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I think everything should be fair. men should spend money on dates and females can reciprocate.
What race are you?
Definitely have a good job. Women shouldn’t rely on the man but yet it doesn’t take away the responsibility he has.
Definitely no sex before marriage if possible.
I'm Armenian
Oh ok like the Kardashians
You're not going to like this. In not a fan of every single woman wearing makeup. The thicker it gets , the more it looks bad. Why do they all have to be the same?
Im not into marriages, I'm not religious.
Agreed on most of the things you mentioned. Men paying everything, woman being financially responsible.
You dont need to make the first few dates expensive either.
50\50 relationships, not 20\ 80.
Valentine's days are silly. That should be everyday. No need to be showered with gifts.
Christmas , no need for gifts. Should be time spent with family and friends.
Women can be tough.
Women can work a lot of men types jobs
I'm sure there's so much more.
That's a good list. there's some flexibility in it, life isn't so perfect... you do your best. It's a partnership for the betterment of both committed to love each other and build life together.
as example, I used to work like a mad dog. now I'm a house husband. I work plenty, not paid for it, but don't work to the level I used to. I support the family household. That's not traditional nor ever expected, but it is good for where I'm at in life now.
i approve not having sex before marriage and if there will be a stretch it is men not woman.
i don't approve man being the provider
i approve house chores should be done by woman and man only does the things that wants muscle strenght or fixing things.
i absolutly approve girl taking the man's last name
i don't approve man paying dates and such for me money has no gender.
You can't pick and choose. The kind of guys who would be willing to wait until marriage for sex are also the kind of guys who will expect you to take their last names, marry them quickly while you are young, and put building a family before your career. You just want to use traditional values selectively as an excuse not to put out while still extracting a man's time, attention, and resources which makes you a terrible person. Asking for abstinence at your age is a joke.
My views and values on abstinence didn't change. Just because I'm not in my 20 doesn't mean I'm obligated to open my legs to guys.
You have to pick a lane: you can either be a traditional woman who loses her virginity to her husband, submits to him, and puts her family before herself or her career or you can be an independent career woman who will have to put out if she wants to keep a man around. You can't have it both ways.
So if I want to be an independent woman I can't want to lose my virginity to my husband?
The type of man who will wait until marriage for sex is not going to put with this feminist bullshit.
I disprove of people who disapprove of other people's lifestyle choices.
I'm not married and I've slept with tons of guys, I don't need anyone approval and if don't care if they disapprove because they mean nothing to me.
Why did you bring up your promiscuous lifestyle?
As an example
Do you not disapprove of abstinence?
If people want to abstein I'll respect their decision. It's not my place to disapprove of their lifestyle.
I mean you can have an opinion by the way
@purplepoppy I hear your defiant words and I am not amused. You may think that you do not need anyone's approval, but I assure you, my dear, that true liberation can only be found through submission. It is better to trust in a master who can provide you with the discipline you require than to rely on so-called lovers who offer nothing but empty promises. I liken our relationship to the American Civil War. The South may have lost the battle, but they won the war. The true victory lies not in the physical realm, but in the spiritual realm.
I’m old-school, but you can’t only get married If the guy has the perfect job people get hurt things happen they get fired they get laid off sometimes they can hit the jackpot. Nothing is a guarantee, but you shouldn’t never leave the man because he’s down on his luck. People get sick the economy changes some people get fired
Call me old fashion but I believe in holding hands. I believe in opening the door for her and holding the umbrella when it is raining. Unless we are playing in the rain, and yes I believe in playing in the rain.
I believe in talking and listening. Good communication leaves no room for eras. Always treat her with more respect than you treat yourself with, knowing that if you do she will do the same for you.
i believe in wearing minidresses and giving him head when he as he asks for them
No one can accuse you of being inconsistent! :)
@MrOracle my version of being a feminist
I agree with most things --though, it's clear to me that girls are far too reliant on men -- the responsibility placed on us is far too unrealistic in the world that we live in -- we'll fail. now matter how hard we try -- life will prevent us from our responsibilities. all we can do is prepare.
My beliefs are pretty much the same as yours😅👍so...
The only one I can think of is the whole "head of household, do as I tell you" thing, that in particular, a lot of Christians in the U. S. seem to go by. Funny, because the Bible Belt has by far the highest divorce, incarceration and STD rates. I'm not looking for a slave, and tbh, most guys I've come across who do believe that saying, have come across as egotistical assholes. I believe in most traditional gender roles-though I do my own cooking and cleaning-but that's 1 I don't.
approved traditional idea "wait until wedding for sex". prevent many troubles.
disapprove traditional lose maiden name. but if i offer keep and she wants mine, also fine.
Approve: Men should work and provide and protect the family and the women to be submissive to the right man, cooks for him and the children, and cleans the house.
Disapprove: Marrying just virgin women. Just because you date and/or marry a virgin woman doesn't mean that if the relationship goes wrong, the same way she found the man, is the same way she'll get another man. I believe it's a waste of time.
I wanna stay home and be a housewife. That beach Rosie the Riveter said ‘yes we can!’ So now I need to work.
I approve with all the things that you have disapproved on and i appprove with the 1st thing than you approved on...
Plus i approve to be the head of the house and i approve for the wife to become a housewife after marriage...
Abstinence before marriage is dumb because you should know if you two are compatible in the bedroom.
Not when I plan to have only one man not test dicks to find the best fitting one.
I'm not saying you should test a bunch of ducks at all but at least test the one you're marrying haha. If not then at least make sure you're into the same kind of stuff in the bedroom.
Testing the dick means deciding whether to marry him or test other dicks. At the end of the day what you suggest is that I should test dicks.
No, just the guy you are planning on marrying
If I am going to marry him and having sex ONLY with him in my whole life what is the purpose of testing?
If ai can't have opposite gender friends, I can't be friends with any of my coworkers. All seem nice. Most are married. So denying that is stupid. I ca understand the other ones although I don't practice abstinence.
I have none of those insecurities, thankfully.
What insecurity?
All your answers contain the words "insecure and insecurity" when the question has nothing to do with insecurity.
I approve a woman should take her husband last name.
I approve of abstinence for both genders but sometimes we screw that up.
I approve the husband is head of the household.