What do you think of my former friend that's Christian telling me during an argument that Im a bad person cause I go to strip clubs and lust?

[Ryan210000]

All I did was keep on telling him, how we should keep up the communication well after he moved in late 2016 to another state. He started ignoring and taking forever to respond couple of months after he moved. He kept up with the games nonstop and stupid me I kept up with the friendship. Took days to weeks to months, to respond to texts, calls, Facebook messages, etc even though he was on. Than recent times he says after responding 4 months later through text,"I admit I should communicate more but you are a whore monger and you dont see me bringing that up constantly. " He then said how I am a bad person and Christian for going to strip clubs and lusting.

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We stopped being friends. Irónically he has done worse and used me during his time abroad other states. He had me help out his mom and all of a sudden responded back fine and reached out fine and then after a huge argument with his mom I stopped helping her and communicating with her. He then stopped reaching out fast and hitting me up first. He also reached out to ask if he wanted me to move in with him and his partner obviously for help with money and after I said no, guess what happened?

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@Apple1996 talking about this post.

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@Flatmanlewis this is the ex friend I am talking about that is Christian and I'm Catholic by the way.

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@OtterMan68 what do you think of my Trump supporter ex friend's hypocrisy that doesn't mind shaking his hand, going to his rally's, etc yet all this judging of me?

[Drew-1990]

I am Christian and I will tell you he is in the wrong. As a Christian we are not supposed to judge people who don't follow our belief. We are supposed to show you love and lead my example but never judge. We also need to talk about our faith but not shove it down your throat. We are supposed to judge internally, if you were Christian then he should tell you going to strip clubs are wrong but remember that he has his own sins, he should work on his own before judging. But again as a non-Chistian he had no right to judge you.

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 what do you think of the sins he did towards me?

[Ryan210000]

I am a believer in God.

[Drew-1990]

I guess I would need a little more details but no he shouldn't use you, it's one thing to want help but use is another thing. Sounds like he maybe hypocritical judging others for their sins but ignoring his own.

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 didn't you read the details I put underneath the post above?

[Drew-1990]

Yes, that was just my opinion from what you described

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 He only wanted me to move in with him or the main reason to move in with him, was cause of money cause of the way he treated me, it is obvious that was the main reason or only reason. He lied during that time saying that is not the main reason he wants me to move in with him and said the main reason is he misses hanging out. isn't that manipulation which is a sin? He attempted to use me. And he used me with helping out his mom. Why do you say you need more details? aren't the details enough proving how he is a hypocritical Christian thinking he is a better person and Christian when he isn't yet he is thinking shit and talking shit?

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 he moved from Cali to Florida in October or November of 2016. He contacted me fine until a couple of months after he moved. Than he started playing games and answering days, weeks, months later to texts, phone call, video call requests, Facebook messages (even when he was on) and other times he didn't play games. He played more games than not. He hardly hit me up first but all of a sudden hit me up first when asking me if I wanted to move in with him when he moves from Florida to Ohio and all of a sudden went back to the way he was before during when I told him I was thinking about it. He also made time all of a sudden for other stuff too (video calls, etc). When I told him I wasn't going to move he all of a sudden went bacl to playing games again. And all of a sudden he hit me up first asking me to help out his mom. I said yes. During that whole time ( a couple lf months) he didn't respond too late, made time, etc. And after I stopped helping out his mom after she was mean to me, he went back to the games. Do you see now how it is obvious how he attempted to use me to move in with to Ohio and used me with helping out his mom? Using people are sins.

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 you are a hypocritical religious person that sees nothing wrong with him using me (which is a sin) and attempting to use me (which is a sin) but only has a problem with my sins. Typical.

[Ryan210000]

Typical religious Christian or Catholic ok with manipulation which is a sin but not other sins.

[Drew-1990]

I'm not ok with any sins, I admit this guy was in the wrong completely. He is a hypocritical person. But not everyone is. I have my own sins I battle with and I recognize it. I'll call out any Christian sinning and if they saw me sinning I want them to call me out

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 do you agree what he did is manipulation? He attempted to use me for money to move in with him to Ohio and lied saying he wanted me to move in with him causes he misses hanging out. And even though he was honest about me helping his mom, I still think that is manipulation too because since he started playing games in 2016, he always thought he was a good friend, etc. Manipulation is evil and a sin, yet he is saying I did evil by paying for sex, lusting, going to strip clubs, while I can point out the evil sins he did. And he said I am a bad Catholic and person yet I can say he is a bad Christian and person for his stuff. And he said I am a bad influence for him. Tf?

[Drew-1990]

Yes, I would agree. He's been manipulative. And that's not right, I don't disagree with the things he told you but not the way he said it. I think he's being hypocritical and he should be worrying about taking the pluck out of his eye before he worries about the spec in yours.

[Ryan210000]

@drew-1990 and he supports Trump, a man who lusted, cheated, paid hookers, and other sexual things yet he is judging me super hard. If someone supports Trump that is fine, but if you are going to be judging someone harshly about something that someone you support does, than that is weird. He also wouldn't mind going to his rallies. He told me does think Donald is a pos but my point still stands, he is even willing to go a rally of someone that does shit he talks about.

[Drew-1990]

I'm going to stop you right there, I am not going down that political road.

[Drew-1990]

You got to let this go though and move on. You're beating a dead horse here. You've already told me multiple times how he's manipulated you and seeing hypocritical and I have agreed with you. I don't disagree with the things he called you out on because he is right as a Christian, you shouldn't be doing that. But he shouldn't be doing the things he's doing either. So he is calling out your sins but ignoring his own which is not correct. Just stop playing this drive you crazy and move on

[Lliam]

I'm not religious, so the only one in this scenario, as far as I'm concerned, who was wrong was him. He asked for money, took advantage of your friendship and charitable nature, essentially lied about being your friend, then lashed out at you with his sanctimonious, un-Christian Christian bullshit when he no longer needed you.

He was obviously not your friend. Maybe judging you for being "immoral" made him feel better about stealing from you. What a cretin. If that's what it is to be Christian, then it's worthless to be one.

To put it in Christian terms, you were a good Samaritan, and he was a lying, thieving Pharisee.

[laly520]

he has no right to judge u
u r an adult n free to do whatever u want with ur life
each one gotta mind their own businesses

[Ryan210000]

Did you read the details too? What do you think about him thinking he is a better Christian than me despite doing what he did and attempted to do?

[laly520]

he isn't God to judge u or to decide who's better, not his place to do that n he has no right to compare or make himself seem better, its just sick how he behaves
if he is going to spread hate n be judgy then he isn't even Christian

[Ryan210000]

@laly520 also he attempted to have me move in obviously only or mainly for money. He all of a sudden reached out first for that and he responded back fine for that. And he reached out first for his mom and he responded back fine regarding that. He went back to his usual ways when he didn't need anything. I was always a good friend to him and he changed a couple of months after he moved. The irony right? Yet he says"You are a bad person for going to strip clubs and lusting." Most religious people in Christianity religions have always been hypocrites. Have you noticed that?

[laly520]

he is the bad person
u better cut ties with him
he doesn't seem like a friend to me
rather than a jerk

[Ryan210000]

A bad person and jerk for using me regarding his mom , attempting to use me for money to move in with him, judging me, or all the above? I already cut ties.

[Ryan210000]

@laly520 can you answer please.

[Ryan210000]

@laly520 please answer what I asked?

[Ryan210000]

Just answer laly unless you are scared for some reason?

[Ryan210000]

@) laly520 I dont know why you are scared. You think all the above or not?

[Ryan210000]

@laly520 you are on his side.

[laly520]

I am not

[Ryan210000]

@laly520 do you think he is a hypocrite about judging me yet he used me and attempted to use me?

[laly520]

yea he is

[tremendousfern]

He's not wrong, but there were probably better ways to go about it considering Christians are told to build each other up into being better people, not ignore each other and insult each other. But by the sounds of it that wasn't his priority and instead he just viewed you as a resource to be manipulated and got mad when you wouldn't comply.

[Ryan210000]

@tremendousfern so his sins are fine with what he did towards me with using me and aytempting to use me?

[tremendousfern]

I'm not sure how you got that out of anything I said. In fact, I said specifically that it sounds like his priority wasn't trying to help you, but instead he just viewed you as a resource to be manipulated.

[joehypo1]

Yeah im not going to bash on religon but as soon as he started in on it i would put a end to it im not putting religon down its just not for me and from what i read he just want to use you so what does that make him , or is it ok because he goes to church on sundays knowbody is perfect i could not tell you how much i spent on strip clubs but i know its several thousands and i have met some cool people while doing so

[Ryan210000]

The thing is he thinks he is a better Christian yet look at what he attempted to do and what he did. I should have stopped the friendship when he kept ignoring me and taking forever to respond and especially when he tried to use me for money and use me with his mom. I was in denial before or knew deep down something was up because miraculously he doesn't take long to respond and hits me up first when he needs something, it is obvious he did not want me to move in with him for the right reasons (for money) and when it comes to just wanting me to help his mom, that is using too.

[joehypo1]

People like that do that to everybody true friends are hard to come by and as far as thinking he is better is not the christian way and respect is just something you do its part of being a adult i dont really know how else to say it i was abuse extremly and i think it made me better person even though my childhood sucked but it took me a few years as a adult to fully get my shit together i really can't stand when they drag god into it thats what my dad would do i think he still feels guilty but i made dam sure i was better than him my dad the christain lol i remember when i was 7 with severly broken arm I had to find a ride to hospital my dad was not there due to devorce and my mom married a monster i have rid the monster and lived he killed my mom and its super sad to say this but i felt nothing and as cold and calculated he is i got every piece of evidence to prove what he did im a karma guy karma will see this through for me i need not do a thing and that right there makes me better than him with no god involved i dont believe in god , god would not do that to a child and if im wrong let me go to hell at least its warm there and dopamine is only 1 chemical that makes up adrenaline the other chemicals i listed are the other chemicals it would take to synthisize adrenaline which would be hard since the formula is always diffrent having sex is just a fraction of what makes up adrenaline not to be a asshole but crack cocaine is about as close as you will get i use to smoke it like it was going out of style

[Joshydavid25]

Well, I wouldn't call you a bad person, but I do question your relationship with God if you're going to strip clubs and lusting after women.. I mean I subscribe to a lot of Christianity but as soon as I deliberately started doing things against it, I couldn't in good conscience call myself a Christian.. But, yeah I think he should really check the log in his eye before he tells you off about the splinter on yours.. He doesn't sound like a great friends in the first place TBH..

[Ryan210000]

He did shit to me though and claims to be a Christian and a better one? Did you read the details?

[Ryan210000]

Everyone always sinned.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah exactly.. That's why I said he should check the log in his eye before he tells you about his splinter.. And that he doesn't sound like a great friend to begin with.. He's probably not a Christian..

[Joshydavid25]

Your splinter**..

[TheSpider]

BEST answer here!

[Joshydavid25]

@TheSpider Yes sir!

[Ryan210000]

@TheSpider the difference between this guy and you is that he thinks both things are wrong with what my friend did with using me with his mom and attempting to use me for money and also with me going to strip clubs&lusting.

[Ryan210000]

@TheSpider you are just against what I did but not what he did. You pick what sins you are against. Hypocrite.

[Ryan210000]

@Joshydavid25 this guy is a hypocrite. Look at his other comments. He is ok with that guy using me with his mom and attempting to use me for money but only has a problem with what I did. You dont cherry pick sins.

[Ryan210000]

@Joshydavid25 you aren't a hypocrite like most religious Christians.

[Joshydavid25]

True can't cherry pick..

[Ryan210000]

@Joshydavid25 do you know most religious Christians have always been different from you

[Joshydavid25]

I wouldn't exactly call myself a Christian.. But I hear you though.. True Christians know not to be hypocritical.. I guess the ones that aren't so "religious"..

[ChicoFromThe305]

It only makes you a sinner, we all eventually sin and we should prevent it but he is falsely spreading the word by putting himself on a pedestal, the bible says all sin is seen the same in the eyes of god, him lying is just as sinful as you lusting at strip clubs in the eyes of god, it's why we should prevent sinning in general, this sin spectrum is manmade, God's way is more simple, you either sin or you don't, to god sin is all the same.

[ChicoFromThe305]

So lying to your parents is the same as murdering someone.

Only we do all that pointing fingers at what's worse.

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of the details I put under?

[Ryan210000]

What do you think?

[TheSpider]

Its God with a big G. Is thsi some kind of autocorrect typing thing in this place or do you all really think of God as "god". Like he is tiny peeping mouse you can step on. To ME it's G*O*D* - Exclamation point. EXALT The LORD.

[ChicoFromThe305]

See what I mean, completely unnecessary, this person has no clue on what he is talking about because god doesn't tell us to rely on materialistic things but you think that stopped this bastard, of course not, according to this clueless bastard he believes someone using a lowercase substracts God's power but clearly it's something he designed in his own brain and isn't biblically accurate, there's many of these people that linger and you gotta know the difference between a guidance call and a judgment call, you shouldn't go to strip clubs cause it's sinful but that's coming from someone on the same boat when it comes to sin, which I must work on as Well, this isn't a pointing fingers type of thing.

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of my friend attempting to use me for money and using me with his mom? You didn't answer that.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I didn't read it, that sucks, kinda off topic but still sucks

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 you can't cherry pick sins. Him attempting to get me to move in with him and his partner for money (pretending he actually wanted me to move in with him), and him wanting me to help out his mom. He used me for one thing and attempted to use me for another. Dont you agree all these sins are equally wrong and he is a hypocrite for calling out my sins yet look at him?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well of course, all sin is the same in the eyes of god, that is my point, if you are getting that pedestal talk and see no guidance for the better good then you are most likely dealing with a false prophet thats trying to look down on you using judgement, although if you see judgement but it follows with guidance then it's possible the person is truly looking out for your salvation and is trying to be a guidance

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 what do you think of him preaching about me sinning yet he used with me with his mom and attempted to use me for money? Do you think he is a hypocrite?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think it, it's what's it makes him, he is a hypocrite and it's why I'm saying that he isn't on a pedestal cause he's a sinner too

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 you staggered with your response, can you say that again?

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 your grammar in the beginning is confusing

[ChicoFromThe305]

My grammar is always confusing, Its way faster to type this way

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 are you saying you dont think he sinned specifically with what he did towards me but with other things?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm saying in general he isn't a saint, no matter where he sins, putting himself on the pedestal makes him a hypocrite, it's as simple as that cause he is a sinner as well, judging someone for sinning when they sin as Well, Makes them a hypocrite.

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 I get you, is only talking to someone for favors and using them for money sins?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I guess that would depend on what is done specifically because being taken advantage of and believing you are being taken advantage of are two different things, if the person is taking advantage of someone and they are aware of it then I'm pretty sure it's a sin

[Ryan210000]

@ChicoFromThe305 bro he responded back in an appropriate time a couple of months into him moving. A couple of months after that he played too many games but all of sudden he needed a favor with his mom. He all of a sudden reached out first and responded back fine when I was helping his mom. When I stopped helping out his mom cause she is psycho he played games again. And then he reached out to me again first when he wanted to see if I would move in with him and his partner (obviously for help with money, cause his true colors came out and it is obvious due to games he was playing). When I said no he played the games again. Now that I told you everything is it clear he used me for one thing and atrmepted to use me for another? aren't those two things sins?

[ChicoFromThe305]

They seem like fake people to me, he wouldn't be the first to use god for his own benefits

[Ryan210000]

Yeah he became fake a couple of months after moving to another state. He was fine in the beginning of his moving and before he moved. His mom was always fake though. Are the two things he did sins?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Possibly, I'm sure it counts as using someone so I wouldn't be surprised if it was, it's not specified in the bible but I'm sure somewhere in the bible it falls in the same category as something sinful, such as manipulation, it can fall in the same category as that

[TheSpaceGnome]

You are a bad person for going to strip clubs, but not for lusting, and not because of regigious nonsense, but because you could become infected with dangerous viruses.

Your former friend is a bad person for believing in nonsense instead of relying on science/knowledge.

[TheSpaceGnome]

religious*

[Phoenix98]

Your not a bad person but you certainly shouldn't be doing that as a Christian and it doesn't matter what your friend has done, it doesn't make what you did any better. Your both being judgmental and both being hypocrites

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of what he has done snd he thinks he is a better Christian?

[Phoenix98]

That's his own folly, your time is better spent fixing your own.

[Ryan210000]

Did you read the details?

[Phoenix98]

I read everything and my opinion remains the same either way.

[Ryan210000]

About him using me and attempting to use me yet he thinks he is a better Christian. Dont you think thst is ironic?

[Ryan210000]

So you have no problem with what he did to him attempting to use me for money and him using me with his mom? Or you think everything is equally bad with what he did and what I did with strip clubs?

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of him thinking he is a better Christian?

[Phoenix98]

1. So you have no problem with what he did to him attempting to use me for money and him using me with his mom?

2. I've already answered that question.

[Ryan210000]

You are saying you think him and me did both equally bad things and no better Christians than another?

[Phoenix98]

I've already answered that question within the comments.

[b_lova]

Please don't confuse him with an actual Christian. Nothing in your statements sound Christ-like.

[Ryan210000]

@b_lova you think he is a hypocrite for attempting to use me for money and using me with his mom but yet getting mad for me lusting and going to strip clubs?

[b_lova]

@Ryan210000 The first part yes definitely. On the latter part that is less hypocritical and more not accepting that you are human being. There wouldn't be a need for the Gospel if GOD expected us to be perfect. It doesn't mean we should wallow in our sin but Christ provides us liberty to seek understanding of ourselves and grow. We are not perfect in the natural the moment we accept Christ, that is a process that GOD gives us over time as we grow in relationship with HIM.

Your "friend" shouldn't be shunning you as you go through that process. Even Kind David in the old testament was given an opportunity to grow. He made mistakes and was forgiven by GOD. Your friend is not your judge and doesn't sound very friendly.

[Ryan210000]

So you agree he is a hypocrite for attempting to manipulate me with moving in with him only or mostly for money (manipulation is a sin) he lied, and attempted to trick me, etc when I asked him if it is only or mostly for money when I asked him why he wants me to move in with him? He lied and said it is mostly cause he misses hanging out. And he used me for helping him with his mom.

[b_lova]

@Ryan210000 my best suggestion to you is to avoid interactions with this individual. His actions don't seem Christ like to me, but I'm no man's judge.

[Ryan210000]

@b_lova he cut me off last July and I told him off calling him out on his hypocrisy. Do you agree he is a hypocrite for manipulating me one time and attempting to manipulate me with his mom. Can you answer this stuff please?

[Ryan210000]

Please answer the things I asked you when you have a chance.

[b_lova]

I can't say he is a hypocrite for his actions as I didn't know the person in question. At most I can say that's not a Christ-like action.

You seem very hung up on labeling him a hypocrite is there a reason you desire that? I mean, I get it you are probably angry, but at some point, not for him but for you, you need to forgive him and move on with your life.

[Ryan210000]

Are you a religious Christian?

[Ryan210000]

You don't have to know him to know that he is being a hypocrite by him manipulating me (lying, tricking, etc.) for me to move in with him by saying it is cause he misses hanging out when that is a lie when he throws out my sins thinking he is a good Christian person and I am a bad Catholic person. Manipulation is an evil sin. What's next? You are going to tell me if you found out a murderer thinks they are a better Christian or Catholic than a Christian or Catholic person who lusts and you will say,"I can't say if they are a hypocrite cause I don't know the person." ?

[Ryan210000]

If someone tells me someone did something and I never communicated with that other person or if I saw on the news, heard on the radio, etc. that they were being a hypocritical judgmental Christian or Catholic, I would say they are a hypocrite.

[Ryan210000]

It only makes sense what you are saying that you don't know the person if the details aren't well of what happened/happens but I described fine.

[b_lova]

Was he wrong. Yes. Should you get over it because there are people on this world that will mistreat you no matter what you do? Absolutely.

You want me to say exactly what you want to hear so your pride will not be so hurt because of how he manipulated you. My refusal is because I have only heard one side of the situation and to be honest that doesn't make for revealing the full truth of a story. There is a reason I said I am no man's judge. To be frank with you at this point you sound like you are doing far more damage to yourself than he did or ever could.

[Ryan210000]

I bet if he did that to you, you would be singing a different tune and would think he is a hypocrite. And it seems you think manipulation is no big deal even though it is an evil sin but I bet you get mad at other evil sins that people do. I bet you get mad at people that lust but not lie to others to get money from them. No cherry picking.

[Ryan210000]

@blova are you a religious Christian or Catholic?

[b_lova]

Yes I am a Christian, but religion was never Christ's intent. He came to reestablish relationship between God and us which was lost when Adam and Eve sinned. One of Christ's teachings, which I follow is to love my enemies and pray for them. And to forgive those who wrong me as God has forgiven me. So no, I would not be harboring bad feelings for him. People have done far worse things to me but I move past it so that I may be healed.

The anger you feel towards him in the long run is hurting you more than it is hurting him and do you know how I know that is the case, because he probably hasn't thought twice about how he treated you while you based upon our discourse here, have allowed his misconduct to consume you. Which is exactly what the Devil wants. Again I say, you should let it go so you can move on with your life. But that decision rests in no person's hands but yournown. Personally I choose the peace that come from forgiveness and I pray that you will too.

[Ryan210000]

@Flatmanlewis this post but scroll way above for the question.

[TheSpider]

Well, he was right in the sense you shouldn't do that if you are a Christian. Doesn't sound like you are that Christian either. But look at it another way. what a TERRIBLE waste of your time and money. You can do better.

[Ryan210000]

Read details he has done worse yet acts like he is a better Christian and person

[Ryan210000]

Everyone sins and Christianity folks shouldn't judge and if he had done worse yet he thinks he is a better Christian and person

[Ryan210000]

He used me and attempted to use me which is worse

[Ryan210000]

I bet you are just like him with how you are judging.

[TheSpider]

Not gonna debate Christianity with you. But it wouldn't hurt you to crack open your KJV once in a while.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't think anything of it. People grow apart and lack common interests/outlooks all the time.

[spartan55]

"whore monger"? 😂 😂 😂 Dude sounds straight outta the 1920's.

[Ryan210000]

@spartan55 do you think he is a hypocrite for calling out my sins yet he attempted to use me for money and used me with his mom?

[spartan55]

@Ryan210000
Absolutely. In my experience holy rollers are some of the most bigoted, judgmental, hypocritical and phony people you'll encounter. I stay as far away as I can from those heathens.

[RavVid]

He simply doesn't understand how comely naked girls are.

[Ryan210000]

Im serious though what do you think of him judging me when he did what he did to me with using me and attempting to use me?

[RavVid]

Pretty shit what he did. I take the view it is a good thing though when people, who shouldn't be in your life, deal themselves out of it.

Mind you, I had to have some bad hurtful experiences to realize that. One was finding a 'friend' was talking derogatively about me.

[Ryan210000]

Do you agree he is a hypocrite though calling out my sins when he sins too?

[RavVid]

Sure is a hypocrite but not unusual for devout people to forgive their own sins but not other's.

[noohair]

INot compatable for friends. I have been to strip clubs but I don't takl about.

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of the sins he did towards me?

[slatyb]

I think you should stop talking to them.

[Ryan210000]

I have what you think of him?

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of him?

[slatyb]

I think he's a judgmental asshole. I have no time for people like that.

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of him attempting to use me for money cause wanting me to move in with only or mostly cause of that and him using me regarding his mom yet he acts like he is a better Christian than me?

[Ryan210000]

He also said how I judged him since he moved when all I did was bring up how he should communicate better with me since he moved. Yet he judged me. Lol. He also says how he would pray for my salvation, etc. He was a nice guy but changed a couple of months after he moved.

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of that?

[Ryan210000]

What do you think of him thinking he is a better Christian?

[slatyb]

My opinion hasn't changed. I knew a guy like that in a large ish activity group in Dallas. He got religion and was obnoxious about it. He lost a lot of friends.

[Ryan210000]

@slatyb I get you but do you think he is a hypocrite that is preaching out sins yet he sinned against me and and attempted to use me? Yes or no? Simple question.

[slatyb]

Does it help to pin a label on him? He's obnoxious and that's a reason to avoid him.

[slatyb]

I'm not religious. I generally believe people should save it for church. No one else wants to hear it.

[007kingifrit]

well yea it is a bad thing to do

[Ryan210000]

@007kingifrit and the bad stuff he did towards me? Or you cherry pick sins?

[007kingifrit]

you aren't responsible for what bad things other do to you. you can only work on yourself

the wrondoing of others gives you no permission to sin