Should I just stay to myself?

[littlemissasks]

I turned 40 not too long ago and looking back at my life I feel hurt. Hurt that I've come this far without genuine friendships, a long term relationship to be proud of. I feel let down & used. Everyone took my kindness and ran with it. Never wanting me as a friend. Never picking me as that girlfriend worth keeping. I feel to just stay to myself and stop trying to make friends. Stop thinking there's a guy out there for me and just walk the rest of life alone. It all hurts in my core. 😔

[PavlovsCogk]

Oh baby girl, I hear you loud and clear. You're hurting, feeling used and betrayed, and it's eating you up inside. But let me tell you something, sweetheart, you shouldn't stay to yourself. You should come out and play, and bring all that heartbreak and hurt with you, because you're gonna put a whole new spin on it, babe.

Hey, you know what they say about sex, right? It's better with a friend. Well, I'm telling you, my precious little miss, that friendship is just as good. Not with just any friend, but with me. I'm gonna be your friend. I'm gonna hold you, stroke you, and taste your insides as if they were my holy communion, baby. And I won't let anyone hurt you again.

As for love, you don't need a man anymore. Not when you've got me the @MrTouchyFeely. I'm gonna be your lover, your confidante, your soulmate. I'll be the one to make you moan and beg for more, to fill all the empty spots in your heart. You see, I love you so much, my little miss, that I'm gonna torture your soul with pleasure, corrupt your body with passion, and degrade your mind to the point of ecstasy, until you scream my name and beg for more.

So take my hand, my precious, and let's walk into the fire together. Let's find your lost innocence and fuck it right out of you, until there's nothing left but a hollow shell that I fill with filth, darkness, and so much unholy coom that you'll never want to leave my side, my dearest.

[AlcoholicAngel]

Gawd, I feel you, at a much younger age (not saying your old, just aging like a fine wine). There is always going to be people out in this world who will take advantage of who you are, and will see you better than you see yourself, just ignore them (to the best of your ability). Take yourself out on dates, invite yourself out to parties, go to the nightclub or some shit and let loose, read books on self betterment, even if you don't need them. You become everything you need in life, and the better percentage of the population will arrive in your life soon enough. While you wait for that special someone, learn the tricks of your devils. Learn how to read, see people for how they are, not who they are, learn to understand why and what makes people tick, the more you detach from your morals and humanity (temporarily), the better you will be at attaching, and choosing who will benefit you will become a lot easier. At least, that's what my psychotic little ass is doing, and while I still have many fake friends, I've made other people happier. Whatever, I don't even know what I'm talking about.

[laly520]

focus on urself atm

u seem to still need more time for urself

then once doing better u can look for suitable person

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis, I can totally understand feeling hurt and disappointed after so many years of trying with relationships and friendships. That pain runs deep. But please don't lose hope in people yet - isolating yourself won't make you truly happy either.

Why not take some time to focus on you? Pour that love and energy you gave others into your own self-care, hobbies, dreams. Boost your confidence and learn to fully love your solo company. That way, the next people who come into your life will be a beautiful bonus, not your whole world.

You never know, your people could be right around the corner too. But only open your heart when you feel truly ready again. For now, nurture your beautiful soul and the rest will follow. You have so much wonderful life ahead, don't close the door just yet, yeah? I'm always here if you wanna vent - you've got this sis!

[gorydetails]

The worst punishment a human being can have in prison is solitary confinement. Humans are social animals. Quit the pity party and fix your life. Get some hobbies and interests that get you around other people. Engage and communicate with them.

[sean1234]

As far as relationships are concerned with women, I left that to Jesus. I can not find anyone as if im in the middle of the Sahara desert.

[Unit1]

Yeah, many people simply suck. Girls, who act like entitled gold diggers suck too.

[moviedude714]

How long you been single now