going to be floating for 50+ years.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Sex does not lead to love but it can be an expression of love.

The most obvious difference for me between having a platonic female friend and having a female romantic partner is the sexual relationship I have with a love interest. Having sex certainly does make me feel closer to my partner but I don't think it makes me fall in love.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

For me love and sex are impossible without one another.

pervertedjester · Answer

Guys love women from before the start. Women love Men as they leave. Romance is a trick to speed up the disconnect.

RebelinSteel · Answer

No, yes it plays a part, however there are other factors such as emotional connections, that feeling of belonging to each other. Friendship is one of the big ones, the other person needs to be your friend, and a friend you love. Personally communication is one of the core parts of a romantic relationship, both vocal and non vocal communications.

Demonatrix · Answer

No it's only one aspect you also need to have respect, friendship and attraction. An interest in the other person.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

No, a lot of people have sex without it leading to love.. Is it the core of any romantic relationship.. No, I would say intimacy and slowly seeing into each other's souls is the core.. Sex is an important piece to consummate that romance though..

Dargil · Answer

Sexual attraction and desire are the forces energizing new and fresh relationships. Romantic feelings are the product of them. A romantic relationship without some "wet eroticism" is unlikely not to last long. The hope and potential of it will keep a dry relationship going but only for a while. It is in male DNA, and it won't be denied long.

Lynnzee · Answer

Love should be the core of any romantic relationship. Sex itself can be good but it may not keep and person. I deep connection is what will keep them and will make the sex better, but don't force the connection it should be natural.

systemsareyo · Answer

It certainly helps relieve the biological release needs, if anyone catches my drift 🌊💦 goes for men, goes for women. After all, how much "bonding" can actually be achieved romantically if there's no physical aspect, handshakes don't count lol thats professional platonic. Lol. 😋👀😋

RingOfFire · Answer

I wouldn't describe it as the core. I would describe it as the most intimate mechanism of bonding in a romantic relationship. Core suggests that the relationship revolves around it. I don't think that is the case where there is real love involved. It is an expression of the love, not the core of it.

ConfusedGinger21 · Answer

You have to be compatible, so definitely. It’s part of an earlier base of the relationship than used to be the norm.

FreyaRed · Answer

Love is connected with emotional and psychological transaction in a relationship, entire intimacy is just a part of it. However sex is the glue that fills gaps and cracks which always appear, sooner or later.

Raaj4you · Answer

Yes I think so. For some sex leads to love and for some love leads to sex. Both love and sex are the core of a romantic relationship. You can't love and live with a person without having sex. You might fall in love with a person but you can't stay away for too long from the that person.

sawno · Answer

I consider a relationship like a chair, if its stable you can rely on it but it has different pillars to be held up. Sex is one of the pillars, but to me truly loving each other for who you are is the biggest one.

Hardshell1234 · Answer

I think it’s often the first part and is important but over time probably takes a back seat to friendship and companionship. I think it should always be important though as a means to connect and express love.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Abso-fucking-lutely. To me, it is the thing that separates you from a platonic friend, from a family member, from your co-worker you really get along with, is the sex that truly makes the love and the bonding of the two.

CoachJ · Answer

While physically the only thing that separates platonic from not is sex, I'd offer intimacy is equal on the emotional side. Some are hurt more when their partner forms an emotional connection outside the relationship more/equal to a physical betrayal.

slatyb · Answer

It's not. Familiarity leads to true love.  Is sex the core of any romantic relationship? It's one thing many people want in their primary relationship.

sheikalana · Answer

Sex is a great way to connect with your partner on so many levels physically and emotionally. It's essential on a healthy relationship in my opinion.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I wouldn't say it's a core, but for me, it would be impossible to keep a romantic relationship without physical closeness.

aceleon · Answer

if you are not an asexual or old and unable to, then yes, it is it's spine, without it, it will collapse.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is the glue that keeps people together. Without it, you might as well be roommates.

pinkydaze_ · Answer

If the answer is yes, prostitutes would've fallen in love with their customers after a good day's fuck, but they don't so no.

EmmaMary · Answer

Quite simply you cannot one without the other.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

THE core? No. Is a part of the core? Yes.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

No that is a lie, sex can be very helpful into growing a bond with your partner but love is the core of a romantic relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

The difference between being best friends vs being in a relationship is that the latter involves sex.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

Sex doesn't necessarily lead to love, but, sex is much better with someone you do love.

The_Sexpert · Answer

As much I have had and love sex, I won't say it's the "core" but it's essential

bananathunder · Answer

they go together like peanut butter and jelly in my opinion

Anonymous · Answer

I would say it's up to each person/partnership to decide that. I can tell one thing. For me if sex is all she's bringing to the relationship then she can keep right on walking.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Sex is surely important in a relationship, but it shouldn’t be the foundation that the relationship is built on. If it is, said relationship will inevitably fail.

jahaims · Answer

Love should lead to sex not the other way around. Love is the core not sex.

Roudyrebel8 · Answer

Sex is a beautiful part of a loving relationship but it can't be the foundation or it will never last

lemonsandmelons · Answer

Haha well, the reason science exists is because people are bad at making causal relations.

Anonymous · Answer

Id say its one of the core things in a romantic relationship.

NathanDavis · Answer

not usually, no

CharlotteNoivern · Answer

Not all relationships are based on sky

MissBoogus · Answer

I think love leads to sex

Sparkie460 · Answer

Sex doesn't lead to love. Love leads to sex

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Lmao. No; sex does not lead to love.

Theodoricus · Answer

If you're married, yes. Otherwise no.

JennieF · Answer

It sure helps a lot!

LazerBean · Answer

No lol

lightbulb27 · Answer

Nope not

sage2021 · Answer

SEX IS NOT LOVE!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Is sex is?

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yes.

SolitarySolace · Answer

It shouldn’t be, no

HouseMoat · Answer

Yes!

Minahh · Answer

It's bs

rebeliouse · Answer

I wish it did

riverrat3 · Answer

It can

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