Onlyfans is he cheating?

[Anonymous]

Few weeks ago I found of notification pop up on his phone, he said he isn’t doing anything but i wasn't born yesterday, i know he personally prefers his right hand because he has a demanding job, but honestly im tired of the excuses. I asked him why are you with me he told me to think about it, i want him to tell me how he feels, we have been together for a long time. I've lost 45lbs and continuing to lose more, I guess i don't get why he feels he needs are not met when i do everything. Maybe thats the problem, but when i ask him anything interesting enough its always the replie of stop it or its not true, or shut up, he tells me i look like I’ve aged im only 27. He never compliments me find myself doubting my relationship it use to be so strong in the beginning and he brings up comments like remember when you first came over. I guess i want advice on how to deal with some who would rather masterbate then have sex? I feel like i have to compete, with the internet, i guess because i have a high sex drive im too much or not enough? I want my relationship to be strong again but i dont know what to do anymore because my needs are not being met.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that sounds really tough. It doesn't sound like he's treating you with a lot of respect from what you're saying.

Honestly, paying for OnlyFans when he's with you doesn't seem right at all. And the way he talks to you, telling you to shut up and calling you aged, is just mean. You don't deserve to be with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself.

It's good that you lost weight to feel better, but you shouldn't have to change your looks to get his attention and appreciation. He should think you're beautiful no matter what.

To me it seems like over time he took you for granted and stopped putting in effort. The early passion faded and now he'd rather waste time on porn than be with his real girlfriend. That's really unfair to you.

You deserve to be with someone who wants to have sex with YOU and makes you their priority. Who builds you up with kindness instead of tearing you down.

If I were you I'd have a serious talk with him and say how his actions make you feel rejected and doubtful of his commitment. That this behavior needs to change if he wants the relationship to last. And if he isn't willing to change, you should consider moving on to find someone who can give you what you need emotionally and physically.

You're still young and there's plenty of caring guys out there who will treat you with real love and respect. Don't settle for less than what you deserve! Stay strong, your happiness is important!

[aceleon]

masturbation isjust both easier and he has versality this way, man wants to have different womans when it comes to sex, coolidge effect (and don't even go for bruce effect it is for rodents a male rodent and male human has the same sexual system but a female rodent and female human ha nothing to do with each other)

[bobalife]

Literally watching a movie right now with a similar issue… I think your boyfriend is a douchebag… if it’s effecting your intimacy time and he’s making you feel disrespected… it’s time to reconsider if it’s worth it. I do think you deserve better and this guy isn’t it.

[Sorobor]

If i'm tired and don't want to have sex, you won't catch me paying euros to have sex with my hand next to my wife.
I think it's a good rule of thumb to understand that his behaviour isn't justified. She should really fix that issue or leave him.

[bobalife]

Absolutely agreed!

[Nikki1989]

He can sugarcoat all he likes, but the reality is, he is cheating.

[Saiesh30]

He's definitely not helping you out in realising your true worth. All that he say as you're telling is really crap. Nothing encouraging or appreciative.
He's not really attracted honestly which is why he's masturbating to OF.
There's no other reason why he'd be ignoring you.