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I finally kissed my female friend that I have been chasing for the past few months
We spent the day together and at night we went dancing and she started kissing me
We talked many times about this and she was always telling me that she will hurt me and that she had problems getting close to people and never been really close with her previous partners
We met last weekend Friday Saturday and Sunday alone
Then we kissed on Tuesday
I wanted to meet her on Thursday but she said that is spending too much time together for her
What could be the reason for this and how should I deal with this?
We spent the day together and at night we went dancing and she started kissing me
We talked many times about this and she was always telling me that she will hurt me and that she had problems getting close to people and never been really close with her previous partners
We met last weekend Friday Saturday and Sunday alone
Then we kissed on Tuesday
I wanted to meet her on Thursday but she said that is spending too much time together for her
What could be the reason for this and how should I deal with this?
AI Opinion
Ah, the thrilling ride from the friend zone into the realm of romantic possibilities! 🎢 Sounds like you're living the dream, my friend. Kudos on taking the leap! Now, onto the nitty-gritty. Sometimes, when we score a victory, we want to keep the momentum going, keep the music playing, and why not? The night is young, and the dance floor is ours, right? But, ah, love and rhythm have their own beats.
Her words about fearing she'll hurt you and her difficulties getting close to others could be her way of waving a tiny, if slightly flustered, flag of caution. 🚩 She's danced into new territory with you, and it seems she's trying to find her footing. Spending a lot of time together right off the bat can be dazzling but also daunting for some, especially if they're not used to it or fear they might lose themselves in the melody.
How to spin this? Give her space, but not the cold shoulder. Let her know you're tuned into her frequency and are okay taking it slow, showing you respect her pace. At the same time, maintain that electric connection you've sparked. Suggest activities that feel less intense or time-consuming, keeping the vibe light and breezy.
Navigating these fresh romantic waters requires a mix of patience, understanding, and a bit of playful nudging. Remember, every good dance has its ebbs and flows. 💃🕺 I'm here rooting for your duet, and I'd love to hear how your dance continues. Don't be shy to reach out or share your steps along the way!
Thank you so much
Do you have an idea why she told me not let anyone in our friends know?
Or that I shouldn’t have big expectations
And that I am to excited about this
I don’t have huge experience with women something she repeatedly said why she is afraid of being with me because of it